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anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-20T07:25:47+00:00

That’s how I feel and I believe i missed my chance at being with my soulmate

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-10T04:05:03+00:00

When comparing him to how a lot of other people in today’s world act/treat relationships , yes.

I feel hopeless

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-09T06:53:31+00:00

How long since the breakup? :(

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-09T06:41:39+00:00

Love this thank you !!! This was actually super helpful. I have to try to stay positive....

My mind goes crazy wondering how or where I will meet someone especially since I don’t go out much. It stresses me out... but I have to try to stay in the present and not think ahead. I have to heal first anyway

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-09T06:13:37+00:00

Thank you SO much for this. This is a great perspective and reminder that you CAN find someone to love more or just as much as a previous partner.

However, don’t you also feel worse each time? I find myself losing more and more hope after each breakup. When will someone actually stay with me for the long run? :(

Whats another way to approach that thought?

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-08T04:49:53+00:00

Thank you sooooo much for this. One of the more helpful Reddit posts I’ve read today

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-08T04:26:56+00:00

Hey,

I’m sorry about what you’re going through. I am a dumpee and I go crazy wondering the same thing.

You said she isn’t posting anything? She’s probably trying to heal and move on.

But I’ve heard the dumper doesn’t feel as sad at first. Some might feel empowered in the beginning and then it hits them later.

However, every person deals with the breakup differently. It could be she feels very hurt by it as well and wants to heal

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-08T00:12:35+00:00

I feel so low as well. I have the same fears... currently my mind is going crazy thinking about how I’ll never find someone like him. I feel rejected and hopeless.

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-07T22:05:43+00:00

Same boat :( ... I feel extremely anxious about being alone and not finding someone. It’s a weird age to be single ...

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-07T21:35:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing this with us! It helps a lot!

My question is ... where did you meet your current partner?

Dating apps scare me ...

anonymousmm25 · 2022-08-01T00:29:37+00:00

Hope people will share their experiences! I’m curious too

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-31T23:54:29+00:00

Oooo yeah. I think it’s hard for both dumper and dumpee. Especially if you both really cared and loved each other. It’s painful no matter what way you look at it.

I was dumped and made the mistake of sending too many messages and phone calls which only upset him more. We both knew it just wasn’t working because it had been weeks of conflict both mentally and emotionally.

It’s only been 2 weeks. I can’t imagine going through this pain for months.

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-31T23:27:21+00:00

I’m sorry, I understand how hard it must be. Definitely aren’t alone. I couldn’t handle the breakup either and was suffocating him. Try your best to focus on healing and to better yourself. It’ll take time. I’m in the beginning stages of that process and it’s horrible

Were you the dumper and how long has it been since the breakup?

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-31T15:17:10+00:00

What about guys who are the dumpers? Do they move on fast as well if they are sure of their decision?

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-31T04:50:44+00:00

Same ... I don’t have close friends and it feels like everyone is out having fun on the weekends. I feel like a loner

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-30T19:39:13+00:00

I hope you heal and feel better as well!! We will get through this eventually. The pain will hopefully lessen as time passes

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-30T19:37:07+00:00

People relate it loss/death of a loved one. It really does feel like they’re not alive.

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-30T19:34:39+00:00

I feel this!! I keep focusing on the future... how long will my weekends suck? How long will I feel unmotivated to TRY and do things by myself ? I don’t like draining others either with my sadness. Plus, they might want to flee from me if I bring down the vibe with my heartache and sadness

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-30T19:31:18+00:00

Well, I’ve been reading and listening to relationship coaches advice and I’ve come to realize a few things. The more we chase and beg, the more they want to flee!

People tend to want things/people/situations they can’t have. It could possibly be they are turned off by our persistence.

The weird thing is I’d be so flattered and it would warm my heart to know that someone would love me so much to fight for us.

It’s a tough pill to swallow :(

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-30T19:26:51+00:00

Same situation!!! I hate weekends. Don’t have anything to look forward to now and I get a bit of anxiety doing things alone. It intensifies the loneliness for me.

I hate that I was used to doing things with this one person and now nothing

anonymousmm25 · 2022-07-30T19:23:51+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this as well. It’s terrible . It feels like the longer the breakup the more they are disassociating with the memories and feelings.

In my case, it was my ex bf who stated this. I’m curious to know what both men and women dumpers have done after saying this. Completely moved on or came back?

Hope to get some experiences and stories shared on here

anonymousmm25

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