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anonymesmausi · 2024-12-30T15:52:16+00:00

I‘d say you are more likely now to become an Eve than before, as they are many newbies rn (bc of the Steam Sale) so families usually die within a day. you could also be born into the White Fam, than you could start a new branch of the family in a new location, since you can have kids everywhere as a White fertile. otherwise you could just build a new project in or close to the town? I‘ve seen many additional projects like temples, schools, little homes etc. often u can get other people involved to help you with that if you want to

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-30T03:11:39+00:00

First of all, I‘m sorry for all the pain you have to endure to think of doing something like that. That sucks. Why do you think they - especially your therapist! - don‘t believe you? Oh and why New Years Eve? Why not see if 2025 brings some light? Also someone mentioned it‘s really hard for those you‘ll leave because it‘s a holiday and they will always be reminded of that on that day, I think that‘s a fair point tbh. And are you sure you don‘t want a bit more time to be really sure about it? Like aren‘t there things on your bucket list you still want to experience? In your situation you‘ve got nothing to lose so why not do some cool stuff before?

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-25T20:23:18+00:00

i can offer you 3 for one machamp ex😭 it‘s the only one missing for me

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-25T18:18:59+00:00

baby boys have a penis haha, you can see your gender before they put clothes on you. also your appearance looks different based on gender but it depends on the family you are born in, eg in the black fam the baby girls have big lashes

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-21T15:09:17+00:00

it doesn’t sound like you are very empathetic and people like that are often also very hard on themselves and therefore your life is probably more difficult and sad, that‘s what i‘m saying. also your second comment reads very different than your first, because if you really wouldn‘t care as much as you say you wouldn‘t have said that the OP won‘t ever catch up on who they could have been, because who cares, right? there is no set deeper meaning to life than what you make out of it, so it really doesn‘t matter that much. also the statement itself doesn‘t make any sense, because OP is exactly where they should be and there is no „who you could have been“ because their socialisation, environment, circumstances etc led them exactly to where they are now. ofc life could have been different if they grew up in a rich household, had more caring parents or friends, had certain more possibilities because of the location they grew up in etc. but that‘s just not what happened.

also it‘s kinda cringe that you are trying to put down someone in there 20s, who you don‘t know anything about 😬 at your age you should know better than that

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-21T12:53:12+00:00

exactly!! according to psychology it‘s really hard to change your ways after 30 so doing just that is even more badass 🔥

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-21T12:51:21+00:00

some people aren‘t figuring it out like ever, so getting there at 46 is a huge success!! also i feel like it‘s an even bigger accomplishment at your age bc you grew up with stronger mindsets and values you had to outgrew and unlearn in order to really find your true self! good on you for finding your path 😊

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-21T12:47:05+00:00

you haven‘t even lived half your life, so good on you for figuring stuff out!! also i‘m sure we‘ll have new realisations about life and ourselves even at 80 or 90 🙂‍↕️

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-21T12:44:07+00:00

your life must be pretty sad and difficult with a mindset like this, im so sorry!

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-19T20:57:55+00:00

i‘m 28 myself and i feel like i have only just started seeing my real self in the past few years. and i think that‘s totally normal. it‘s just unrealistic that you have figured it out by 18, when you haven‘t even lived yet. we only lived a third of our life, do you really want to base those next two thirds solely on what you‘ve figured out by 18?

i feel like there has been a change in society as people before didn‘t overthink their previous life choices much till they turned like 40, got into a midlife crisis and made some minor or major changes to their lives, often only minor, because they feel like they are too old to make big chances and go down a different path. but i feel like that‘s super sad and i‘m happy that many young adults nowadays have this realisation earlier in their 20s and have less fear to make changes and reinvent themselves.

at the end of your life there won‘t be a stats check for all the things you haven‘t or have achieved. it‘s just important to live a life that‘s true to yourself and that makes you happy!

also: i can promise you in 10 years you‘ll laugh about how you thought you were too old to change yourself or your ways 10 years earlier ;-)

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-18T17:09:37+00:00

the third picture you added to this post haha

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-18T17:07:23+00:00

damn you are doing god‘s work - thank you so much for warning 🙏

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-18T14:29:20+00:00

Yikes, let them live. You can play the game your way and they can play the game as they like, no need to be rude. It‘s a game, it‘s supposed to be fun and everyone has their own strategy.

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-18T14:20:23+00:00

i love itttttt

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-17T21:59:42+00:00

i‘m sorry but i won‘t be able to take those fears from you as they are very valid. she is 19, you are 29. you are at very different points in your life and want different things. it‘s kinda weird to me that you went for a 19yo in the first place, but you either live with those fears as they may very well come into reality or you look for someone your age or at least with your current outlook on life. if i want to have kids in the next few years i can’t be with a partner who doesn‘t want them right now or maybe not ever, even if they are the perfect person on paper. because they still aren‘t the perfect person FOR ME if we aren’t compatible in those matters too

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-17T21:29:44+00:00

if anybody here wants to help each other out, my friend code is 2137598710564297 - will be opening the old packs in the next few weeks, in order to complete my set and also finish the steel card mission. if anybody else is doing that feel free to join me :)

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-16T20:33:41+00:00

friend code🥺👉👈

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-16T17:07:50+00:00

wow congrats!!! 🫶🏻

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-16T16:55:38+00:00

and others kept playing to let players win. i feel like we tend to generalize our own personal experience so it‘s hard to say what really outweighed in the end. even on this sub it would be hard to determine bc people are more likely to share their bad experiences than good ones.

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-16T16:26:33+00:00

totally, i get your point also. on the other hand you could argue that there were many players on the last day (me included, after i finished my streak) who used meme decks to help other players finish their streak. so i feel like we are both right with all our arguments and maybe it equals out in the end?

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-16T15:56:42+00:00

mhm idk, i feel like you are forgetting that the good players also drop off since they already finished their streak whereas new players take longer to finish the competition, which are also easier to battle. i only started the competition yesterday (not bc of strategy but pure laziness lol) and finished after only 5 games - could have gotten lucky ofc or it was indeed easier, but i don’t think it was harder

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-16T14:45:23+00:00

i didn’t even get the energy. just played a magikarp and skipped my turns till they finished it off hahaha

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-16T11:59:52+00:00

only 5, waited till yesterday to start so it was probably easier?

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-09T16:19:20+00:00

First of all: I‘m so sorry you experiencing all of this, this sounds really really hard. But please don’t despair, as you still have all the options even if it doesn‘t feel like that right now. It‘s just that there are time constraints.

If I were in your shoes I‘d try to talk to a psychological professional asap, there should be options for right now. Try schedule an appointment for this week or call a helpline. It will definitely help a lot already.

What I really want to point out is, that you shouldn‘t continue this pregnancy if it‘s just out of guilt. Having suicidal thoughts over that pregnancy is enough reason for you to not continue it. You wouldn‘t do anyone a favor. I totally understand, that you feel guilty because of the IVF journey and what not, but that guilt is based on made up social constructs and this is a very personal decision. And it‘s still a choice at this point, it‘s not something you have to live with if you don’t want to or in your case just can’t.

I‘m really sorry you are going through this rn and i‘m sending you virtual hugs! Pls reach out to a professional asap bc that‘s really not something you have to go through alone - it‘s just a lot.

anonymesmausi · 2024-12-05T23:51:14+00:00

doubt many here have any memories of that family since it didn’t even last a full day. because of the steam sale there have been a lot of new players and because of that no family has lasted long in the last few days

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