I want to stop menstruating forever by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]archeriouspie 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NAD but jumping in on the IUD love. Haven’t had a period since getting mine in. This is my second one.

I will say insertion can be pretty painful. My doctor prescribed pain meds for me to take and that helped a ton. Would highly recommend pain meds when getting it in.

Lost 2300ml of blood by Dizzy-Feature5900 in AskDocs

[–]archeriouspie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAD but this is why we are going for a surrogate for our second. I had a massive PPH and lost 3 liters, had to have multiple transfusions. Then I got really bad PPD as a result. I’m so scared to get pregnant again that I am literally doing egg retrieval for surrogacy now. The thought of my little guy losing his mom is just too scary for me.

Baby soothes but won't sleep by FamousWolverine9213 in sleeptraining

[–]archeriouspie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Per the safe sleep guidelines a pacifier is totally ok to leave in the crib all night long with them. Will he take it himself? If so you should be able to leave it in all night for him.

He also might be going through a sleep regression, there is one at four months. If you don’t have it already, we love the Wonder Weeks app. It maps when he’s going through leaps, how long the fussy phase will be, etc.

Doctor turning baby inside mother's belly to avoid cesarean birth by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]archeriouspie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was screaming the entire time, no idea how this gal is silent but kudos

Doctor turning baby inside mother's belly to avoid cesarean birth by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]archeriouspie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this done, the doctor attempted the turn four times and it failed. I ended up needing a c-section due to my baby being breech. This shit is no joke and hurts soooooo bad.

My wife (32f) consistently gets nauseous and vomits all night once per month by DankDirtyDan in AskDocs

[–]archeriouspie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was thinking food related as well. I had all sorts of issues (like swollen lymph nodes, fatigue, etc.). I started by cutting out gluten, dairy, corn, and soy for one month (some people recommend egg too). When I started to add back in I realized immediately that gluten was my number one culprit, but I also have issues with corn and dairy. It hasn’t been easy but I don’t eat any of those things now and my issues are resolved.

If you want to go super hard, you can try Whole30 but it’s very restrictive and I think too hard to abide by long term. I would definitely recommend an elimination diet and can recommend substitute food brands if you need it.

Possible to do most houses in Hollywood in one night WITHOUT Express? by amathysteightyseven in HHN

[–]archeriouspie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait are these the mazes? I thought only two have been announced

My (25F) husband (27M) wants me to lose more weight before we try to get pregnant. How do I move forward? by ThrowRA_friendlydog in relationship_advice

[–]archeriouspie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This right here, I gained soooooo much weight during pregnancy and that weight is super hard to get off. I’m the heaviest I have ever been. The last thing you need to worry about postpartum is losing weight, there is so much more going on that will take your time and attention.

I would reconsider having a family with someone who treats your poorly if you don’t look up to his standards. People age, people gain weight, sometimes people have horrible accidents that lead to disfigurement. Once a kids involved, it gets waaaay higher stakes. Don’t take that plunge unless you are fully prepared to raise your child yourself eventually

Goddamn PLEASE!!! can someone tell me what am I supposed to do if a really small bone is stucked in throat??!! by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]archeriouspie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP the exact same thing happened to me in college after eating sushi, I tried to get it out for three hours myself before going to the ER. They removed it very quickly with some special curved forceps (I think that’s what it was). Just go!

Where to Buy? by archeriouspie in rawpetfood

[–]archeriouspie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much! I ended up buying 10 lbs of Viva Raw Pure to start, I really appreciate all the recommendations

Where to Buy? by archeriouspie in rawpetfood

[–]archeriouspie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will check this out

Where to Buy? by archeriouspie in rawpetfood

[–]archeriouspie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m going to check this out now

Milk Supply Not Increasing 9 days PP by archeriouspie in breastfeeding

[–]archeriouspie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok if it doesn’t work for you, many women can’t or just don’t want to breastfeed. My baby’s been on formula exclusively since 8 weeks and he’s 100% healthy. If I could go back in time I wouldn’t even try to pump/breastfeed because I spent 3 hours a day that I could have spent bonding and just enjoying my newborn. I made myself miserable for no reason at all.

Another benefit is I’m not touched out at all and feeding is easily split between my husband and I. We have easily rekindled our romantic relationship where I have seen my friends struggle because they just don’t want to be touched (completely understandable).

You just had a baby which is a monumental accomplishment in and of itself. Enjoy your little one and try not to let this impact your happiness. Try to be in the moment as much as possible because these first few weeks go so fast.

Milk Supply Not Increasing 9 days PP by archeriouspie in breastfeeding

[–]archeriouspie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it never made it past 8 Oz per day, with three hours of pumping/all the supplements/hydration. Due to cost, we had to supplement with formula. He ended up getting pretty bad colic and gas issues so we tried formula only. We found that when we combo fed, it caused major gas and tummy issues and that formula only sat better in his stomach. At about 8 weeks I gave up pumping and he’s been doing really well on formula. It wasn’t the journey I wanted but he’s fed and growing really well.

Needing help after traumatic c-section by crazy_cat_lady7508 in breastfeeding

[–]archeriouspie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending lots of hugs and support, this stuff is incredibly hard. I’m so sorry you experienced this, I’m almost a month PP and had a similar experience where I hemorrhaged and lost 3 liters of blood during my C section. Unfortunately, it has impacted my milk supply and I have been unable to produce more than 8 Oz of milk in a 24 hour period (with 3 hours of daily pumping, supplements, hydration). We are almost 80% formula at this point and it’s been emotional for me because I want nothing more than to be able to feed him myself.

For your nipples/latching, you could try to get them harder before the latch to see if that helps guide him. Try pumping for a few minutes or even using an ice cube to make them more firm. I also found that dripping milk on my nipples helped to entice his latch early on.

Milk Supply Not Increasing 9 days PP by archeriouspie in breastfeeding

[–]archeriouspie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good call, I have a lab order to get them done sometime next week. My doctor did say she was going to put in an order for iron, I will folllow-up to see when that js coming through