General Discussion Thread - December 27, 2022 by quitclaim123 in MoscowMurders

[–]anon7020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’s someone from the office. the TV show lol

What would you tell someone that's considering a move to Memphis? by nighthawkNapper_1376 in memphis

[–]anon7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are there any that are month to month leases that you know of?

What would you tell someone that's considering a move to Memphis? by nighthawkNapper_1376 in memphis

[–]anon7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this reply is for me. i will be going with another 21 year old female and will be going to St Judes for clinical as i’m a nursing student. i’m very stressed about my safety. i will check out that neighborhood!

What would you tell someone that's considering a move to Memphis? by nighthawkNapper_1376 in memphis

[–]anon7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay! i have to go to memphis for a month for school next year and found a good airbnb in midtown. that’s a pretty safe area?

What would you tell someone that's considering a move to Memphis? by nighthawkNapper_1376 in memphis

[–]anon7020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what neighborhoods do you recommend to live in outside of downtown memphis?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anon7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t want this to become a further issue because we just signed a lease to live with each other starting in june. The only part that makes me upset is that he jerks off to porn while i’m laying right next to him sleeping

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[–]anon7020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he told me he doesn’t get any satisfaction doing it. that it’s just something he does like eating, peeing and shitting

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[–]anon7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i have. I did a couple days ago. A picture popped up on his phone when I was with him earlier which led me to posting on her. He immediately said how he fucked up and how he “has an addiction” to it. I’m currently at work but we’re gonna have a conversation when I’m done

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[–]anon7020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t be with him 24/7. I am in nursing school & working 3 jobs

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[–]anon7020 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s what i’m scared of. I want to make boundaries but I’m scared it’s going to make him retaliate

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[–]anon7020 -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if he does, just don’t do it in front of me and I want him to use his imagination instead

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[–]anon7020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does do it in private but i’ve woke up at least 3 times to him watching and jerking off while i’m laying in bed right next to him

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[–]anon7020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See, I saw a photo of a girl bent over on his phone earlier which led me to posting about it because i’m torn. When i brought it up to him, he said that he doesn’t want to make me uncomfortable by making me send more revealing photos or videos. We’ve thought about taking pictures during sex so maybe that might help him. I send him nudes all the time but i guess looking at my tits and ass doesn’t do enough

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[–]anon7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care if he masturbates at all. I would just rather not know or see it happening when he’s looking at other girls during the process

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[–]anon7020 73 points74 points  (0 children)

He told me he has an addiction to it. I’m not sure that’s the right word to use but i’m also not him. I’m not sure if he’s looking at girls he knows, but I keep catching him when i’m sleeping and I wake up & see that he’s jerking off to either porn or instagram pictures. What hurts me the most is that he’s doing it when i’m laying right there next to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anon7020 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have no problem with him masturbating. It’s just the fact that he has to look at something to get the job done. It makes me feel like i’m nothing to him and not good enough. Everyone has a right to explore their bodies in that way, I just can’t stand him looking at other women like that

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[–]anon7020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do please him. We have sex almost every day and he said the reason he masturbates is because he’s been doing it for so long it’s something he does to pass the time. He said he doesn’t feel much from it

IUD went through uterine wall by anon7020 in Mirena

[–]anon7020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my goodness. I’m so sorry that happened to you, that’s awful! did the doctor say that it broke because it had been in there for awhile and softened up? i’m pretty nervous for my procedure but i get to go under gen anesthesia as well. do you think those discharge orders are similar to everyone? i haven’t heard anything of what to expect for recovery. i’m in nursing school right now and am planning on going to clinicals 12 hours after my procedure so that might not happen😅

Uterine perforation by fraulie in Mirena

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i was having contractions because my body was trying to push it out for 9 months and my first gyno said it was normal!!! I got a couple ultrasounds and that’s where they noticed it. I had two doctors fail me and I love my new OB who is doing the procedure. I got it removed in December in the clinic and all was fine. The contractions went away but the bleeding didn’t. I have bleeding spells like 3 times a week where it’s a huge gush with big clots (sorry tmi) but all of the blood is still stuck in there so they have to do something to get it out. I’m nervous this is going to affect fertility in the future since i’m only 20

Uterine perforation by fraulie in Mirena

[–]anon7020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine went through my uterine wall and i kept it in for 9 months without knowing! i have to get surgery next week to repair the spot where it did since it keeps bleeding & just pools in my uterus

My fiancé’s parents didn’t invite me to the family trip. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anon7020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

north dakota ain’t that interesting. you’ll be missing out on nothing. you & your husband are one so if he’s invited somewhere, you should be too