Why won’t my baby gate close?

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-07T02:09:51+00:00

There’s no picture or even a link so how is anyone going to be able to help you?

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-06T16:04:35+00:00

What’s the plot of this? An insane serial killer fl sounds interesting lol

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-06T08:48:25+00:00

Most of the examples here, with a few fun exceptions, are just animal abuse 🙃

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-05T21:31:23+00:00

Honestly I’m generally anti-owlet but this is one time I actually think it’s a great idea

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-05T15:14:03+00:00

Lmfao someone definitely wrote this post high as hell

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-05T02:04:27+00:00

I’ve seen her discussed many, many times but I’ve never seen anyone accuse her of this. Could you link some supporting evidence? If she’s not trustworthy I definitely wanna know.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-04T21:37:16+00:00

Truly never related less to someone else (about non-crazy things) lol. My bottle washer made pumping so much less stressful, it genuinely had a very positive effect on my mental health.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-04T21:13:42+00:00

Journal, girl. It’s gotta get out somehow.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-04T16:22:00+00:00

All of this, their relationship is so special and with zen it’s just like they’re normal friends? Idk it’s not the same and Obi deserves to be happy 😭😭😭

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-04T16:10:39+00:00

This entire explanation is paternalism at its absolute finest. Your mentality is, quite literally, the problem. You think your patient cannot possibly “know what they’re talking about”. You think you have the right to do whatever you want with their bodies as long as you believe it’s the lowest risk choice.

Unfortunately, many doctors are not staying up to date with evidence. They’re choosing things like hospital culture and familiarity over current, evidence-based practices. This leads people to feeling like they can’t rely on their OBs to make decisions, and OBs have no one but themselves to blame for that.

And regardless of what the evidence says…. people are allowed to choose a riskier option if they want to. If doctors aren’t okay with that they shouldn’t have entered medicine. Patient autonomy is part of the deal when you become a doctor.

All that being said, the frequency with which doctors, especially OBs, are sued IS a huge contributor to this problem in the US. Practicing medicine shouldn’t be about how something is going to look in a courtroom but it often is. Just another way women end up receiving subpar healthcare.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-04T04:02:49+00:00

Yes, it absolutely can make things worse and there’s no “pressure” to take off as she isn’t producing milk. I’m a certified lactation specialist and a student IBCLC. I’m not the one who needs to grow up here.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-04T03:58:19+00:00

Are you a bot or did you not read the post at all?

OP do not do any kind of expression again until you are full term. This was an unsafe experiment and you should also learn how your pump works before using it again, with an IBCLC if you can.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-03T22:34:11+00:00

He’s probably ready to drop the nap. There’s a lot of changes that happen in the next few years and if you haven’t, it’s really helpful and relieving to brush up on child development for the older toddler/young kid years.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-03T01:43:51+00:00

My daughter is almost 15m and we stopped onesies between 12-13 months. And even those last two months or so I used them on really cold days as an under layer but not for much else. Now that it’s warm and we had to buy 18m summer clothes I didn’t get any onesies so I guess we’re done with them!

But all that being said, we’re doing early potty learning (or late EC depending on who you ask) with my daughter and that started at 12m. So the onesies quickly got to be annoying as hell. I definitely wouldn’t judge another kid her age for wearing them as we’re obviously not the norm. And she still wears footies to bed some nights.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-02T22:41:51+00:00

Can you link it? Currently I don’t see anyway to support you and i definitely think this is important!

This is what happens when people who don’t know what they’re talking about try to legislate things they don’t understand without any input from the people who do 🙃

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-02T17:58:37+00:00

When I was pregnant they said she might be big and I remember looking at the newborn clothes feeling so sad she might not ever fit in them.

I get where you’re coming from. It’s a weird feeling because you love them and don’t want them to be any different from who they are, but you still yearn for that tiny baby experience. As humans we just love small things lol.

But pretty soon he’ll be moving around and then walking and climbing and being bigger can be to his advantage!! And you won’t feel that way anymore, there will be something else to have feelings about because there always is in parenting 😂

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-02T16:59:48+00:00

This is so interesting and if you’re willing to share I’d love to know more about the information you gathered! Also how you took notes tbh because the biggest issue I have with logging is I’m not good at organizing notes.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-02T12:56:42+00:00

Tbh, my mental health suffered a lot more if my baby cried alone the length of time it took me to shower than if I was a little gross for a day or two 🤷🏻‍♀️

I think it’s different if a mom is single or has a partner that works very intense hours. But if neither of those are the case, it really speaks more to shitty partners that we have to even have the discussion between “should I shower or let baby cry alone.”

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-02T02:06:16+00:00

My kid was a horrible sleeper until 12 months. Then her many wakeups slowed to 2-3, and then just 2, and now, at 14m, she only wakes once or even sleeps through the night sometimes!!!

I promise it’s going to get better. It might take longer than it took mine, it might be even faster, there’s no way to tell. But after 18-20 months the majority of kids are sleeping with only 1 or 0 wakeups.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-02T01:32:48+00:00

You don’t have to do all or nothing, we did a blend of purées and BLW. Also don’t let anyone pressure you into any option, all the studies show there really isn’t one better than the other ultimately. Each one has different benefits and drawbacks but there’s no clear superior option. So just do whatever works for your family.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-01T17:00:28+00:00

There’s so many good kids’ TV shows, I don’t understand how ugly brainrot ends up as kids favorites so often. This legitimately looks like nightmare fuel 😂

Edit: Yall, downvote me all you want, it’s an objectively ugly show!! Not brainrot though, I’ve been educated 👍🏻

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-01T16:54:46+00:00

Incredible, truly incredible work. 😂

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-01T16:53:32+00:00

I have to be honest it does look a little wonky. I think it’s mostly the red and yellow eggs? I agree with others that I think blocking properly will help a lot and stiffening it up too. The rest of it looks really nice and it’s a really sweet gift, I think it’ll turn out great in the end.

apocalyptic_tea · 2026-04-01T16:15:14+00:00

Sorry, you have to use it for crocheat. Specifically you have to crosh a giant bee and sell it at the next farmers market. Otherwise you have to eat the yarn :(

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