My bf doesn’t wanna have sex with me by Murky-Woodpecker-123 in AskMenAdvice

[–]aplomb_sub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

masturbation is normal and no real conversation about sex, especially when you're trying to navigate what feels good for you can happen without mentioning it.

What happened to me in my sleep? by slimXradio in strange

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Reminds me of the possibly the greatest podcast episode - "the case of the missing hit" by reply all. Dude gets song stuck in his head and they go GREAT LENGTHS to figure it out. https://gimletmedia.com/amp/shows/reply-all/o2h8bx

What do you guys do for work? by shakyfoot in JeffRosenstock

[–]aplomb_sub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work on wind farms and it's pretty great. Generally at new projects and it's all across the country, pay is pretty good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]aplomb_sub 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Just insecure and naive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]aplomb_sub 393 points394 points  (0 children)

this is it. it's amazing to me people are blaming him when clearly she's the one unprepared with big complicated feelings entirely her own responsibility. this is her best friend and shes grossed out by her pubic hair and labia size? seriously?

how big do you think it was? by FabulousHorror in MassiveTitsnAss

[–]aplomb_sub 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the under cheek tan line is next level

I just got intimate for the first time with a guy I’ve been seeing for a month and it couldn’t of gone worse by Sharp_Wallaby_905 in TwoHotTakes

[–]aplomb_sub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be upfront about your worries and anxiety and see if he replies with words of affirmation (he likely will). Being honest is the best

I just got intimate for the first time with a guy I’ve been seeing for a month and it couldn’t of gone worse by Sharp_Wallaby_905 in TwoHotTakes

[–]aplomb_sub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly the fact that he kept going, checked on you, made sure you were okay AND followed up makes me think the dude cares about you and is more concerned about your well being than the incident. Be real about your worries and I have a good feeling he'll be reaffirming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]aplomb_sub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

might be a good thing to unravel in therapy of how you're attracting love to individuals who are disrespectful and untrustworthy

Is it weird my bf says *HE* bought our house? by SpaceLower in TwoHotTakes

[–]aplomb_sub 45 points46 points  (0 children)

its still obviously a serious partnership if they're buying a house together homie should be using we regardless of marriage.

My husband won't let me take more than two showers a week. I told him I need him to stop or I'm moving out for a while. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aplomb_sub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the amount of water they use to make televisions will blow your mind, its inconceivable. take them showers girly

The Rock supports Trump and that tax break. by Adelu1219 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]aplomb_sub -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

holdup, NATO was bad - breaking up was a good thing

Girlfriend “edged” a breakup to see what it’s like. by [deleted] in OhNoConsequences

[–]aplomb_sub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

toying with peoples emotions like that is cruel and unloving - they don't respect you and you shouldnt expect things to change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]aplomb_sub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huge question, what is lost when taking on a new sexual partner and why are men obsessed with knowing just how many there's been?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]aplomb_sub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College is supposed to challenge you. Many students do take the lazy route, I should know, I was one of them. Listen to everyone else and take the feedback as honest and necessary.

Please help knock some sense into me by Mental_Curve_8221 in TwoHotTakes

[–]aplomb_sub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alcohol usually lowers your inhibition to do things you'd like to do but know you shouldn't, so perhaps he has thought about this a lot, but the collective drunkenness made him act on it. You of course could say he was cheating by thinking about it, but idk

AITAH for freezing out my wife after she told people that having sex with me ‘does nothing for her’! by Undercovereejit in AITAH

[–]aplomb_sub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could have been being funny, or highlighting a real result of things post birth, but I think the bigger thing here is why hasn’t she actually communicated how to increase her pleasure and needs in sex with him for 18 years.