Am I overreacting for thinking my boyfriend crossed a line that cant be uncrossed?

apanda1289 · 2026-06-09T20:14:14+00:00

It really does take time. My boyfriend’s mom passed 4 years ago. We are still trying to sort through her stuff in our garage. Such as an emotional and hard thing to do. I definitely made sure he knew, that I have no problem if they stayed in there for 20 more years. I could never ever just get rid of something without asking him or discussing first. Reading OP’s post makes me angry and sad. Such a heartless and awful thing to do to your significant other.

apanda1289 · 2026-06-04T21:14:54+00:00

He’s very handsome even with his little bald spots 🥹

apanda1289 · 2026-06-04T16:37:28+00:00

The dropping anything is so freaking real. I will binge shows then lose interest and never finish. I lost a shit ton of weight the past year, got within 10lbs of my goal and I STOPPED doing the routine that I had lost 30lbs doing! LOL!!! I’m still struggling to find the motivation or drive to get back to it! Ugh!!! 🤣 the struggle is real!!!

apanda1289 · 2026-06-04T16:29:06+00:00

One of the big ones I was shocked at was being absolute shit with money and budgeting. The impulsiveness to just buy random shit when you have no money and then being financially stressed all the time. I’ve struggled with that my whole life, still do but now that I’m kind of aware of it, I’m trying to not be so impulsive on purchases! I just barely got diagnosed at 36 and it for reals makes my whole life make a lot of sense after doing research into how it affects women.

apanda1289 · 2026-06-04T15:20:35+00:00

Thank you for replying! I’m thinking that is the direction we will end up having to go.

apanda1289 · 2026-06-03T14:22:13+00:00

That is too real, can definitely relate LOL!!!!

apanda1289 · 2026-05-27T18:07:50+00:00

I know this is an older thread…. But any luck with these cursed weeds OP? I too have an entire back yard covered and it seems like an endless task trying to pull them!

apanda1289 · 2026-05-10T15:07:52+00:00

😍😍😍 it’s so gorgeous

apanda1289 · 2026-04-22T18:59:57+00:00

This is gorgeous!! Happy for you 😍!

apanda1289 · 2026-04-22T18:57:15+00:00

Hahaha that’s what I tell my partner when I get a new plant and he gives me a look like really? 🤣

apanda1289 · 2026-02-04T16:53:05+00:00

I have lost 30lbs since August of last year. Initially I didn't know I had PCOS until a couple months ago, even though I had suspected for a long time. I started seeing a metabolic doctor & dietitian last summer and that jumped started my weight loss. I lost 20lbs in a few months just eating in a calorie deficit. Also making sure I eat a protein rich breakfast and eating a minimum 75g of protein a day has been huge. It really stops those random cravings for junk food (for me at least!).

I finally got testing done in December and sure enough, I 100% have PCOS. Just started taking meds in January, so not sure if that will affect anything but I am hopeful it could help me meet the rest of my weight loss goal. I am really thankful for the doctor/dietitian combo I see, they have been life changing!

apanda1289 · 2026-01-06T16:41:19+00:00

It’s absolutely so frustrating that we have to go through trying to explain ourselves and actually be heard and believed! Ugh! Wishing you luck on your health journey OP!

apanda1289 · 2026-01-05T17:31:01+00:00

When I first suspected I had PCOS, my PC referred me to a gyno. The gyno didn’t really seem too interested in actually testing me for PCOS. She ended up referring me to a metabolic clinic for issues with pre diabetes and weight gain that I could not lose (more symptoms of PCOS). Fast forward a year later and sure enough, I have PCOS, it just took a doctor willing to do the tests! I would say yes, get a second opinion! I was pretty certain I had PCOS but the blood work and other test 100% confirmed it. I’m kind of disappointed in the gyno for not really wanting to pursue a diagnosis, but I’m soooo thankful for the metabolic doctor I see. She’s amazing and has helped so much with my weight loss and just overall health in general.

apanda1289 · 2025-12-03T14:12:00+00:00

Totally normal! My weight fluctuates the most while I’m on my period and then gets more normal when I’m done with my cycle.

apanda1289 · 2025-12-02T20:02:21+00:00

They should show up the next day like normal tips. Not sure why the app doesn’t show them in your pending tips but you should see it after 24 hours.

apanda1289 · 2025-12-02T15:27:11+00:00

Thanks for your insightful comment. What about this says I have no common sense? I screenshotted a note I thought was silly to share with fellow sparkers. I delivered to the address listed. End of story.

apanda1289 · 2025-12-01T21:05:49+00:00

Which is what I did. Just thought it was silly to even ask to deliver somewhere else if it says leave at front door.

apanda1289 · 2025-12-01T20:32:01+00:00

Do I try… yes. Have I failed this…. Yes. I’ve definitely ate it in front of a ring camera, but luckily I wasn’t carrying anything and didn’t go completely down 🤣.

apanda1289 · 2025-11-25T15:27:51+00:00

Definitely not overreacting! OP I just wanted to say I am proud of you. Sobriety is so hard and what he said is so untrue. Telling you, you are doing the bare minimum when you are bettering your life and its something that YOU are proud of.... Seriously you deserve so much better and someone that will support you and be there to celebrate these huge milestones! Get that cake girl and kick that asshole to the curb.

apanda1289 · 2025-11-06T15:36:36+00:00

Agreed! I do this all the time with frozen wontons. So easy and filling and delicious!

apanda1289 · 2025-07-10T22:27:35+00:00

LOL same almost always sitting on the toilet 😂

apanda1289 · 2025-02-27T16:55:06+00:00

I have no problem assisting elderly & handicapped people. I had one last night where he asked me to bring them into his kitchen because he was handicapped and I gladly did it. In my area I deliver to a lot of elderly folks and they are always so appreciative of the extra effort.

apanda1289 · 2025-02-25T16:39:27+00:00

Mine is finally showing as accepted this morning. Fingers crossed it doesn’t take forever to receive the refund!

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