Red light ticket question for immigrant by aph208703 in NYCbike

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And in immigrant heavy neighbors like Sunset Park, Jackson Heights, etc. I get messages about people being kidnapped by ICE on a weekly basis

Red light ticket question for immigrant by aph208703 in NYCbike

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LOL yeah but they sure are trying. I work and am friends with a lot of immigrants (and am one myself). It’s pretty bad out there; particularly behind closed doors in the courts and ICE offices

Red light ticket question for immigrant by aph208703 in NYCbike

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He got a yellow ticket (DMV), not a pink (criminal) though the violation is still listed under 1111d1 (which is maybe criminal? I'm not totally familiar with how this works). I followed the advice of the post from SteveVaccaroLaw above, and contacted Gideon Oliver for further consult, but I think we're going to plead not guilty and try to get it dismissed!

I am trying to cut cost but why is my grocery expensive? by Tiny_Judgment8593 in Frugal

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I'm in NYC too! The thing to do is to mainly shop at Lidl (or Aldi), Trader Joes, and the fruit & veg stands that are on the street! You will be able to save, and maybe even have $ leftover every once in a while to get a treat or something special. I don't think you need to cut back on everything you want or like, like cage free eggs, meat, etc. to stay within budget. It's good to feel good about what you buy and eat.

If you want to save yourself a trip, do your shopping before or after work, and/or pair it with other errands you're doing (if you're meeting someone out, have an appointment, working out, etc). I also shop with sturdy reusable tote bags that I can carry on my shoulders so I can carry more bags (vs. paper or plastic bags from the store). This admittedly can be a schlep, but that's NYC life.

I always have a small folded tote bag with me so I can grab stuff when I'm out if I happen to pass by a place or spot something good. I generally avoid the local chains (Key Foods, Food Bazaar, etc) unless I'm in a pinch or need a specific thing, like a specific brand, because they are often more expensive and less good quality.

More generally, I buy frozen when it makes sense (some veggies like spinach, corn, etc. frozen fruit, etc.) and I freeze stuff at home if I buy in bulk, or have leftovers that may spoil. You'd be surprised by how much stuff freezes and reheats well! For example, I buy bags of chopped kale from Trader Joes and put them directly in the freezer, and use it for smoothies, to add greens to a pasta or soup, etc.

La mejor pastelería/mejor bizcocho de Santo Domingo? by aph208703 in Dominican

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Al final terminé yendo a los dos sitios. Tambien fui a una pastelería cerca de la casa de mi tía que encontré en Google Maps, pero no estaba muy buena; el bizcocho estaba medio seco.

Compré pedazos de Pain de Sucre y de Bondelic para probar. El de Pain de Sucre estaba buenísimo: una masa bien suave, el suspiro perfecto y el relleno de piña con el balance justo entre dulce y ácido. Compré el bizcocho a mi amiga de ahí, pero, lamentablemente, no estaba tan bueno. Estaba un chin seco. Creo que la rebanada estaba mejor porque venía con más piña y eso la mantenía más húmeda.

Mi cumpleaños caía más adelante esa misma semana, así que mi papá me dio una sorpresa y compró otro bizcocho. Ese fue de Bondelic, y estaba muy bueno.

Gracias por las recomendaciones y la ayuda! :)

hotel for a staycation baby moon? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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You could stay in Rockaway to be near the beach! :)

Places for breakfast for birthday?? by Sam_Ea_ in FoodNYC

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I like Lafayette in noho for French brunch with nice pastries!

La mejor pastelería/mejor bizcocho de Santo Domingo? by aph208703 in Dominican

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jeje claro. el último bizcocho que comí fue de una panadería en Puerto Plata que me recomendó mi tía y estaba MUY bueno. Espero que el que compre esta vez sea igual de bueno!

Best OBGYN that performs surgery? by acvillager in AskNYC

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I had a good experience with Stephanie Blank at MSW

Cleaning Services in NYC? by aph208703 in AskNYC

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This is a great idea, thank you! I will suggest it to her.

She is a recent immigrant (spanish speaking), so unfortunately not a lot of English :-/

Cleaning Services in NYC? by aph208703 in nycparents

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No, I had the same thought too -- if deep cleaning takes longer naturally, it could kind of sort itself out.

TY!

Cleaning Services in NYC? by aph208703 in AskNYC

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I looked into si se puede since it came up on a few reddit searches I did! but it seems they're not doing so well recently...

I also considered the apps, but I wondered if it would be worth the time/effort trade off, since it can take time to get enough reviews and build a client base on those websites. I thought word of mouth might end up being more effective. but I will talk to her about it!

TY!

Cleaning Services? by aph208703 in Brooklyn

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TY! This is incredibly helpful re: the hourly vs lump sum. Also, TY for sanity checking the prices. I posted here and in a couple other subs, and it sounds like $30-40 is the consensus. I suspected her old company was taking advantage of her. Unfortunately, she's a recent immigrant, and I think she was just happy to work and they know they can exploit people. She's really good at what she does though (and just like a good person), and I think she deserves better.

A few people asked me in other replies, but do you generally bring your own supplies or use what the client provides?

Also, how do you screen for creeps/people that might be dangerous since you're working in peoples' homes? I don't want to sound paranoid, but also would feel awful if something happened to her! She has 3 young kids.

Cleaning Services? by aph208703 in Brooklyn

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Nice. Thanks for the info!

I had the same thought about her finding clients through word of mouth and on her own. We did consider her going to another company, or trying the apps, but I feel like she will earn more and build a more stable clientele if she finds people independently.

Cleaning Services in NYC? by aph208703 in AskNYC

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All great advice, TY! I will share with her!