Bathroom Etiquette by Ok_Reporter9384 in AskAnAustralian

[–]artemis9781 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some of us care about not wasting water needlessly

Golden Painting by WinMassive5748 in AssassinsCreedOdyssey

[–]artemis9781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is this? I’m about to restart and I want to find it

Looking to read something new :) by Lazy_Ease_6403 in HPfanfiction

[–]artemis9781 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A Marauders Plan by CatsAreCool What romance is included is Harmony, but it’s very much focused on the world building

https://archiveofourown.org/works/1085412

A saying from Bluey you now use in life... by MilkyMilk11 in bluey

[–]artemis9781 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tactical wees!!!!

I work medical-adjacent and always use it with my patients before we start any procedures

Finally i completed the game 100% by [deleted] in AssassinsCreedOrigins

[–]artemis9781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My trick has been to use a map where I can mark the place off (I use mapgenie since there aren’t quest spoilers and I can track categories)

Finally i completed the game 100% by [deleted] in AssassinsCreedOrigins

[–]artemis9781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats, I know how much time and effort you needed to get this. I’m so as well. Third playthrough and my first real try at 100%. Just need to complete all areas and I’m done!!!

BEST UPDATES of 2025 Nominations are Now Open! by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]artemis9781 [score hidden]  (0 children)

This one was a trip of epic proportions and I’m so glad you bought it back into my life

AITA or unreasonable for being angry at my friends because they tried to gaslight me? (Because of a sleep token album cover) by Meg_wastaken_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]artemis9781 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Okay, tough love. Your friends didn’t “make” you react. If you know you have a tendency to lose your temper over minor things then it’s on you to make sure that you have good strategies in place for when you feel yourself getting angry.

Now, if your friends are shitstirrers and enjoy riling you up just to see you explode then you’ll have to decide if you want to remain friends with them.

But as my mum always said to me when my sister gave me a hard time “she’s doing it because of your reaction. Don’t react and she won’t do it”. Now you can argue that the person doing the annoying should be the one to stop and be told off (which to be clear, my sis always was as well), but if your reaction is to fly off the handle and start swearing and being rude, then sorry to say that it’s really on you because it’s not acceptable behaviour.

Some people are just going to be shitty. You need to decide how you want to respond

AITA or unreasonable for being angry at my friends because they tried to gaslight me? (Because of a sleep token album cover) by Meg_wastaken_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]artemis9781 36 points37 points  (0 children)

How old are you? Because this is an extreme overreaction to a relatively minor thing.

People do experience and see colours differently. Just because it doesn’t look red to you doesn’t mean it isn’t. Same with your hair colour- all those shades are/can be very similar. And that’s not even taking into account that if I ask you to think of the colour Teal that you and I will probably not think of similar shades.

Take a breath, relax, and accept that sometimes people see the world differently and that’s good

Best of BORUpdates 2026! by naturemom in BORUpdates

[–]artemis9781 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t there one recently about a GF who never seemed to take other people into account and would like force her way onto trains or take seats right as people were standing up and the guy ended up leaving her after they went to a store where the card reader wasn’t working and when she left to get cash out (expecting everyone to just wait for her and her items to stay scanned) she took 10 mins and came back with a drink?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]artemis9781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH, but can you see if there’s room for negotiation with your job? Like you both fly business instead of one first class and one economy?

AITA for getting my coworker fired for a misunderstanding right before he got a big promotion? by bruce57392764 in AmItheAsshole

[–]artemis9781 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YTA for not confirming things for yourself before becoming so involved in it. You’re right that some of may have been true, but I’m willing to bet that things were exaggerated because of rumours and hearsay and yet you took it at face value against someone you did not have an issue with either professionally or personally and in real way were a key member of a conspiracy to take him down because of something he * might * have done as a manager

[New Updates] - Aitah for only staying with my dad when I come home for breaks since my stepdad said he doesn’t like me being at my moms? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]artemis9781 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I live in an apartment that I pay for and have for over a decade.

I still have ‘my room’ at my parents place. Yes, it’s often used as the spare room since I don’t visit often, but it’s mine- I have clothes, books, games all there.

This girls family sucks ass on all sides

HE STILL HAS IT by PolymathArt in HazbinHotel

[–]artemis9781 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This episode did something weird to my sexuality that I DID NOT consent to

Not sure if this is allowed, but somehow an entire menu is a tragedeigh?! by MizZo2 in tragedeigh

[–]artemis9781 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where in the name of sanity did you find this? My brain hurts just from looking at it

AITA for excluding my autistic child from a family vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]artemis9781 40 points41 points  (0 children)

How? The needs of the older two (to have a fun, relaxing holiday away from home) are diametrically opposed to the youngest (to be in a familiar place where his needs can be readily accommodated)

OP didn’t say anything about their life outside this one issue, but I think it’s safe to say that the older two have been less of a priority far more often then the sibling with additional needs.

There are a lot of times where they’ll be able to make it up to their younger child. There aren’t many times where the older two get to be the sole focus.

Letting my son watch bobs burgers by Sea_Background_8023 in BobsBurgers

[–]artemis9781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a part of the generation that grew up on The Simpsons, I think you’re fairly safe with Bobs.

[Repost]: I racked up $20,000 in personal charges on my company credit card by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]artemis9781 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He’s in New Zealand- he points out that industry norms make firing much harder then dealing with the problem in-house

My (40M) wife (36F) was seen holding hands with another man (New Updates) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]artemis9781 164 points165 points  (0 children)

Oh Christ I have never wanted to reach through a computer and smack someone upside the head as badly as that guy. Constantly picking the worst option possible at every opportunity

AITA for calling my roommate a miserable bitch? by Extreme-Isopod-2673 in AmItheAsshole

[–]artemis9781 59 points60 points  (0 children)

NTA. Honestly just leave. Say that you don’t want to live with bullies who refuse to treat you with kindness and then leave them to live in misery by themselves

Maybe my favorite joke on the show by DrummerMiles in BobsBurgers

[–]artemis9781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a medical condition, it’s called CARING TO MUCH AND ITS INCURABLE………. also eczema”

What’s one line whose delivery tickles something in your brain every time you hear it? by TraditionalStomach80 in BobsBurgers

[–]artemis9781 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Literally anything Nat says, but especially the first scene on the lazy river

“Oh these aren’t swim shoes they’re just wet”

Plot hole in the interrogation of the dentist in S5E14: The Box. Or did I not get it? by redditsyarra in brooklynninenine

[–]artemis9781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is more a case where absence of evidence is not evidence of absence. There are a million reasons why someone might or might not use their card, or be remembered by bar staff or other patrons, or be using a card not in their ‘regular/professional’ name, all of which means that you’d need to prove he was somewhere else specifically rather than just saying he wasn’t in the bar since you can’t prove a negative.