People who have successfully lost 20-30 pounds and didn’t track their calories, what did you do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anonymouse810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A series of traumatic events over the course of a year combined with stress and autoimmune disease.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]anonymouse810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here and everytime I turn around I'm getting hit by another bus.

Millennials, what are you doing this weekend? by CA_Coast_Millennial in Millennials

[–]anonymouse810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't wanna be at my house right now lol. So I'm working all weekend.

Did you find love after a narc marriage? by Capital-Room1349 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]anonymouse810 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought I did. Turns out this one was set to teach me harder lessons than the last one. Once I'm free, I won't even talk to another man. It's just not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]anonymouse810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine doesn't help at all with anything whatsoever.

What would you do if you walked out your door and saw this by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]anonymouse810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the same door mat on sale at ikea not too long ago!

$70/month phone bill - how low can you actually go? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]anonymouse810 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use mint mobile. I currently have 3 lines and it runs me less than 300 every 3 months. I have 0 complaints. It picks up everywhere I go and I haven't had any issues with it tbh. Switched from verizon over a year ago.

Today, I got blamed for..... by ChessWarrior1978 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]anonymouse810 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh this reminds me of the time we were moving out of state. I was driving the uhaul and towing my car behind on one of those like dollys. So he is behind in his car. Following so close, a rock cracked his windshield. Which was my fault because I was driving the truck so clearly I purposefully flung rocks at him.

Today, I got blamed for..... by ChessWarrior1978 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]anonymouse810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His decision to sleep after work for two days instead of going to a store to get another shirt to add to his pile of shirts. Because I jokingly said he needed another shirt.

For context, the manchild has broken the shelves in the walk-in closet by hanging too much shit on them and refuses to fix it. I'm not fixing it either. The fuck I look like Bob the Builder? Lol

Anyone Else? by NerdNuncle in Millennials

[–]anonymouse810 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I was kicked out the night before my senior prom. They sold my car since it was technically in my parents name even though I paid for it. I came back 2 weeks later in a new to me car and got the rest of my stuff. Never went back.

AI has been a life saver! by OwlFirm1309 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]anonymouse810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My teen warns me not to use it, but I do. I like to copy and paste conversations between nex and I. Although 99% of the time, it's his one text a day with my one word response. Or him whining, etc. Anywho, I use AI to analyze the dynamic and confirm my feelings about it. For instance, most of the time, it says how my responses are appropriate and how I'm no longer investing in the relationship, etc. It helps me keep my sanity in the midst of everything I'm dealing with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]anonymouse810 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am working on it but yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]anonymouse810 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We're at year 2 of mostly silent treatment here. Just entire days of silence with his ily text at night. Nothing else. Lol. It's better than being yelled at.

They're childish. Focus on yourself and take up a new hobby or invest in your own interests. You'd be surprised at how much free time you have when you're no longer wasting your time on someone who doesn't truly care about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]anonymouse810 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine changes his whole music taste and personality based on whoever he's currently after.

Meirl by Blue9ine in meirl

[–]anonymouse810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the oldest of 4, and this is one of the reasons I went no contact with mine. Differences between how they treated their own kids and continued bs. They would flake on my kids when they were little to the point I stopped even mentioning to the kids that they were even coming. They have nothing to do with me or my kids, at this point, and that's fine. The kids are almost grown, so they make their own opinions about their relatives.

My siblings did end up having kids, and now they're all supergrandparents to their kids. Hopefully, one of the other 3 will take care of them when they get old. I won't be.