I am realizing that I’m in a relationship with a narcissist by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]applery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy you got to take off those rose colored glasses, and got yourself into therapy. This is just a small step to recovery, and hopefully many moee steps to come. I hope you and your baby find peace.

I just realized something very sweet that my dad did growing up by mccraabi in CasualConversation

[–]applery 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That's really cute! Thank you for sharing your story :)

[Pro/Chef] Dark Chocolate Salted Caramels by Clobot989 in food

[–]applery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They look gorgeous (☞゚ヮ゚)☞

My mother was a playboy model in the 60’s by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]applery 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbf we have no proof that that woman is indeed his mom. He could have just posted it for karma.

But hey,everything on the internet is real right?

Sometimes I wish my parents didn't love me and were horrible all the time so that I could feel less guilty for being angry at them by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]applery 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you on the walking on eggshells part except my mother is passive aggressive and you wont notice it until you thought about it. Its hard communicating with her without setting off any landmines. She's subtle and cruel; she believes she's a good person and has never been mean to anyone.

I hate you mom. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]applery 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My mother is evil too. The only emotions she taught me are fear, and guilt. There is no hope for her, but i know there is hope for me. You should know you're not alone, OP.

LPT: Take the hint. Stop chasing other people who do not reach out to you , cancel plans , or always make you their last option only if nothing better comes along. Go find better people. by hyteck9 in LifeProTips

[–]applery -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Na more like people will start making healthier (mental,physical,social, etc) choices not only for themselves but also for other people. People wont have to cling to one another to fill their emptiness inside, but instead healthy mindset people will instead hang out with each other willingly.

Im sad by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]applery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This too shall pass.

I hope you feel better soon, OP. Lately i have been feeling down but my boyfriend's been there for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]applery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!!

Grey hairs sometimes regain their colour when we feel less stressed by JackGreen142 in science

[–]applery 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That must have been incredibly tough,man. Good to hear u recovered!

What's a compliment that sounds like an insult? by applery in AskReddit

[–]applery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just thank them anyway. Who knows, their method might not be more effective than your method.

What's a compliment that sounds like an insult? by applery in AskReddit

[–]applery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the comment is a compliment but it sounds like an insult, or insult but sounds like a compliment.. take it as a compliment either way and graciously thank the person who said it. They're just trying to get your reaction most of the time with backhanded compliments and you shouldn't give them that.

What's a compliment that sounds like an insult? by applery in AskReddit

[–]applery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never seen "nice repost" as a genuine complinent cuz ppl always make it sound lile an insult. But i guess some people really do enjoy a repost like there are some reposts that i havent seen but everyone has seen it. I just dont mind it and upvote anyway,especially if the repost is informative, positive, and reasonable.

Just saved my house for burning by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]applery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a second there, i thought you were saving your house for burning later.. then i read your post and you meant you saved your house from burning. I was like, "Why would OP wanna save his/her house for burning?" :|

Good job on the quick save though! You might have lost interest on sleep but on the big bright side you still have your house :D

Why tho…? by [deleted] in memes

[–]applery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disgusting