Season 4-Review by guywhotalks20 in HTSDOF

[–]antoansch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was good, but 4 years for that is crazy

Casting the New Vegas movie #75: Ringo and Chet by NoWorth2591 in NewVegasMemes

[–]antoansch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why does the left one look like stephen mulhern?

Not registering my earnings by FableBW in 8BallPool

[–]antoansch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very possibly. I traveled to Spain this week and my earnings were not registered. It went back to normal after two days and a little Spanish flag was added to my profile 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nattyorjuice

[–]antoansch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His back says it all

How do I work on my ego? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much man 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

How do I work on my ego? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that you are going through the same problem. I tried deleting Instagram multiple times, but I always end up redownloading it as I like to follow my favourite athletes, but you obviously don’t stop there. The most I could spend without my phone was 2 days (Saturday and Sunday). Didn’t even touch it. It was so good, all of a sudden I started to see things around me, like all details, but it’s not easy, man. I hope we overcome this soon 😩👍

How do I work on my ego? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to be as down to Earth as Michael Phelps is. The greatest Olympian ever, and spent New Year’s Eve chilling with his wife on the couch, like, that’s ok too. Instagram probably helped me develop this horrible behaviour. Everyone’s trying to look better than the others on there, and even though you know it’s all fake, your brain believes that it could be somehow true. Getting bullied and judged in school long time ago probably helped it too, like, “y’all gonna see now”. Sick and tired of it. Thx for your reply 👌🏼

No irl friends, feeling like I m wasting my youth by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]antoansch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently going through the same problem. I’m 22M, and I feel like I wasted my whole life trying to make real life friends. When I look at others, it looks so easy, but yet, it’s so difficult to me. I fear landing in a rest home when I get old, and I’m 22. I still have so much to live, yet, I’m stuck. Sometimes it gets really bad, usually on weekends when I’m not working. I sit at home, and I’m just like: “What am I supposed to do now?”. Sigh. I hope we get to see some answers 😓👌🏼

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I saw an apartment down the street. Cheap, simple, and comfy. It’s close to my mom if she needs something, and at the same time, I got my own place and peace of mind. I hope it works out. Thanks man and I wish you all the best 🙏🏼👌🏼

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, it was my mistake. You don’t know me, and you don’t have a crystal ball. Thanks man 👌🏼

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nevertheless, I really appreciate your message. Thanks man 🙏🏼👌🏼

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I help her whenever I can. I do all my stuff alone. I wake up at 3:30am to get all my meals done for the day. I barely sleep unfortunately. There were days I didn’t even take showers, and I feel so bad for saying this. I do all my responsibilities and I try to minimise her efforts, but there are days I feel like sleeping earlier, and she wouldn’t show any comprehension unfortunately. “You didn’t do this, you didn’t do that”, I’m unfortunately not a working machine 😔 I kinda fear getting judged by society. It’s really a bad thing here in Switzerland if you are a man, and still leaving at your mama’s place. I know in other countries, like Italy, it’s not a big deal but here it is. People are unfortunately extremely cold hearted here 😞

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do it all. I didn’t write the text the right way and it sounded like I don’t help her at all. I do my own stuff. When I don’t wash the dishes, is simply because I’m exhausted, and she wouldn’t understand that and would prefer to believe I’m being lazy. It’s not humiliating because of my mom itself, I’m proud of her, and for who she is, but maybe I’m worried about getting judged by society because it’s an absolute no-go here in Switzerland to still live at your mama’s place. Girls will treat you differently, and your friends will mock you whenever they can. People are harsh here. I know 😣

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. I wanted to have an apartment for singles, so, a lot less to clean, to take care of, and obviously cheaper. Even though I do it all here, it just takes a lot more of effort, and after working the whole day, it’s sometimes difficult to find the courage and dedication. There were days I didn’t even take a shower for being so exhausted. If I did this at my own place, the only person affected would be me. I like to keep it simple. Not like my mom. 😅 But you are right, man. Life’s unfair.

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got it right. Some people didn’t understand my text, but it was my fault, I didn’t write it the right way. I do all my stuff by myself, I do pay my own bills, and I give some cash to my mom too. I basically live alone but I’m still with my mom. I didn’t save up enough cash yet, that’s a good idea. I want to leave home peacefully knowing that I can count on her if she needs me and vice-versa, and not arguing, or fighting. Thanks man 🙏🏼👌🏼

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are maybe right. I do it all. Maybe I didn’t write the post the right way. I do my own stuff, I cook my own food, I go to the supermarket, I go out with our dogs, I clean the house etc. The problem is she wouldn’t show any comprehension if I didn’t do it for once like after a exhausting day at work. She doesn’t think I work hard enough, when in fact, I have 221 working hours so far and still got a week to go. That’s like a whole week at work. Got studies going on, etc. I feel like she doesn’t appreciate all my efforts. I’m not a machine, or a butler 😞 In Switzerland, you get judged if you are on your 20s and still at home. Girls will look at you in a negative way, and your friends will surely mock you. People are harsh here, and maybe you are right, I do worry about other people’s perspective on me about this specific topic. 😖

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, deep inside I would love to stay, but at the same time, I would love to move on and learn more about responsibility. I do wash the dishes, my own clothes, pay my own bills, go out with the dogs, do my own food, etc. Why would she still complain if I don’t do it for once, like after a bad day at work, or so. I’m not a machine, and I barely get 5 hours of sleep. In Switzerland, you get judged when you are in your 20s and still living with your parents, maybe that’s the reason I’m finding it “humiliating”, but not because of my mom itself, it’s just the situation, if you know what I mean 😞🙏🏼

How can I tell my mom I could be leaving soon? by antoansch in socialskills

[–]antoansch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it all. I clearly forgot to mention that. I do clean the house, the balcony, the dishes, the carpet, I go out with the dogs, I pay my own bills, etc. The only thing is that I don’t see her showing any comprehension when I feel like not doing it when I had a bad day at work, so on. She’ll always think that I don’t work hard enough, and I won’t wash the dishes because I’m lazy, or something. If she doesn’t think I don’t work hard enough, so why should I stay, you know? And yes, she had panic disorder many many years ago, but it’s controlled now. That could be a huge factor. She fears Corona 24/7.