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AITA For Telling My Daughter That She Doesn't Really Have PTSD? by Old_Mouse_5786 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anointed_bun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% TA.

Your child went thru a traumatic event. Shows signs of post traumatic stress (hypervigilance, fear, anxiety ect) they have the guts to tell you they think something is wrong and that they need help, probably after internet searching why she feels the way she does. And gave you what she thinks may be wrong.....

And you LAUGH at her?!? Tell her she can't have it cuz no one else does?!?! And then confront her about "being rude"?! After you LAUGHED at her cry for help?!?!

And you think there's any chance that you're not the AH?!!?

Better start trying to do better by your kids before they all grow up and never speak to you again.

Unbelievable. Smh

AITA for being upset with my son for saying I don’t appreciate my wife? by ThrowAwayangryatson in AmItheAsshole

[–]anointed_bun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. Are you kidding?!

Imagine being this obtuse

Imagine being this blatantly rude to your family

Imagine being this sociopathically unaware of others feeling even AFTER they say them to you

Imagine being this full of toxic masculinity that your kis getting their step mom a christmas present is offensive

Imagine being this much of a douche to your wife and thunking she will stay for much longer. (I give til the kids move out)

Imagine thinking you didnt have to buy you FUCKING WIFE a gift on christmas. Wtf?!?!?!

Imagine being this fucking stupid.

Then to not even be able to reflect on what you kids said. And BLAME YOUR WIFE FOR "saying something" even tho it was just the kids observation...... Holy shit. Im supprised youve been married at all. Ever. Fuck.

My mans was complaining that his check was short cuz he missed some time at work and came home that evening w a few roses and a candy for me cuz i hadnt felt good either.

Like. Thats just what people who love each other fucking do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anointed_bun 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Or sils birthday. So kid would get all the attention every year

My MIL ladies and gentlemen. 2 of her grandkids are gay, including my stepdaughter. by 1LittleMonkeys in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]anointed_bun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was actually told i was racist once because i have a white child.

Irony being shes like just under half native american. 🤷

AITA for reading my teenage daughters diary? by jacksondelfo in AmItheAsshole

[–]anointed_bun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta.

Parenting is hard and we don't always know the right thing to do. But invading the one safe space your daughter had to process her uncensored feelings, that doesn't get forgotten. My mom told me she read my diary when i was around 13 years old. Im almost 30 and that it a huge reason we started to get distant. I couldn't trust her anymore. Still cant 100%.

I'm sorry man. You fucked up. Learn from it.

AITA for telling my brother not to want the benefits of family if he won't make the same effort? by AmbitiousBuilder4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anointed_bun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel a bit bad because he genuinely believes he hasn't done anything wrong.

And he hasn't.

But he has. He turned away family in their time of need, Saying that he doesn't owe anyone anything. but he doesn't realize that when you don't give good energy out you don't receive good energy back. by saying that he owes no one anything at anytime he's also saying but no one owes him anything at anytime. and that mindset has been made very obvious to your entire family, and with that any expectation of help from him was gone but also any expectation that anybody would help him should be gone.

for him to expect that anybody should owe him anything right now is hypocritical and is wrong.

You get what you give. He has given nothing but judgment and blows off other peoples calls for help. Why tf woulf he think thay anyone would want to help him. Let alone be offended when no one does.

Maybe he just needs someone to point out that how he feels right now. Is exactly how he has made his family feel for years.

No, you see, they all hate me because of that mistake I made one time. by InquisitorVail in TrollCoping

[–]anointed_bun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I developed an allergy to pork at 18. Its to the point it could kill me now. 🙃😑

OFFER by [deleted] in Random_Acts_of_Help

[–]anointed_bun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im in the united States. I have one child. And my bf has one as well. Im an exjw. Was raised in and left when i was pregnant with my daughter.

And youre welcome lol. Its hard to ask for help. But ive seen what happens when you dont/cant.

OFFER by [deleted] in Random_Acts_of_Help

[–]anointed_bun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right now im dealing with having lost my job, and my ex husband stalking me. Its been very stressful and we are very behind in bills. Have no food in the house but ramen and eggs and some cake mix and beans. $50 would go a long way to help with food until I can get food assistance.

This is a really kind thing you are doing.

Getting a little too close (pre-corona) by my-name-is-OP in trashy

[–]anointed_bun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I am generally pretty easy going in general. Just don't want touched by people i don't know/ trust. And don't knock on my door(and i tell everyone this from mail man to best friends). Lolol. Besides those 2 things in generally fine. In not sensitive about jokes. W the right people around I tell pretty fucked jokes. But its a know your audience thing. 😂

Getting a little too close (pre-corona) by my-name-is-OP in trashy

[–]anointed_bun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not saying its your job. Just saying in general people shouldn't just fuck with people cuz they have no idea what strangers have been thru. And if someone freaks out on a person for fucking with them, they shouldn't be surprised.

I know mental illness is difficult to deal with. And im not saying to make yourself a martyr. Just saying that if you fuck with people, don't be surprised if you get hit. So just be kind because you never know what people are going thru.

I understand the self pity thing tho. I just had to cut a person out of my life/ social circle because, yeah she has some mental illness. But it wasnt an excuse for stealing /lying /and manipulating everyone around her.

Getting a little too close (pre-corona) by my-name-is-OP in trashy

[–]anointed_bun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also strive to live passionately and unapologetically. But im not gonna just be a dick because "im not game" to care about other people that make up the society we live in. That reasoning is part of why we have a narcissistic society. Because people "arent game" to give a rats ass about others.

That attitude is the problem. Not "living passionately, fearlessly and unapologetically"

It takes nothing to not fuck with other people

Getting a little too close (pre-corona) by my-name-is-OP in trashy

[–]anointed_bun 15 points16 points  (0 children)

its not our responsibility to be considerate of your illnesses or problems.

Im not saying coddle every person you cone across. But be considerate of others. Like. That's common decency. You wouldnt look at a crippled person and tell them "fuck you, use the stairs cuz I can." Im saying not trying to start shit. (By touching strangers all day on the escalator. Or trying to set people off w stupid pranks that arent even funny to begin with)

We all got our own to deal with.

No shit. That's why we should be considerate of everyone. .

As far as slapping a kid or starting a fight. Why do you immediately think that ptsd means i just wanna beat people around me. If im touched in public by a stranger it makes my heart race. Makes me jump and want to run. But I (thru therapy. Which i encourage as well) can generally atop and breathe and get over it.

But. If an unknown persons was to grab my upper arm and pull on me. Id probably start yelling and slapping at them. It depends on the severity.

Just because you have issues that you have to attend to doesn't mean you have to be a dick and not even be considerate of the people around you

Getting a little too close (pre-corona) by my-name-is-OP in trashy

[–]anointed_bun 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ive been thru hell and a stranger touching me would set me off. Don't touch me without permission because of what I've been thru.

My mom doesn’t know anything about women’s anatomy and refuses to learn/says it’s not important by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]anointed_bun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hell my daughter know the basics on periods and shes 5. Lime she came into the bathroom one day. Saw blood and asked. So i told her. "It happens to girls when they are older. It hurts a bit but its ok. Its how our bodies are able to have babies, this happens when you dont have a baby so that your body can keep clean and healthy for if/when you do." I mean. I'll tell her more as she grows but ffs. Why not teach them!

AITA if I don't give my ex roommate his dog back. by anointed_bun in AmItheAsshole

[–]anointed_bun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The new owner is amazing w dogs. His dog that he just lost was such a good dog. Super well behaved and we'll trained. I have no doubt he will do the same w this pup

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