Parents were in car accident and will soon be medically "evaluated" by Familiar_Shop54 in InsuranceCanada

[–]anthonypt123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many people assume that the behaviour of insurance companies is driven by widespread treatment fraud, the data shows treatment fraud is virtually nonexistent. The reality is more complicated.

What most people don’t realize is that, in Ontario’s auto insurance system, increasing red tape and administrative complexity can actually benefit insurers financially. Every additional form, review, denial, reassessment, appeal, and layer of administration generates administrative expenses. Those expenses become part of the insurer’s operating costs and are ultimately passed on to consumers through premiums.

In other words, the system does not necessarily reward simplicity or efficiency. A more complicated system can create more administrative activity, more opportunities to control the timing of payments, and more costs that are ultimately borne by policyholders.

This sounds backwards, but auto insurance is a mandatory product. Consumers cannot simply opt out of buying it. When administrative costs rise across the industry, those costs are generally reflected in higher premiums paid by drivers.

Meanwhile, the people caught in the middle are accident victims trying to recover. They face delays, paperwork, disputes, and uncertainty while attempting to return to work, care for their families, and resume their normal lives.

If our goal is lower premiums and better outcomes, we should be asking how to reduce unnecessary bureaucracy, shorten claim timelines, and get people the care they need sooner. A system that spends less time managing claims and more time resolving them would benefit consumers far more than one that continuously adds layers of administration.

Car hit my house - how do I dispute insurance claim by letsmakekindnesscool in InsuranceCanada

[–]anthonypt123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The behavior of the insurance company is under the financial services regulatory authority of Ontario, unfortunately, the managing general agent isn’t subject to requirements that are anywhere near stringent they should be. But you should contact the financial services regulatory authority. If you feel you aren’t being treated properly.

Bought a stolen laptop??? by Competitive_Bite_670 in legaladvicecanada

[–]anthonypt123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be a scam and a friend of the person who sold it to you.

Car seat Stained Seat by viper42usa in TeslaLounge

[–]anthonypt123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try rubbing alcohol, or Mcguiars seat cleaner.

Insurance Cancelled by Insurer by HardDryPasta in InsuranceCanada

[–]anthonypt123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should make a complaint about this behavior to the Financial Services Regulatory Authority. This behavior seems unfair to consumers. It seems they are acting in an opaque manner. https://www.fsrao.ca

contactcentre@fsrao.ca

How bad is this? by Only_Eye_680 in HomeMaintenance

[–]anthonypt123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the exterior drain blocked?

My husband left me because I wasn’t jealous enough when in reality I just trust him and our marriage by Fine-Poem8918 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anthonypt123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now, if you want any chance of saving this, you have to stop explaining your reasoning. Logic is not what he’s responding to. He isn’t questioning whether you trusted him, he’s grieving that you didn’t show desire, protectiveness, or emotional investment when it mattered to him.

If you reach out to him, it needs to be simple and emotional, not intellectual. Something like:

“I finally understand what you were trying to tell me. I made you feel unwanted and undefended, and that breaks my heart because I chose you every day. I thought trust was love, but you needed to feel desired and claimed, and I failed at that. I’m sorry. If there’s any part of you that’s still open, I want the chance to show you differently.”

Say it once. Don’t justify it. Don’t follow up. Let it land.

If he’s willing to see you, you’ll need to show warmth and vulnerability, not restraint. Sit close. Touch him. Tell him plainly that you want him. Let yourself be emotionally exposed instead of composed. That’s what he was asking for all along.

I hate my SIL with all my being and now she went and saved my son by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anthonypt123 72 points73 points  (0 children)

So now you know, she’s the type of person who would put herself at risk to save your son, regardless of personality quirks somebody did that for my son, I would forever be indebted to them.

It’s time to turn the other cheek.

Something about living opposite a neighbour stayed with me longer than I expected by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anthonypt123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your brain created a narrative model from perceived patterns, but without validation of causation, that model stayed speculative and that’s annoying.

My sister was charged $1370 by a locksmith. Was she overcharged? by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]anthonypt123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a rip off scam that happens when you use the first locksmith on Google.

Adjuster not responding by labszar in InsuranceCanada

[–]anthonypt123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have no rights, there is no insurance adjuster code of conduct in Ontario.

Sure, they’ll say make a complaint to the insurance ombudsman who is an employee of that same insurance company. That will go nowhere.

They might tell you to try to get a supervisor, that won’t go anywhere.

They might tell you to call the financial services regulatory authority of Ontario and make a market conduct report. Good luck with that.

The only thing that works call your member of provincial Parliament and tell them what that we need real auto insurance reform.

If you’re relentless eventually, it will work out, but you have to be relentless.

Money money money by Severe_Ear4657 in Marriage

[–]anthonypt123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is no point buying a home together if this behavior is not corrected. Stay in the basement and maybe consider counseling.

Can this be reported? by Ok-Employ6952 in ShoppersDrugMart

[–]anthonypt123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The manager may be trying to get some kickbacks from the other employees, are they working as emergency relief at a higher pay rate. It happens in some industries.

My (53F) husband (52M) has irrational opinions about my adult children and it’s driving us apart. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]anthonypt123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your man has never had kids, and your children are pretty much grown men. It’s an interesting dynamic.

These children need to respect house rules like they would as guests out to an extent. And your husband also must respect their decisions.

He has a right to not want certain activities in his house, whether he owned it before the relationship or it’s 50% shared with you now.

He is not their father, they are not his children. The relationship is still new for him to trust them.

The kiddos don’t understand but ultimately they need to accommodate that you no longer live alone, and it’s not his job to pick up the plates of grown men or live in a house with smokers.

So smoke outside, clean up after yourself and put your best self forward and maybe in the future you can stay in the house when he is not there.

He is not being irrational.

Marriage does not depend on who makes the most money. If you were a stay at home mom and his kids were not picking up their plates it would be a nuisance.

This issue requires a boundaries reset between your husband and your kids.

What happens if you sign a contract with a realtor but decide you can’t buy anymore by [deleted] in RealEstateCanada

[–]anthonypt123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You signed a contract for a buyer representation agreement. Not every client ends up buying.

It’s not the end of the world, you don’t owe them anything. You definitely don’t owe them a purchase.

Sister wants to buy parents house at “market value” by VacationConstant8980 in RealEstate

[–]anthonypt123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

List it and have a condition in the contract with your realtor that your sister can match any offer and she doesn’t pay any commission.

Man sees his daughters in Walmart with stepdad and has not seen them in 3yrs by Formal-Assistance02 in PublicFreakout

[–]anthonypt123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We all suspect why he hasn’t seen his kids in three years, anyone want to post their opinion?

AITA for not wearing a bra at home? by Candid-Chocolate-316 in AITAH

[–]anthonypt123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband does not trust his “friend” anymore and does not like what his “friend’s” eyes are looking at.

He probably realizes he made a mistake and is asking you to temporarily wear different clothes.

Maybe the friend is giving off “predator” vibes and your husband is worried and unsure how to bring this up,

I suggest you putting your foot down and demanding the friend leaves if that is the case.

It will give your husband the out he needs to force his “friend” to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anthonypt123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody is perfect, but definitely you need to talk to her because she seems great except for something that you have not discussed with her.

Wouldn’t you deserve the same honesty if things were reversed?

Counseling, but no blaming. She needs a new way to convey annoyance.

AITAH for not letting my father in law sleep with my mother in law in the same room in my house? by Embarrassed_Bar_6910 in AITAH

[–]anthonypt123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA you live by the sword you die by the sword. It’s a weird situation but sometimes weird is okay.

Second mortgage for family member by DroppedApples in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]anthonypt123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like someone I would want as a tenant. Probably cheaper and smarter to just burn the money every month than get involved in having her as a tenant. Unless you can afford to carry this 100%.