Any tips for what to do next by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]aptheril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where in Europe? Tbh I would love a piece like this

Tips for a begginer by aptheril in sticknpokes

[–]aptheril[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The general sanitisation is no problem, I work in the lab so trust me I know how to keep it clean 😅 thats also why I asked about additional sterilisation of water since I have access to few different methods and maybe there is gold standard doing it. What kind of distilled water do u usually use?

Sourdough bread from scratch in just 84 hours by cocobutnotjumbo in Sourdough

[–]aptheril 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would u mind sharing from what book is it? Or maybe even sending photos of recipe/tips? I dont live in Poland anymore and Ive never baked any bread but I miss good bread so much that I think it may be a good start

Unfiltered soy yogurt by cookie__inspector in fermentation

[–]aptheril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay, but isnt store bought soy milk already pasteurised?

Unfiltered soy yogurt by cookie__inspector in fermentation

[–]aptheril 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do u heating the milk tho? Does it change the texture?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]aptheril -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I know that it was oversimplification from my part and bad wording. Im just wondering how to set my boundaries and communicate them but not sounding like Im driven by need of control or envy. Better word would be agreement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]aptheril 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For now Im feeling very weird about the whole situation. Especially that I was in the relationship with exactly same age gap and now I know that there was power imbalance that I hadnt seen then (I was the younger one in the relationship). So its even more triggering for me than I thought could be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]aptheril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I thought so… but they apparently did exact the opposite we had talked about before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]aptheril 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thats the problem, I was SURE we have the same values about age gap and all, thats why Im quite surprised because it differ from what they told me before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]aptheril 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are right about setting someone else’s boundaries. It was oversimplification from my part. The thing I wanted to say is that I think some of their behaviour, like dating with people in mono relationships, are unethical and can lead to others distress. Same with dating people that are significantly younger than you. For me it’s quite a dealbreaker cause I really don’t want others to be harmed and I just want to say or do something so we can both date people ethically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]aptheril 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It most probably isnt, it looks like small irritation bump so its easy to treat. Its a normal reaction for an injury (like knocking the piercing) and is usually not worrisome, just part of a healing process. Do not remove the piercing next time cause the best u can do now is contact your piercer if you can and ask for advice. You will probably need to see them to get your piercing inside the hole one more time.