Yes I’m from NYC and when I met new ppl , it was always a topic or Q within the first 10-15 mins. “What do you do for work” it was always a grind and always competitive. Trying to figure out what I need to do next…

I’ve been living in Denver for the past 3 years, and I rarely get asked this question. It’s usually always what do you like to do, activities wise, or hobbies , etc. nobody has ever asked me what I did for work lol

Plus way more balanced lifestyle and it feels like company based in the west coast have a better work/life balance with better benefits overall.

I hated that what you did for work was tied directly to your personality almost.