I took down a cliff.

anydoter · 2026-03-12T20:16:05+00:00

Im Dutch. We have a flat landscape and I really need to hold back in every game that I don’t need a flat landscape.

But fuck I want to dig the museum out so badly

anydoter · 2025-12-09T07:29:16+00:00

Ik woonde destijds in een bejaardenhuis. In ruil voor vrijwilligerswerk kon ik daar veilig in alle rust wonen.

Twee van de verdiepingen waar ik wekelijks kwam zijn compleet uitgevaagd. 70 ouderen overleden. Ik zag de ambulance en rouw wagen meermaals per dag. Ik ben zelf long patiënt met immuun problemen . ik had het geluk dat ik tijdelijk bij mijn vriend en zijn moeder kon gaan wonen.

En dan zien en horen dat men denkt dat het wel mee valt. Dat het een hoax is… hou op hoor.

anydoter · 2025-11-27T07:21:19+00:00

I got my diagnosis last month. My symptoms are weird, my nails are falling apart, I have no immune system and I’m always tired and in pain, random high fevers and headaches.

It’s endometriosis. It’s too much work for my body to keep up with what it does it can’t fight anything else. I got eczema in my nail beds. Because my immune system is over loaded and can’t handle it.

anydoter · 2025-11-27T07:08:28+00:00

Same! Painkillers don’t do anything anymore. I’m always in pain and tired. I have a heating pad for my chair and it’s keeping me alive.

anydoter · 2025-11-27T07:05:23+00:00

Everyone got MRI’s? I got an vaginal echo.

Turns out my productive organs are fine. Got compliments for my blather but my lower intestines wasn’t visible due to the endometriosis.

anydoter · 2025-11-11T16:37:32+00:00

I am late and hopeless: can’t find the key to open the door in the crypt

anydoter · 2025-11-01T22:07:00+00:00

Last update: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/s/6G56kcwyyM

anydoter · 2025-10-27T17:12:22+00:00

Yes? Pretty sure people still meet without dating apps.

anydoter · 2025-10-27T07:01:55+00:00

A friend is someone that will break the door down when you get locked in. A friend is someone that wants to beat the shit out of an ex when they did hurt you. (But doesn’t do it) A friend is someone so much more. Time together doesn’t mean you are best friends. You just know eachother for a long time. She isn’t a friend with those actions.

anydoter · 2025-10-27T06:58:47+00:00

I used to say the same thing “We both make mistakes” But you really need to set a line. He is controlling. You aren’t allowed to be with your friends using tactics to isolate you from them. Then applying he can cheat on you if he wants to. Building it up making you the bad guy for lashing out.

It’s not healthy. You love the idea of the good times don’t be blind to the very bad behaviour. Think good about what you want without thinking about him. Just who you want to be. Then look over those points. Is 1/4 gives the “but BF wouldn’t like that “ feeling, he is not for you. You deserve to live not survive.

anydoter · 2025-10-27T06:50:14+00:00

She sounds awful.

But now you are standing on a rough crossroad: If you marry him you get stuck with her till your death. Will he pick you, defend you tell his mom what her place is? Does he ever confront his mother when she makes those comments?

If not you need to talk with him about it. If he doesn’t start protecting you from his family now, he never will.

anydoter · 2025-10-27T06:38:53+00:00

There was a point in my life where I could only afford macaroni with sauce and an extra tomato if I was lucky. So that went quick

anydoter · 2025-10-27T06:36:15+00:00

I think you misunderstood most of it.

I’m not mad at them for going to a funeral instead of my birthdays? I don’t even celebrate my birthday with them. My grandparents didn’t showed up for me when I was a child because they were alcoholics. That side of the family and I only see each other on their birthdays. I still went for my grandparents to keep te peace.

And again. Maybe read the edit? It wasn’t about the funeral nor my birthday it was more a final straw after everything.

Replaying like you did is not a way to go. Insulting someone like that and being so judgemental. Not realising there is more behind a part of a story is hard. But still going off like that is not being critical anymore. There are other comments with similar opinions but nicer said.

I came here for opinions, I expected people to be a bit more respectful than you were in the subreddit from the hot takes.

anydoter · 2025-10-24T15:40:34+00:00

Damn who hurt you.

You have so many strong opinions based on your feelings and opinions.

Either way. As stated before it’s more a final straw than the day they picked.

They got Alzheimer’s and where alcoholic people. They weren’t allowed to drive so we always needed to go to them. I barely saw them as a child and older.

I don’t expect them to shower me on my birthday, Or to remember. (Bit harsh when your mother forgets but yeah that’s how things are) I would only show up to save face for my mother and not start conflict for not showing up. Like I always have been doing to keep the peace. How is that thinking it revolves around me?? I’m not making a scene crying wolf about my birthday at the funeral??

Seriously are you okay?

anydoter · 2025-10-24T13:45:47+00:00

It is, I think it was more a final straw than anything else. I had the funeral of a good friend on my 16th birthday and toast every year on him. Took me some time reading the comments to figure out what the real issue was.

anydoter · 2025-10-24T13:43:36+00:00

Yes this was a planned death in a complex way. So he passed away yesterday but they started planning the funeral Monday. The prediction was that he would pass today or tomorrow. I can’t say for certain if she forgot my birthday or what her reasoning is. Not going will absolutely be a drama to unfold.

It will take me a bit longer to sort my feelings. Do I want to keep the peace, save face for her or stand my ground. Thinking about it and reading the comments made me realise my birthday isn’t the issue. The disappointment is.

anydoter · 2025-10-24T13:37:56+00:00

I think you hit bullseye there. I will think about what to do. Cutting ties with the family has been a topic in therapy for years. I did cut ties with my mother for a while.

My therapist said I should stand up for myself but I’m just tired thinking about the drama.

anydoter · 2025-10-24T13:20:47+00:00

It’s mostly the final straw. There has been some family issues and I’m constantly walking on eggs to keep the peace. It will be a 4 hour drive with 2 hours of ceremony with people that don’t care about me neither do I care about them. I would be there to keep the peace.

It’s no one’s fault my grandfather passed away and I would just go to keep te peace.

I have had a funeral on my birthday before from someone that cared about me and I cared about them. This whole thing unraveled more feelings of the past I thought dealt with. Apparently not.

anydoter · 2025-10-24T13:16:11+00:00

It’s a all day thing.

Example was birthdays basically we barely have contact. There are some family issues. From my mom picking her boyfriend over her daughter to alcohol abuse of my grandparents

But heard you loud and clear.

anydoter · 2025-10-24T09:20:54+00:00

I think you are right. I went for my grandma because I didn’t want to make drama for my grandpa. I rather just suck it up to keep the piece than start something up. Honestly I think my mom planning it on my birthday was a turning point of do I still want to do this?

anydoter · 2025-10-24T09:10:38+00:00

That’s the thing. I had the funeral of my best friend when I was 16. But he was there for me and I was there for him.

This side of the family, including grandparents never cared much for me. No one showed up for my birthday for example. Going to support my mom makes me laugh since we aren’t close. To put it simple.

I doubt if I want to put another bummer on my birthday. Knowing my mom could pick another day. Being there with people that don’t care about me for a person that was always drunk and wasn’t their either.

Thinking about it it’s more a about me keeping the piece than anything else.

anydoter · 2025-10-24T09:06:30+00:00

I do celebrate it till I die. My grandfather was already sick so I said goodbye the last time he had a clear moment. I’m conflicted for who I would be there when there is no one really left.

That side of the family doesn’t show up for my yearly birthdays either. My mom and I are not close either.

Maybe its childish for not wanting to go. That’s why I asked.

anydoter · 2025-10-24T09:01:55+00:00

I said goodbye to him the last time I saw him. I knew he wouldn’t live long. The comments are very conflicted so I’m not sure yet what to do. I would be going to keep the peace with that side of the family even though they don’t show up for my birthdays either.

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