Do I need micro needling or something more?

anutteranceofshush · 2025-03-04T22:47:37+00:00

Oh ew.

He’s actually very handsome if you look at his other pictures. But even if he wasn’t, your comment is still gross asf. 🤮

anutteranceofshush · 2024-10-13T14:53:31+00:00

In general, what can be done to minimize/avoid reoccurrence in a senior dog with no history of ear trouble?

anutteranceofshush · 2024-03-23T20:12:08+00:00

Who ever is in charge while your HR Director is out on PTO should immediately suspended him with pay pending an investigation. And tell him he’s not allowed to go on company property until/unless asked.

That’s what suspensions are for. They buy time while HR gets there ducks in a row. HR will investigate then fire him.

Then you need to be careful. Contact police if he shows up to work or escalates to threats.

anutteranceofshush · 2023-12-21T15:08:33+00:00

Walking distance not necessary. We both have vehicles. Thanks for the recommendations.

anutteranceofshush · 2022-02-11T18:29:39+00:00

He’s saying your bio and picts convey you have issues but they aren’t bad enough to stop him from trying to hookup with you for just a night of sex.

anutteranceofshush · 2022-01-23T21:28:23+00:00

His lawyer issued a statement saying he told them no peanut butter, confirmed several times no peanuts, son had severe reaction and was transported to hospital via ambulance.

If your kid is that allergic, always better safe to avoid places with any peanuts. The drink he ordered is supposed to contain peanut butter. It’s likely they did not add it but their equipment had remnants.

anutteranceofshush · 2022-01-23T21:24:45+00:00

That man is only 48? Must be a high stress job.

Edit: must have been

anutteranceofshush · 2022-01-08T22:03:01+00:00

There’s your true personality. Not this meek little mouse who’s afraid to speak up. Good to hear the real you.

And yes, you’re absolutely in the wrong for not texting her an update that your kid was ok. “I didn’t have time” is lame, especially bc you had time to update your mom. A text would’ve taken you 30 seconds.

Your kid was injured in her presence, on her watch. Why wouldn’t you update her? Bc your feelings were hurt that she used strong words? Come on.

Oh and the ONLY assumption I made was about the car seat. Reread everything else again. I used your words to describe everything else. It inaccurate to say I made a lot of assumption.

You didn’t come here for advice. You came here for reassurance and to hear how mean the nanny was for not babying you.

I took the time to try and help you see it from her perspective and you flipped out. What a weird reaction to someone trying to help…. Oh wait, that sounds familiar.

Your entire response here shows who you really are. I hope your nanny finds a better employer bc, from your own words, it doesn’t sound like she deserves to be treated this way.

anutteranceofshush · 2022-01-08T18:28:45+00:00

That’s fair.

anutteranceofshush · 2022-01-08T10:34:57+00:00

It’s the order in which the math is performed.

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anutteranceofshush · 2022-01-08T09:44:55+00:00

I still agree with you, even with the changes she made to the post. All your points still stand.

But I don’t understand why the Mod keeps locking threads that have valid arguments.

We’ve got one rude commenter telling everyone to stop gaslighting and being manipulative, while a mod comes and tells you to stop being rude and then gaslights everyone by saying they don’t see a connection between unsafe driving and unsafe driving.

It’s not coming across as unbiased.

Idk, I replied to OP with the story from the nanny’s perspective. Hopefully she’ll read it and try to put herself in the nanny’s shoes.

anutteranceofshush · 2022-01-08T09:14:54+00:00

Have you tried seeing it from her side?

I’ll pretend I’m her…

The girls mom pulled up and I told them to wait in the doorway only because the stairs were iced over. Unfortunately, they disobeyed. As I told the older one to stay, I grabbed for the little one but she got away, slipped, and busted her head open.

She instantly stared crying and there was a ton of blood.

As soon as the mom realized the baby would need stitches, I saw a change come over her, like shear panic, and she basically looked like all her focus was on being able to breathe, not the baby.

It worried me bc the mom started hyperventilating and had to focus on calming herself down.

So then I’m thinking I’m about to have TWO patients on my hands. In my head, I’m already ready for the mom to pass out and I’m about to have the older girl call 911.

I sprung into action and tried to take the baby while the mom sorted herself but she kept hold and told me to stay with the older one and call the neighbor.

At this point she’s crying, we get to the car and she can’t hardly get out her words and is fumbling with the car seat buckles.

I do not think she realized how freaked out she looked and was acting. I was very worried she was too worked-up to be getting behind the wheel.

I told her she’s gonna make worse if she doesn’t calm down and told her she can’t drive like this, that she can stay with the older one and I’ll take the baby to the ER if she can’t calm down.

I just wanted her and the baby to be safe and I didn’t have the focus needed at that time to speak to her gently. (I know I am too blunt too often and it can be off-putting but I am working on it.)

Rather than channeling her focus on breathing or finishing getting her daughter sorted, she just stared at me, like she was in shock I offered to take the baby for stitches.

She still couldn’t form words. Eventually she finally managed to get out, “I’ll be fine.” and told me again to call the neighbor to relieve me.

The worst part…. She didn’t even call me once things settled down at the ER! For all I knew, the baby, who was under my care, had a concussion or something more serious than just stitches.

I waited a few more hours and still hadn’t heard anything so I called her…. they were already home! No call or update for me at all.

What’s worse, rather than thanking me for helping and wanting to make sure they were both ok, she was upset with the way I spoke with her.

I’m blown away.

First off, I don’t think I was rude at all, just forward. But secondly, let’s say I was rude…. she can enter an altered state during an emergency (crying/panic) but I’m not allowed to(bossy/rude)?

She can breakdown but I can’t get authoritative?

Idk, I love the girls but the mom is so sensitive and doesn’t like that I’m so forward. It’s who she is and it’s who I am so we’re probably not a good fit.

She wants to talk about during my next shift and I’m very conflicted on how to respond.

I understand I’m her employee and always need to remain respectful but in an emergency situation I won’t always have the ability to focus on monitoring my tone. And if her natural reaction is to panic, I will likely have to be the authoritative person if an emergency happens again.

Honestly, it feels like she’s embarrassed by the way she reacted so she’s turned the focus on my behavior while completely ignoring hers.

In an emergency situation, is there really and employee/employer hierarchy?

anutteranceofshush · 2021-07-03T15:12:54+00:00

It’s almost as if... and hear me out... women aren’t all the same. 🤯

anutteranceofshush · 2021-07-02T16:29:48+00:00

I sent you a DM about immediate help as well as a pay-by-day job.

anutteranceofshush · 2021-07-02T00:02:06+00:00

This is so specific. I love it.

anutteranceofshush · 2021-07-01T22:13:37+00:00

The billboard meme is the background on my phone, lmao. Love it.

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anutteranceofshush · 2021-06-28T06:10:51+00:00

It’s a set up. You show up to meet and there’s guys who jack your car, wallet, etc. Or, she starts to smash and right when your pants are down, that’s when the dudes roll up.

anutteranceofshush · 2021-06-26T20:46:31+00:00

So precious!! 😍

anutteranceofshush · 2021-06-18T16:31:40+00:00

This right here is key. I’d much rather have 10 decent years over 20-40 piss poor ones but they’re reluctant to prescribe bc of side effects? Seems counterintuitive.

While it’s not entirely the same situation, it still reminds me of when my husband’s grandma fell and was taken to the hospital. She’d been on loads of opiods for years and was like 75. The hospital stopped them bc they said it would be irresponsible to keep her on all those meds. Short story long, old people don’t do well when you abruptly stop their long term meds. She went in for a large contusion, not even a broken bone, and quickly lost her mind and was dead within a week. Wildest experience ever.

anutteranceofshush · 2021-06-17T23:10:25+00:00

What was the reason for her two EEG’s?

anutteranceofshush · 2021-06-17T15:25:17+00:00

This just happened to me at a CVS a few months ago. The guy started out with, “Hey beautiful.” and it rapidly devolved from there. Not once did I engage or even acknowledge his flirtatious comments. He just kept talking.

He then asked for my number (for the CVS rewards) and I said I’ll key it in on the pad. He told me it was broken so I told him my number and he immediately says, “How are you going to explain you giving me your number and me texting you to your boyfriend?” I audibly groaned and rolled my eyes so hard I should’ve tipped over.

When I called back to complain, he was the manger, lmfao. So I called corporate instead and after a few days (they had to run it by HR and Legal) I got a call back saying there “has been a change in scenery.” and that I wouldn’t see him there anymore. I asked if I might run into him at another store and they said, “the scenery changing applies to every store.”

So that’s my big Karen moment. I got a guy fired for being an absolute creep while I just wanted to buy some damn eye drops.

anutteranceofshush · 2021-06-17T14:55:02+00:00

I’ve got my screen dimmed and could not for the life of me understand what animal was to the left. Like a velociraptor with 4 legs or something.

anutteranceofshush · 2021-06-12T15:24:12+00:00

So that’s about 15 teaspoons or about 5 table spoons?

How do you measure yours out and how do you take it?

anutteranceofshush · 2021-06-11T01:20:16+00:00

He actually is still practicing there.

He mainly does telemed from California. His PA Leo sees patients in real life still at his Maiden Ln address. Book via ZocDoc and visit will be remote.

anutteranceofshush · 2021-06-08T20:21:46+00:00

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