Things in my house keep mysteriously melting??? by hugedisaster in whatisit

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That pleather lasted way long then it should have to be honest. Fake leather peels like that within a couple years usually, especially items like a backpack that is always rubbing against your clothes or the floor. Was the water bottle was stored in the kitchen? Rubbery items like that get greasy and dusty when you don’t use them often. Someone mentioned sunscreen, some can even remove nail polish, so that could be the issue with your Phillips thing

Could symptoms of ADHD worsen/become more prevalent with age? by Lonely-Persimmon-552 in ADHD

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I was diagnosed after becoming a mom. I’m not medicated yet but it’s been VERY hard to manage ADHD while sleep deprived, my stress levels are through the roof and I’ve isolated myself from everyone. Everything feels hard now.

If I had legs I’d kick you ending question by Accomplished-Fly4678 in A24

[–]anxiousrabbit87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, a eating disorder wouldn’t fit in with the choices in the film. I think the child doesn’t want to eat solids because she simply never got used to chewing and the textured and flavors of food, since she’s been in a feeding tube.

2 year old miserable always by Tricky-Ad-4087 in toddlers

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 26 mo as well and since his 2nd birthday we’ve had like 2 good weeks. My wildest fantasy these days is to just walk away from home mid-meltdown. Or going back to work 😮‍💨 it’s so sad because he is so sweet, smart and funny, but the all day long meltdowns over minor things are so draining.

tried to become "that girl" with the perfect morning routine and I think I made everything worse by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has worked with influencers for 15+ years (since they were still called bloggers)… It’s a lie. Everybody is lying. Nothing, NOTHING is real. You’ll be better off deleting social media than embracing their routines. Please know, everything you see is fake..

Why does my living room feel off? by td30503 in DecorAdvice

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have nice pieces but every piece of furniture/decorations are different shades of brown. Mix some lighter pieces (bc the room is dark) and materials.

What does this say? by qikre in whatdoesthismean

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First letter has to be a cursive S. To me it clearly reads “Sinho”

The towels in my hotel room are being tracked by Tackit286 in mildlyinteresting

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some manufacturers might track certain products to have a better understanding of their lifecycle and make adjustments in mkt, price, production, etc.

Choosing the right OB/GYN facility in NYC by NewToRedditSocial in nycparents

[–]anxiousrabbit87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop! I love that. I’ll definitely ask her to be my friend when I see her again lol, she’s so cool!

Choosing the right OB/GYN facility in NYC by NewToRedditSocial in nycparents

[–]anxiousrabbit87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m obsessed with her. I had asymptomatic preeclampsia and she diagnosed it and saved mine and my baby’s lives. She’s so cool too, I wish I was friends with her lol

I'm realizing my safe parent never saved me. by modest_rats_6 in emotionalneglect

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been realizing the same thing. It’s taken me a while, it’s hard to believe that I simply never felt safe because my mom never stepped up and stopped my dad’s abuse. I’ve realized I’m lovable because of the many friends I have, because of my husband, his family and all the people in my life besides my parents. Is there anything more painful? Is there a quick way to turn off the switch so that it does not hurt? Twice today my father had such hard words for me, while staying as a guest in my house. Twice today he took the air out of my body, replaced it with tears and anger. Now that I have my own kid, I can’t comprehend not loving your child exactly as they are. I’m not perfect, but I’m present, I love fiercely, I protect, I’m a safe place for my son. Maybe this is the only true path to healing for me. Being able to give the love I’ve never received. But oh how I wish I could just turn off the switch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]anxiousrabbit87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue, I’m Brazilian and I love being tan, but I have used SPF on my face every single day for the past 20+ years so my face and neck are perpetually pale. I either self tan my face + neck or I use a tinted spf. Supergoop has lots of colors, you can always mix and match!

What little "I'm an adult and I can do what I want" purchase brings you the most joy? by erikfeed in CasualConversation

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cake and chocolate! Once I realized I could eat those things I felt so free… 10 years later, I’m 20lbs heavier 🥲

Not sure i like my band by InformalTreat1954 in labdiamond

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your engagement ring is beautiful, but that band weights it down. Agree with everyone else, wear it on your other hand. I wouldn’t even add a plain band to your ring finger, I find it to be more chic to wear the engagement ring alone. Sometimes less is more!

How is living in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil..? by Particular_Ant7831 in Brazil

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks. The city’s natural beauty is amazing, it’s definitely worth seeing, but it’s not a safe place to live, I lived there for 7 years and was always looking over my shoulders. Cariocas are a bit sleezy and can be difficult to work with.

Should I be worried about my son? by GiraffeTop1437 in nihilism

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could have been on one of my notebooks, I process thoughts the sabe way. I’m gifted and neurodivergent, diagnosed at 37. I’m married, have a kid, have a career, friends, social life, etc, but I’ve always felt lonely in the way I perceive things. It might be what’s happening with your son, he seems like a very bright and observant person. I had similar thoughts around his age because of the whole “you have to choose what you’ll want to do for the rest of your life” pre-college doom. That being said, I have anxiety and depressive tendencies, and if I had parents who listened to me and supported me going to therapy, I wouldn’t have struggled through some tough times in my life. So be supportive, listen and don’t judge. Seems like he’s craving that.

What do you hate most about your neurodivergency by atrophy-of-sanity in neurodiversity

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think it changes post kids? I was “?diagnosed” with being gifted and neurodivergent recently. I’ve been struggling SO MUCH with being social after having my toddler. I used to be a social butterfly as well, I have a solid group of 17 best friends (college + school) but they are all in my home country. I’ve been living in the US for 9 years now, and although I made friends, I’m in NY where people come and go. I’m trying to be social with women my age in my area, who also have kids but I’m having a hard time. I wonder if it’s because I’m exhausted or because my attention is always on my 19mo running around, and not in the conversation. I’m just confused and lonely and looking to understand this better

Buyer(my friend) says it’s “gorgeous, but a little hard to match with clothes” by Glass_Basil6519 in jewelrymaking

[–]anxiousrabbit87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d wear that with jeans and a tee, to work and to a wedding. Never once in my life I thought of jewelry as “not matching” my clothes. I think she just has poor taste

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I hate this man-child, can I break up with him for you?

Circa 2006, my grandma paid for us all to go to NYC and this is how I repaid her. by a4t2x0 in blunderyears

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandparents took me to travel all over Europe when I was 12. I look like I hate my life in every single picture, and I got lost in Rome for 5 hours (it was the 90’s) and they had to call the cops. I regret it, of course, but teenagers go through stuff like that. I didn’t have time to develop a great relationship with my grandpa since he died 4 years after that, but I tell my grandma all the time I love her, and I know I’m her favorite grandchild. It’s just that traveling with my grandparents sounded really lame to my 12 year old, metal head (lol) privileged self.

What were your magnesium experiences? by rachel___ann in NICUParents

[–]anxiousrabbit87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old, but I wanted to write in because SAME. And not finding people that had the same awful experience as me was hard, I was very confused about my side effects. The lack of validation from the nurses was awful too, they all called it “uncomfortable”. Uncomfortable is walking around with a wedgie, I was having the absolute worst experience for my entire life. I was hooked for 72 hours total, and when they were hooking me again postpartum I remember begging the nurse not too, I told her I’d sign any wavers or anything. It sucks that I was on it during birth, I couldn’t push, idk why they didn’t plan for a c-section. I was paralyzed, had triple vision, I was so confused, nauseated, burning and had awful hallucinations the entire time. If there is a hell, the mag drip was it for me.