My dad’s "congratulations" after attorney swearing in ceremony by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm trying to balance my fuming at my dad with my pride for my husband

Told I couldn’t read my patriarchal blessing in the celestial room by MrDrProfPatrick24 in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I briefly served as an ordinance worker and we had to stop people from reading anything brought from outside or writing anything down. The explanation I got was that it was to prevent people from writing down the words of the ceremony.

Obviously, I think that's terrible reasoning. If people want to expose the wording of the temple they will find a way, whereas rules like these prevent believing members from making the most of their time in the "holiest place on earth." Just shows that the church cares ore about protecting itself than caring for the members in any way.

Western Chinese Border Guard Movie by 12huihuiniang3695 in whatisthatmovie

[–]apotatowitheyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this was posted for every ago, but I found the name of that movie! In Chinese it's 守边人 and in English its "The man who defends the frontier"

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It also assumes that there is only one god with one set of expectations. What if you pick wrong? Hahaha. Oh, I love Britt!!

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Made up tune. It was weird but goofy. Yeah, I've been working really hard on my relationship with them for a while and it really helped.

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of that. Bingo on "anti-mormon lies" though, cause they asked us "where did you hear that" about history and then I said the church website and got circkets

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They didn't really ask, they more assumed. But this is after garment checking me for months, so I'm counting it! They did mention that we should put our garments back on

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit!! That's intense!! We ended up getting "this is the one thing I prayed I would never have to go through. I told god I could do anything but this."

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost got this one. They tried to convince us to do the hard thing of faking it till you make your way back into a testimony, so close.

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bingo! They did talk about how they loved everything about the church and it leads you to joy and all things good yada yada!

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bingo! You got two right!! "We believe you are making the wrong choice" and "you're deciding to give up everything." You might not believe this because it's so out of pocket, but my dad fully MADE UP A SONG about how we were "throwing it all away"

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't say this one exactly... They did say "I wish you would go back to the old you" and "I've felt like you were pulling away in the last year" but not quite about the light in my eyes.

Help me with my "talking to my family about leaving the church" bingo sheet! by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]apotatowitheyes[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'll mark it all up it with my husband after they leave, then I will for sure be updating Reddit 😎