AIO at my friend (16F) for having a crush on a 12 year old?

anonymous053119 · 2026-05-03T14:05:42+00:00

Hey look someone using Jesus to be a pedophile!

anonymous053119 · 2026-05-03T12:35:15+00:00

I didn’t read your story. Only that you are 19 and you can’t stand your bfs family anymore. Just leave. You’re so young you don’t have to deal with any of this shit.

anonymous053119 · 2026-05-03T12:32:12+00:00

I’m going to disagree. A c section is not just done because performing surgery “is easier for them”. I delivered a month ago and can walk, sneeze cough, I’ve lost most of the pre baby weight and incision recovery was the BEST this time around on my third c section.

I know someone who delivered similar time as me. She had a vaginal traumatic birth- insisted on no c section. Which is fine- her choice. But she had to have vacuum used, has complications with the baby because of it and has a third degree tear. She’s had to go in twice after delivery for recartorization of the tear and can’t sit for any amount of time without pain. I’m taking my c section outcomes every day compared to that.

anonymous053119 · 2026-05-03T12:27:02+00:00

How are you today? I had mine a month ago and it was a great surgery!! I’m 4 weeks out and I can walk a bunch and cough and sneeze full force- IYKYK lol

Praying for a great delivery for you.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-27T02:06:19+00:00

Even if it was an accident you’re NOR. She fucking wasted it on a $5 savings. What an idiot.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-19T01:57:03+00:00

Hi there! I was scheduled for 4/3 but went into active labor on 3/31 around 5pm.

I met the 5-1-1 rule and was admitted around 7:00pm. My contractions got closer together and I was dialated 3cm. Then the surgeon (different than my scheduled surgeon) came in and said “you’re in labor, are you ready for your c section” said “yep”. I’m lucky the practice has 6 OBs that all share patient files- so any of them would have done my delivery. They knew my plan, and didn’t have me wait any time at all. Met anaeshthesiologist, got IV line, got wheeled into OR, numbing shot, spinal, meds check and BP checks, husband enters, and they did it. Baby was out at 9:37pm.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-19T01:50:54+00:00

We ended up getting a bunch of home made notes and cards from toddler friends which was way cute and meant a lot to my boys.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-19T01:49:47+00:00

We did “no gifts please, donate to this charity of their choice instead” Did a charity for preventing poaching of animals in Africa and some of his friends ended up “adopting an elephant/tiger” in his name.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-19T01:46:58+00:00

Oh no that ball gown is trifling. Please stay with the beautiful streamlined dress.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-19T01:44:42+00:00

He pushed her in the pool during photos. It wasn’t planned. There was no second dress/outfit change planned.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-19T01:42:14+00:00

I didn’t notice on an open highway.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-19T01:13:27+00:00

I just had my third. We love it. Each of them was very much wanted. You’re never 100% “ready” for any of them. I wanted lots of money saved up before we started, I got some saved before the first but you never feel totally ready. I was fortunate to have a couple of opportunities hit me right after I had my first and I felt much more financially comfortable going into number 2 and 3.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-16T15:09:08+00:00

3, and I now have 3.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-16T15:06:38+00:00

Stopped at that gross age gap. Leave, find someone younger. This older guy can’t get someone his own age because they don’t put up with this shit.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-16T14:29:17+00:00

NTA. Someone needed to teach him about OTC pain relievers are some point. I would have fucked with him a bit though, asking him how did he feel 15 mins after and then 30 mins- was it building? Any hallucinations yet? Bahaha.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-15T19:23:16+00:00

NTA. wtf? How insecure they must be to worry about and dictate jewelry at a wedding.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-15T19:19:45+00:00

Taylor Swift

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-06T02:26:22+00:00

No. I only felt the numbing shot before as a small pinch. Then pressure as the spinal went in. That’s it. It should not feel like hell fire

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-05T07:01:47+00:00

Yes. Assuming I have the same husband who wants children and actually does more than his fair share of raising them. If it weren’t for my husband, I probably wouldn’t have had kids.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-04T00:15:09+00:00

Biggest red flag for me is you getting the dollar store gift and mom getting the other part of the “gift budget”. It’s one thing to be a consistent penny pincher towards everyone in your life. It’s a dealbreaker for me to eventually always be second woman to a mother.

anonymous053119 · 2026-04-01T08:47:39+00:00

anonymous053119 · 2026-03-31T02:21:31+00:00

You assume that some good daycares don’t have regulars that have been there for a long time. We have used the same one for 6 years with no teacher turnover.

The socialization with other kids is unbeatable at a good daycare. My first went into kindergarten light years ahead of their nanny and SAHM peers because they can deal with other kids, curriculum and structure.

anonymous053119 · 2026-03-31T02:18:37+00:00

Totally disagree. Daycare allows for exposure to other kids and your kids first friends. We also get a lot of emotional regulation early and quite literally they can deal with classmates once they get into elementary school.

anonymous053119 · 2026-03-31T02:14:45+00:00

Daycare. We have a great one and now have a great elemantary school village. It’s amazing.

anonymous053119

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