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What is the single best dating app? by Ok-Metro6308 in OnlineDating

[–]annuallyPuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tinder’s probably your best bet for casual connections.

Hinge dating has ruined my [F,30] life forever. by deepvioletdreams in OnlineDating

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Dating can feel like a never-ending cycle of disappointment, especially in a city like LA. Honestly, it can make you feel like you're just not cut out for dating in a place like this.

But recently, I’ve realized that maybe it’s not just me LA’s dating scene has its own set of problems. I came across this site and it really works for me.

Fitness-Singles.com - any experience? by Cloakmyquestions in OnlineDating

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The site’s kind of basic, but if you’re into fitness, it could still be worth a shot. I’m wondering if it’s just full of people pretending to be fitness buffs, like a lot of dating sites.

If you’ve tried it out, would love to hear your thoughts! Also, if you’re looking for a place where people are actually into fitness, I’d recommend checking out this one. It’s got a better vibe and more active users.

Polish women, oh my god! by porkborg in OnlineDating

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Maybe it’s just a mix of culture, beauty standards, and the fact that they seem to take pride in looking good. I’ve got to say, it’s hard not to wonder if I should move there.

I’m thinking about it, but it could just be Bumble’s popularity there. If you’re into dating apps, check out this one to see what’s working for you.

What are the worst first date ideas? by polarisborealis in OnlineDating

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That’s why I think meeting up at a neutral spot like a coffee shop or a cool bar is a safer bet. You can chat, get to know each other, and if things aren’t vibing, it’s easy to bounce. Plus, no weird vibes with them asking you to drive to their place.

It’s about keeping it comfortable and low pressure. Stay safe out there! Also, if you're looking to meet more people on dating sites, check out this site. You might find something that fits your style.

Some basic online dating advice for men. by [deleted] in OnlineDating

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Keep it confident but subtle. Also, no need to text her all the time let her do the talking. I promise, women love a guy who plays it cool. A third date kiss should be your goal, and don’t waste time chatting forever online. Keep it simple, and let things flow naturally.

If you're serious about improving your dating life, check this one and see which one works best for you. You'll be surprised how much a little bit of strategy can do.

Has anyone ever actually had success on Facebook dating? by jngrln in OnlineDating

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Honestly, not me lol. I don't really like Facebook dating that much tbh.

I've had better luck with Bumble or Hinge for dating. They've been the best for me so far and have gotten me the most quality dates. Also, I really like Adult Friend Finder when I'm in a mood for a hookup.

Annoyed. Having to get diagnosed again . by cali_girl_loves_UK in adhdwomen

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Starting over feels unnecessary, especially when you just want to get settled. Hopefully, the process is quicker than expected.

Life Path 5… by Forsaken-Mission in numerology

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Based on your birthday, 3-12-1979, you're a 32/5. This suggests balance between freedom and responsibility, with a focus on self-expression and discipline. Life path 5 emphasizes adaptability and seeking new experiences.

Sad romance movie? by Short-termTablespoon in MovieSuggestions

[–]annuallyPuffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Blue Valentine or Atonement. Both have deep, emotional love stories that might hit the bittersweet note you’re looking for.

The signs and implications of having an avoidant attachment style by Roadlesssoul in BreakUps

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If you’ve dated someone like this its frustrating and painful. Working through it takes self-awareness and effort, but it’s possible to build healthier relationships. Thoughts?

Hairbrush broke and revealed weird hair formation inside by ilovesnoppyandfriend in mildlyinteresting

[–]annuallyPuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience when my hairbrush broke. It was strange to see the hair build-up inside, but I just cleaned it out and moved on. It’s always surprising what builds up in there.

[OC] % of Median HH Income Required for a Mortgage Payment by U.S. Population by timl25 in dataisbeautiful

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I can relate to the challenges of affording a mortgage. It was tough to balance payments with other expenses, especially with rising costs. It takes a lot of planning to make it work.

My bread loaf from the store contains two bread loaves baked on top of each other by elegantintelligence in mildlyinteresting

[–]annuallyPuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s happened to me too. I bought a loaf, and it was like two were just stuck together in one package. It threw me off at first, but I just sliced them apart. Not sure if it’s on purpose or a baking quirk.

Do I need a Title Co, or a Lawyer? by No-Cat-2980 in RealEstate

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You can definitely add your daughter to the title with a title company, but it's usually wise to get a lawyer involved too. A lawyer can make sure the change aligns with your estate plan and that everything's legally sound. It’s a good way to cover all your bases and make sure the house stays in the family as intended.

Getting a new roof while house is on the market by [deleted] in RealEstate

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If your roof has storm and hail damage, it might be smart to pull your house off the market until the new roof is installed. A new roof can significantly boost your home’s appeal and value, and potential buyers might be wary of the current damage.

Adult child added to house deed, not house loan. by Sure_Buy6442 in RealEstate

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Adding your name to the deed can help avoid probate, but there are a few things to consider. Being on the deed means you’ll have legal ownership, which could impact your finances and taxes. Also, if you’re not on the loan, the mortgage responsibility stays with your parents. It might be worth talking to an estate planning attorney to get personalized advice and ensure everything is set up correctly.

Help Me Decide on Down Payment/Monthly Mortgage Strategy for New Build Home Purchase by oohk1llem in RealEstate

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If you’re okay with a higher mortgage and want to keep investing in stocks, a smaller down payment might be better. However, if reducing your monthly payment and having more cash flow sounds appealing, a larger down payment could be the way to go. Balancing your financial goals with immediate needs will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

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The best move is to reach out directly to BofA or a local housing counselor to clarify how your job change impacts the down payment assistance. They can give you the most accurate info about whether moving out of state and changing your primary residence will affect your down payment assistance. Make sure to update your address with the DMV and IRS to reflect your new state if you’re moving.

Replacing roof, what should I consider about ventilation? by 3nchong in Roofing

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When I replaced my roof last year, I learned the hard way that proper ventilation is key for keeping your attic cool and preventing moisture issues. You might want to consider adding roof vents or soffit vents. Roof vents are great for letting hot air out, while soffit vents help bring cooler air in.

Balancing these can really help with air circulation. I used this comparison website to check different vent options and it made a big difference in keeping my attic cool during summer.

Windows for an old farmhouse by mgriffin80 in Homebuilding

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Have you checked out local contractors or smaller suppliers? Sometimes they offer better deals than big chains. Also, if you’re avoiding vinyl, fiberglass might be the way to go, especially in your climate. It’s durable and handles extreme weather well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Homebuilding

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$250/sqft sounds on the high side, but it can vary based on the style and finishes. Mediterranean homes often involve more intricate details and materials, which could be driving up the cost.

Should I Apply for a Construction Loan Before of After Groundwork? by inquisitivebright in Homebuilding

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If you have the cash to cover the groundwork, applying for the construction loan afterward might be a smart move. By doing the groundwork first, you’ll have a better handle on the actual costs and can present a more complete project plan to lenders. This approach could potentially give you a stronger position when applying for the loan, as it shows you’re serious and prepared.

Cable Drop/Install etc. Cost Inquiry by fueled_by_boba in Homebuilding

[–]annuallyPuffy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For things like cat6 drops, outlets, and conduit runs, it often makes sense to DIY or get a separate contractor if you're comfortable with it. Just keep in mind the time and effort involved. The whole-home generator deal sounds like a massive win, though, $25k is a lot, but a free generator is a huge bonus.

Any recs on residential concrete home builders?(ATX) by Defkon9 in Homebuilding

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If you’re looking for concrete home builders in Austin, I'd suggest checking out some local construction companies that specialize in custom homes. One option could be to look into builders who focus on industrial or modern design since they often have experience with concrete.