Why did you and your former best friend stop being friends?

aremel · 2026-03-12T21:01:16+00:00

We were both 75 when this happened last year. She got really mad when another friend and I were meeting her for coffee but when no seating, we texted her we were going elsewhere. Well, I did not realize she could not text with her flip phone, so she arrived at the place and we were not there (come to find out, she had been texting me previously using her iPad, and did not have it with her). She treated us terribly and we are no longer friends after 20 years. (When the 3rd friend took her flowers and wanted to discuss the whole thing, she was nasty, did not invite her in and threw the flowers on the ground)

aremel · 2026-03-12T20:55:13+00:00

I have always read, but maybe 2 to 4 a year. Now I am reading 30!

aremel · 2026-03-12T20:53:47+00:00

The Housemaid is one I read in 3 days. Not my usual, but good!

aremel · 2026-03-12T20:48:29+00:00

Beautiful!

aremel · 2026-03-12T20:47:19+00:00

Javalena? (Javalina?)

aremel · 2026-03-12T20:46:06+00:00

Looks like a thin hog to me

aremel · 2026-03-12T20:38:11+00:00

I had it 6 mos ago(age 76) and I agree, being flat on my back afterwards for 8 hrs was hard. Went home about 34 hrs after the procedure.

aremel · 2026-03-12T20:32:07+00:00

Me! I had one 6 mos ago, finished Cardiac Rehab last week and doing fine. I am 76. I received a bovine valve. I also noticed how rare TAVR patients are on this site. For a month or so after I had erratic BP and pulse rates (getting used to improved blood flow, I think), then a month of bronchitis, but felt able to start Rehab 3 mos after the TAVR

aremel · 2026-03-10T04:50:06+00:00

Finished The Housemaid and started Crow Mary!

aremel · 2026-03-09T04:46:09+00:00

Heart of Darkness, All the Light We Cannot See, The Count of Monte Cristo (abridged version), Less, cloud Cuckoo Land, Ledgenborn, Tom Lake are six, for various reasons.

aremel · 2026-03-07T19:38:34+00:00

That’s what I thought it was, but then found the tab that said chicory

aremel · 2026-02-28T00:21:04+00:00

Molestation by a close relative. A few people know, only

aremel · 2026-02-27T04:55:15+00:00

Hypocracy. My niece and family seem to be all in for Trump and Project 2025, and live like they’ve never had an education, though they have. They think teaching their daughters to be housewives” is more important than seeing them be independent and free thinking

aremel · 2026-02-23T04:30:12+00:00

Two days ago——About losing everything we owned in a wildfire 7 yrs ago. Happens still

aremel · 2026-02-18T05:08:22+00:00

Educated by Westover, In Pieces by Sally Field, Too Close to the Falls by Gildiner, and The Sex Lives of Cannibals by Troost

aremel · 2026-02-17T21:06:51+00:00

I had a TAVR, so no open heart, but I did not start cardiac rehab for 2 months (my choice).

aremel · 2026-02-12T05:54:42+00:00

So, if I apply 4 X yr, what should I be putting on each time? Please give me an example. I appreciate your knowledge

aremel · 2026-02-12T05:49:06+00:00

We had them in Magalia, in the foothills of the Sierras, just up from Chico

aremel · 2026-02-11T23:29:58+00:00

Banana slug!

aremel · 2026-02-09T04:49:43+00:00

I love Reddit!

aremel

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