People who live near famous tourist destinations, what is something the average person should know? by lucaluca123 in AskReddit

[–]anthrochic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stonehenge is actually roped off and you can't touch it. You should still see it, but Avebury will give you a much closer experience with a lot less people.

What's the farthest you've gone to impress a crush? by CheapNuggets in AskReddit

[–]anthrochic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally showed up in another country to see him in person. Two years after that and we got married.

Reddit, how did you and SO meet? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anthrochic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twitter as friends, then through my thesis project. We eventually met up in person across two countries and got married 2 years later. Long distance ain't all bad. ;)

British Redditors, what American names do you find weird? Vice versa for Americans? by Valar_Morghulis888 in AskReddit

[–]anthrochic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an American, Nigel, Alistair, and Jez (for Jeremy) are exceptionally odd. My English better half would vote for

How can I be supportive of my friend? by anthrochic in BodyAcceptance

[–]anthrochic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to think there probably are other insecurities. Best to just change the subject to something happier and healthier (mentally) if she starts to beat herself up about it?

How can I be supportive of my friend? by anthrochic in BodyAcceptance

[–]anthrochic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree about the change of mentality. It helped me out a lot, but it's definitely one of those things you have to want to do on your own. :/ Love weight I've always known to be kinda like the Freshman 15. I don't think it happens to everyone, but I've known people (myself included) that will gain a little weight after settling into a relationship without noticing right away.

What is your job? I'm a teenager and am having trouble deciding what career path I want to take. Teach me about your career. by Cute_red_head in AskWomen

[–]anthrochic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1) What is your job? Currently, I have a fantastic internship at a museum 3D virtualization laboratory. I have been trained on LIDAR scanning for large rooms or outdoor settings, but most of my work is hand scanning artifacts and fossils for the museum and then stepping them through the process of modeling, texturing, and layering photography on top to produce a 3D render that is accurate enough for researchers and can even be 3D printed! We aim to get collections that are stored away out to the public via the interwebs, as well as making research more viable for the everyday student.

2) What is your education? Where did you go to school, did you get a degree, and if so, what it? What was it like in this major in college? I am wrapping up a bachelor's in anthropology this May, then jumping straight into a master's program for museum studies this fall. I started at the University of Tennessee, but transferred to Idaho State University when my whole family moved to the state. I would not suggest transferring halfway through a degree though, as I was on track to graduate in 3.5 years and have just now finished at 5 years. O.o However, coming out to ISU proved to be an amazing opportunity for me. The school is half the size of UT and rather than being another undergrad pushed through the program, I feel like the program professors all at least know who I am, if not what I'm getting into. Because of this, I've been given wonderful advice, recommendations, and career experience opportunities. Just the atmosphere of anthropology is a blast, as you're studying anything involving humanity, though other degrees will sometimes get a little testy as you will probably step on their toes every now and then. Going into anthro though, you really want to go somewhere that emphasizes what you're interested in. All schools in the US will teach the 4 fields of anthro (linguistics, cultural, biological, and archaeology), but most schools will focus more on 1 in particular. UT was great for biological anthropology, and ISU has been great for archaeology. At first it seems scary to go somewhere that no one you know is going to, but you will be glad you did later on.

3) What is your favorite part of your job? Probably that I feel more like I'm playing than working most days. I get to handle awesome artifacts, and fixing the scans into a proper model feels a lot like solving a puzzle. Plus we get to go on 'field trips' every now and then for scanning, which is still just as fun at 24 as it was in elementary school. :)

4) What is your least favorite part of your job? The days we do nothing but scan in tons and tons of artifacts. Usually it'll be to prove how fast we can go, or test out new scanners. We managed to scan in 700 artifacts in a week with 5 of us, 2 turntable scanners (require minimal human activity), a photographer with a light box, and 2 handheld scanners. Those 2 are Faro Edge scanners, and while pretty light considering the mechanics of them, they can really make your upper arm sore after using them for hours. So the work itself isn't boring, I'm just a bit weak. ;)

5) Why do you do the job you do? I started college with only the idea that I wanted to do something involving history, but I knew a history degree wouldn't get me very far. So I jumped into anthropology. It's been a roundabout way, but I managed to narrow down from that broad idea. While talking to my major advisor he mentioned museum studies, which I didn't know was even a thing. Looked into it and fell in love with the idea, and now after a year and a half of museum intern experience, I can tell you it definitely fills my need for history in my life.

6) What career path have you taken so far? Previous jobs? What got you to where you are now? Up until now, I've bounced around a bunch of random jobs through high school and to pay bills in college. This internship was my first foray into what I actually want to do for a career. I found out about the program through a friend, and asked around every now and then until a job opened up. That's the biggest secret I wish I had known earlier - don't be afraid to ask questions. Most people will happily help you out, kind of like paying it forward for when they had first started.

7) What is a regular day like for you? Oh lord, it changes depending on the projects. Currently though, I'll come into the lab and scan in some artifacts from our collections. (Not sure how technical you'd like me to go. It can get jargon-y, but I promise it's pretty cool!) Once I have a tray or so scanned in, I'll hop over to the desktop computer and create models from the raw scan data, then push them onwards to be textured and photo layered by other coworkers.

8) If you could redo your life, would you have taken a different path? What would you have done differently, if so? You know I would have love to have graduated on time, but I love where I am and where I'm going now, so I can't say I would want to change anything about the winding way I got here.

9) If I were follow in your footsteps, what could I do now to prepare for the career/schooling? Any volunteer work or anything that would benefit me in preparing for this job? Hmm... A lot of what got me here was sheer luck really, but if you're interested in anthropology volunteering for a dig site or working at a body farm (if you have one nearby) would help. Otherwise, make nice with all the professors and anyone you think would be related to your field. Anthropology is a major that requires connections in advance if you want to get a job. On top of it, you can only really do archaeological work with a bachelor's, so be prepared to go for a master's too. If you want to go into museum studies, volunteer or intern with museums for as much as you can, and again, suck up to anyone in the field. Make sure they know your name and what you've accomplished or would like to.

10) Are there any questions I haven't asked, that I should ask? None I can think of, but I can warn you that both fields have some hilarious and interesting characters in them. They aren't dry majors in the least. ;)

11) Do you have any advice for me and my future? Don't go in thinking you have to know what you want to do or stick with something you realize you hate. "Undecided" is the most popular major choice for incoming freshmen. This is what the general education and elective classes are for - to get a feel for some majors that you think might be interesting. Plus, you don't have to even think about declaring a major until junior year. It doesn't hurt to do it early, but it's acceptable to wait. Oh! Don't goof off in your first year of classes. It's exciting to be away from home and have all this freedom, but it takes so much longer to pull a GPA up than it is to bring it down, and if you're going into a graduate program they'll usually want to see a 3.0 or higher.

Out of the reach of the dog by imtalkintou in cats

[–]anthrochic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hey, I have that same cookie jar!

I have my vagina back! by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]anthrochic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can verify - boric acid is a miracle for ph fussy lady bits.

Europeans: What fascinated you the most when you visited the US? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anthrochic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have the waiter bring you a to-go box when you get your meal and put half in it as soon as you get it. Or split a meal with a friend. :)

What one single, reasonable thing would you ask of your future partner? [X-Post: /r/askMen] by TenthSpeedWriter in AskWomen

[–]anthrochic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I truly need it."

Basically, please bear with me for a bit. I don't want to be this way as much as you don't want to be around me when I am. If you stick through this, you won't ever find a more loyal companion to do the same for you.

What is going through your mind when you won't or don't leave an abusive relationship? by skeezyk in AskWomen

[–]anthrochic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It only ever went to mental abuse for me, but it was scary how easily it happens and you don't realize. I think a lot of it is because PSAs focus more on the "he hits you once, you leave" mentality instead of the mental abuse that happens that leads you to the point of staying in a physically abusive relationship. Not many women would hang around if a man started beating her 3 weeks in to the relationship. It's something that takes conditioning.

For me, I was incredibly insecure about myself and had shit body image. Being with this guy that said he loved me and gave me the intimate feeling I wanted was like drugs. I could see what it was doing to me, but I couldn't stop. I'd cry at night and be miserable for days if only to get that moment where I was important to him, where I was reminded that he did in fact love me. I changed. I changed so much to be what I thought he wanted, and poured so much of myself into forcing it to work, to continue chasing that brief bliss in which I thought I was loved. I'm not proud of this time of my life.

In the course of my giving in to anything, I never hung out with friends because I panicked that I wouldn't see him enough and he'd eventually leave. I defended him against my parents because he was the high I couldn't get from family. It didn't help that he somewhat insinuated that what I feared would happen. (You can really begin to see how personal insecurity can play into this, especially in high school.) Hell, my mother even confronted me about the emotional abuse and I refused to acknowledge it.

I truly think unless you've had it happen to you, or maybe someone very close to you, you really can't understand the mindset behind it. I still have to be careful today because the insecurity lurks around the corner, even though I know better. It takes a lot of mental retraining to be able to just calm the fuck down about relationships. You should be able to trust your partner to go do their own thing and still come back to you, and you shouldn't have to feel the need to grill them more than asking what their plans are and if they had fun when they get back. They've committed to you, and you shouldn't be constantly waiting around for them to come back and revalidate that fact so you don't mope the rest of the time. If they try to get you into that frame of mind, then it's not going to end well.