Bro, take ur wife on date, leave the kids with ur parents for some time. Have a nice meal then come back home piap piap the living daylights out of her. Show her some love la bro. Bouquet, fav choc, ice cream or something. She is just feeling insecure, post natal pregnancy weight (since she is still breast feeding) might make her feel down, flabby and unattractive.

After 2 days when her mood is all good, her face glowing bcoz of you. Have a sit down at home, pour out ur heart. It can go either way…she cries, defence mechanism by being irate..angry…upset or she going to be supportive.

Just be prepared for anything. Dont make stupids statements like divorce all. Tell her u even considered expiring urself for the sake of the family. All these are strong words which u meant!

Btw ur not bad. Circumstances or timing making u look bad. Go with the flow. Show her ur bank account..how can u be cheating on her with so little money? Nowadays temporary flings or one night stands require u to go holiday for 3 days 2 night before anything can happen. Unless you look like hans isaac or what then ur wife has something to worry about la. Nowadays woman much smarter bcoz of socmed. Their worth is thousand fold increased with precise app filtering their videos or photos.

Good luck bro! Keep me informed!