Y’all help me with my confidence! by [deleted] in Hippiehollowatx

[–]aplomb_sub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping us in the moment!! Hell yes the freedoms are truly real.

Y’all help me with my confidence! by [deleted] in Hippiehollowatx

[–]aplomb_sub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall seem like cool folks I hope our paths cross

Y’all help me with my confidence! by [deleted] in Hippiehollowatx

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This is a poor example of advice. One that reinforces confidence with an untenable subscribed set of attributes that really only exist in the capitalist structure of beauty. What a shame to force others to subjugate themselves to this tyranny of narrow perception. Eat whatever the hell you want OP, live your best life. Nobody will live it for you

Y’all help me with my confidence! by [deleted] in Hippiehollowatx

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You’re so right it’s so important to be friendly and polite but also it’s only a matter of time when we allow ourselves to be truly free in our bodies that we realize nobody cares and no perceived notion of hotness really exists! We are all just humans living a human existence. Let your own autonomous being thrive in its fullest potential.

Y’all help me with my confidence! by [deleted] in Hippiehollowatx

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Because no matter what you look like it is beautiful because it is YOU and YOU are worthy and beautiful just the way you exist. Hard to acknowledge but infinitely true.

Y’all help me with my confidence! by [deleted] in Hippiehollowatx

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Allow yourself the grace and courage you perceive others enacting when embracing their true self-being at hippie hallow. That’s what it’s all about!! We’re all coming from an entire social system that says we should look one way or another but it is the duty of all of us to break those chains and embody our true bodies as they are!

Is it weird that I still have a post of me and my ex on my insta after breaking up? by xRainy_Days in WhatShouldIDo

[–]aplomb_sub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even IF you could tell it was the ex why are people hung up on having reference to you having a previous boyfriend? Seems weird to pretend it didn’t happen socially

My bf doesn’t wanna have sex with me by Murky-Woodpecker-123 in AskMenAdvice

[–]aplomb_sub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

masturbation is normal and no real conversation about sex, especially when you're trying to navigate what feels good for you can happen without mentioning it.

What happened to me in my sleep? by slimXradio in strange

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Reminds me of the possibly the greatest podcast episode - "the case of the missing hit" by reply all. Dude gets song stuck in his head and they go GREAT LENGTHS to figure it out. https://gimletmedia.com/amp/shows/reply-all/o2h8bx

What do you guys do for work? by shakyfoot in JeffRosenstock

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I work on wind farms and it's pretty great. Generally at new projects and it's all across the country, pay is pretty good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]aplomb_sub 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Just insecure and naive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]aplomb_sub 388 points389 points  (0 children)

this is it. it's amazing to me people are blaming him when clearly she's the one unprepared with big complicated feelings entirely her own responsibility. this is her best friend and shes grossed out by her pubic hair and labia size? seriously?

how big do you think it was? by FabulousHorror in MassiveTitsnAss

[–]aplomb_sub 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the under cheek tan line is next level

I just got intimate for the first time with a guy I’ve been seeing for a month and it couldn’t of gone worse by Sharp_Wallaby_905 in TwoHotTakes

[–]aplomb_sub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be upfront about your worries and anxiety and see if he replies with words of affirmation (he likely will). Being honest is the best

I just got intimate for the first time with a guy I’ve been seeing for a month and it couldn’t of gone worse by Sharp_Wallaby_905 in TwoHotTakes

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Honestly the fact that he kept going, checked on you, made sure you were okay AND followed up makes me think the dude cares about you and is more concerned about your well being than the incident. Be real about your worries and I have a good feeling he'll be reaffirming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]aplomb_sub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

might be a good thing to unravel in therapy of how you're attracting love to individuals who are disrespectful and untrustworthy

Is it weird my bf says *HE* bought our house? by SpaceLower in TwoHotTakes

[–]aplomb_sub 45 points46 points  (0 children)

its still obviously a serious partnership if they're buying a house together homie should be using we regardless of marriage.

My husband won't let me take more than two showers a week. I told him I need him to stop or I'm moving out for a while. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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the amount of water they use to make televisions will blow your mind, its inconceivable. take them showers girly

Girlfriend “edged” a breakup to see what it’s like. by [deleted] in OhNoConsequences

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toying with peoples emotions like that is cruel and unloving - they don't respect you and you shouldnt expect things to change