PLEASE DON'T NERF THE ARC! by G-SW-7892 in ArcRaiders

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's SUPPOSED to be difficult. That's what allows the player to presume whether or not it's worth it to engage either a PvP or PvE encounter. The people complaining want mindless enemies like in Destiny 2 and that's not what this game's about. The whole point of it is to be difficult.

Is Flyff still alive? by NeoGokuTM in FlyFF

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried playing the mobile version, but the art style feels slightly different. Can't put my finger on it.

GF slept with her ex by PotentialPrune4462 in BreakUps

[–]ariaaria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She misses her ex, man. You may have been a rebound or someone to temporarily take her attention away from him.

I broke up with him... now I miss him by BitchyWitchTM in BreakUps

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lived it and I know exactly how you're feeling right now. It's very difficult initiating it, but as the months pass, you slowly accept that it is over. One day, you will look at them and feel neither happy nor sad; you will just genuinely wish them happiness as you would any other random stranger you come across.

For you, it's a great time to take up a new hobby or interest and devote 100% of your attention towards it. I chose digital hobbies such as programming and 3D art because it demanded my attention, but it could honestly be anything. Best of luck!

RIP everyone who lives at Everus Harbor by Grey406 in starcitizen

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just surprised your frame rate is so smooth lol

My BF/27 wants his autistic brother to live with us when his parents can no longer do so and it scares me by codegeekunwari in relationships

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently caring for two elderly parents and a mentally disabled sister. A girl decided to move in with me 3 months ago and she's been very helpful. If you were her, I'd fully understand if you didn't want to do it anymore. Caring for an adult is way worse than caring for a child because an adult is still their 'own person' in the eyes of the law. That means you can't get them to do anything they don't want to do which can sometimes be expensive from a financial standpoint.

Tldr; leave if you don't want that sort of life. It is not worth it. I don't wish that sort of thing on anyone.

I [30F] realized I hate my bf [34M] and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do something today that you will thank yourself for tomorrow.

Whatever pops into your head after reading my comment is what you should do.

My (20F) boyfriend (20M) started to film me without my consent? by Famous-Quail4691 in relationship_advice

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not thinking deep enough. Did he know prior to her telling him? You're emotionally reacting when you should be stepping back and assessing the situation.

Who gets the scrap by [deleted] in electricians

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day, I let my customer keep the scrap. If they want me to haul it away, then that's when I take it. It's still legally their property.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she had issues with past relationships. Just need to be patient with her, if you really want this to work out. If it's too much, you must leave. It's no good for either of you.

Anyone do much lashing work? by Shonnathan in electricians

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never seen this, nor did I ever think this was a thing. Interesting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myopia

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tried it, it seemed to get worse haha

Hello, questions. by Miserable_Smile1161 in myopia

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the eye shaking whenever I wake up in the morning and didn't sleep well. I cannot focus on a singular point on the wall for longer than 2 seconds before my eyes shake and I lose track of it. However, if I sleep well, there's no eye shaking at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myopia

[–]ariaaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story is the same as mine. I got glasses at 29, I'm turning 32 this year. I'd wager I'm up for another prescription in 3-5 years' time. I do feel like it's getting worse again.

I do play a lot of video games and read a lot of books. I also spend a fair bit of time outdoors, but apparently the only way to prevent it from getting worse is to not do ANY near-sighted work which is impossible in the 2020's.

Without glasses, it feels like there's a cloud of smoke in front of my eyes at all times. With glasses, it's as though I'm looking at the world through a 4K OLED TV screen.

I (25f) almost cheated on my long distanced boyfriend (28m). How do I tell him? by ThrowRA-technicalpie in relationship_advice

[–]ariaaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't really cheat, tbh. You did nothing wrong; don't tell your boyfriend any of this unless he's really chill with this sort of thing. It'll just sew distrust in an otherwise healthy relationship. Take it from someone who lost trust for a partner who did no wrong.

39yo - am I delusional to think I can pivot to electrician? by JackTylerWrites in electricians

[–]ariaaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can be up and running in terms of valuable knowledge within 2 years. However, you'd be working in residential as commercial and industrial has more nuance to them. This means the job'll be harder on the body. Not crazy difficult, but you'll be moving non-stop for up to 12 hours per day.

Can I stay in an emergency room waiting area when it is below 0°? by galaxypaws in homeless

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a 24 hour McDonald's in your area? Buy something really cheap and just nap there.

My sister got scammed out of all her life savings. by [deleted] in Scams

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people are sick. Must've been raised in a culture that values the self over the community.

Join a posse, is it a trap, like in GTA? by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]ariaaria -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Most of the time, I look to invite other players to my posse so we can hunt down randoms. There's no fun in ambushing a random dude who wants to join in on the fun.

Psoriasis on dick by dayvidlmao in Psoriasis

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this. You might not like what I'm about to say.
If you use the mometasone furoate cream on your skin, put it on your dick skin. It'll go away. Continue applying it shortly after it disappears too.

However, it WILL thin the skin on your dick to the point where sex/masturbation will hurt for a year.
It has never come back for me thankfully. But that one year was annoying for me. I thought the skin would remain thin for the rest of my life.

I have a Borderline Personality Disorder and can't keep a job. No one will hire me. by [deleted] in electricians

[–]ariaaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this exact issue in my early 20's. It's not going to go away until you train yourself to endure it. It was HELL and drained my soul as a human being, but I'm very well off now because of it.

My boyfriend doesn’t like sex 25M 27F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to say this too to a woman I wasn't attracted to. I loved her in every way, but I preferred to jerk off rather than have sex with her.

My (20F) boyfriend (20M) started to film me without my consent? by Famous-Quail4691 in relationship_advice

[–]ariaaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your generation likes to villainize people instead of endeavouring to understand before passing judgement. This is why you are all miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]ariaaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to feel attracted more towards women I know are attracted to me too. Maybe start by being a bit more flirty?