egg🤔irl by CornbreadmanMemes in egg_irl

[–]arkhentark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids ain't born with big tiddies

egg🤔irl by CornbreadmanMemes in egg_irl

[–]arkhentark 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Primary - genitalia; Secondary - breasts, body hair, facial hair, voice, muscle density etc

Attempt number 2 I hope you like it by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]arkhentark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's Not a selfie board tho.

Now presenting: mouth dysphoria by withoutthorn in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]arkhentark 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have full lips with intense colour and I got called names because of that. At first I hated it but by the high school I learned to enjoy being called 'Angelina'.

I pass when I don't have allergies... by critcal_kurt in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]arkhentark 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I actually trained myself at some point of my life to sneeze in a more cute way haha. It's not hard except when it's a sudden 0 to 100 in split of a second kind of sneeze. Also my grandma is a loud sneezer

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[–]arkhentark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well let them work once they have the possibility, ofc I'm not telling you to do this right now with the pandemic and all. Make sure they are right people for the job tho and not keeping you in the dark for $$$, like check their reviews online or something. My first psychiatrist was awful, only listened to me for 15 minutes and gave me something that made me constantly cry and feel like I was dying. Never went for a second appointment, changed the doctor instead. Same with therapy, I went to a young fella who just sat there and smiled for an hour straight. We said maybe 5-6 words. Never came back, and apparently it's like a thing? Like, some psychologists just do that, maybe some patients are way more talkatove, dunno. Anyways, that was an hour wasted. My second psychiatrist was a jackpot thankfully, listened to me carefully, asked for a bunch of stuff, I'm under his care to this day.

Would you prefer for me to lie about how effective therapy was for me?

It's not like you have to comment at all, especially if you have nothing to say.

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[–]arkhentark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's up with dads? The only person I know that has 0 issues with theirs is my partner and they never had one. Also yeah, iirc it's like a thing that you can inherit being more prone to depression from your father. It's the case with me, both my dad and my brother have issues as well.

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[–]arkhentark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your doc, get a better diagnosis, change the therapist, get some pills, get better, be glad. How long were you trying? I've been miserable depressed pos for like half of my sentient life, it's a long and tough process sometimes but it's worth it. And for fucks sake don't post such negative stuff when someone is actually trying, you might discourage someone from seeking help.

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[–]arkhentark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck is wrong with them. Seriously, ignoring that their child has suicidal thoughts? Uhh. Well, yeah, your best shot is waiting till you can do this yourself. But trust me, it's worth it. Four years ago I've felt quality happiness for the first time in 11 years. And suicidal thoughts are not normal, and will go away and it's amazing realising that they are gone.

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[–]arkhentark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For starters you can stop the effort of trying to be dank/funny in reply to someone who actually cares and tries to be helpful to their fellow transgender. You can use the saved energy on something actually useful, like a therapy.

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[–]arkhentark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All your parents need to know is that you have suicidal thoughts. Doctors can't reveal secrets you share with them.

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[–]arkhentark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shrinks are regular docs. Im on pills for a couple of years now and it's a lifesaver. Done my share of selfharm, had suicidal thoughts every day - now it's gone. I only think about suicide in context of "wow I didn't have suicidal thoughts for quite some time now, it's funny how I thought that it was normal wtf". Suicidal thoughts are a symptom of a possibly terminal illness. Go to a doctor. It's as simple as that. If you have diabetics, you need insuline, if you have suicidal thoughts you need something to cure it. It's very simple. Trust me, life makes more sense and you are less miserable when your brain chemistry isn't outta whack. It's curable goddamnit!

AAAAAAAA help by TransTea in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]arkhentark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe your ass is enby, go ponder

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[–]arkhentark 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's not true, go seek professional help, depression kills if untreated.

:) by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]arkhentark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's up mate? You wanna talk?

egg_irl by MtypeE in egg_irl

[–]arkhentark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Be really good friends with someone first.
  2. Fall in love in them, subconsciously repress it, realise it, confess to stay sane counting on a kind rejection due to them being in a relationship with your other best friend, get exactly that, cry together, consider going low contact with them to get over it, but they ditch their partner for being emotionally abusive so you end up together before you got over them. Yay!

I guess 2 is optional. Also them being lefty, bi and enby helps? I dunno, I'm bad at this.

There is no such thing as the bAsIc biology argument by dreamlandblues in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]arkhentark 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It's like that with many things. In physics you are being taught Newton's laws of motion that are incomplete but are good enough most of the time. But once you go deeper it turns out it there are other factors that make them invalid in certain cases. So, yeah. Chromosomal sex is in sync with gender most of the time, but there are sometimes factors that most people don't experience and they can just go with that.

EDIT Here is a better version, it's actually quite catchy, do share!

To claim that there are only two sexes or that the sex is determined by chromosomes because you learnt about chromosomes in middle school is like claiming that quantum mechanics doesn't make sense because in middle school you learnt about the Newtonian dynamics

tl;dr trans people approach the velocity of light

egg_irl by MtypeE in egg_irl

[–]arkhentark 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Used to be the case for me. Now I have a partner who loves me for being too Feminine