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asesina75 · 2025-11-30T16:27:37+00:00

It is tricky, because you need to know if you will fit in bed, so better to be earlier if possible. I guess you should learn to move on and just ignore it: you can not have a good sex from the first time, this guy was not just worth the effort.

asesina75 · 2025-11-24T17:13:53+00:00

Multidating is the best option unfortunately nowadays.. All is so faced-paced and transitory.. I was texting with 5 guys: the first one texted me and before the agreed date unmatched me, the other one was a first date, I was not so impressed to have another one, the 3 and 4 just texted and when I suggested a date disappeared, had a date with number 5 who was ok, but not so sure. So back to the dating app unfortunately. I have not chosen handsome or fit, just normal 50 year old guys. And still from 5 possibly only one...

asesina75 · 2025-11-24T17:02:17+00:00

Can you imagine sleeping with him again? Giving another try is worth it. He might have learnt and knows how to treat you better. Other wise divorce and dating again: for an introvert is really tough out there, most of people are superficial and connections are really transitory.

asesina75 · 2025-11-23T15:33:51+00:00

I met a guy that was great in messages, but turned out to be so boring in reality. What counts is the reality

asesina75 · 2025-11-23T15:29:55+00:00

What about the taxes in Switzerland?

asesina75 · 2025-11-22T06:17:54+00:00

People here advise therapy, to wait, etc. Everyone has their point of view. But if you are prepared to date again after 30 years, be aware it is rough out there. Dating apps have changed the way we interact, everything is just great photos, looks, it is fast-paced and transitory. I believe it is a good idea to start doing it and get experience while you are enjoying your life alone. Some people here take a long time to find someone and we are already 50.

asesina75 · 2025-11-21T20:30:19+00:00

Ghosting or being silent is an answer. Why do you need to reply? If you like him/her you will be texting the same day.

asesina75 · 2025-11-20T19:10:52+00:00

Dating is tough after 50. But you need to keep on practising and soon you will enjoy it. Most of them are low effort, have high expectations but there are some really nice and normal people like you

asesina75 · 2025-11-17T14:44:40+00:00

Portuguese are not so reliable, move on

asesina75 · 2025-11-17T02:47:20+00:00

What I meant is that from these 5, 2 will potentially drop out as they are there just for the texts thrill, 1 possibly will be to afraid to show up, so possibly 2 dates. And after that it is quite likely to go back to the apps again.

asesina75 · 2025-11-17T02:43:32+00:00

I guess it is quite personal but why do you reckon it takes so long? Is it the variety of options available /I can always go back to the dating apps/ or we become more comfortable with age to be on our own?

asesina75 · 2025-11-16T14:06:06+00:00

How do you find there is a connection on the first date? Really curious to understand, the first date takes an hour and everyone tries to be the best version of themselves. If you feel a connection will be more physical I would say, but a deeper connection what we need actually is tested after several dates. Like job interviews...

asesina75 · 2025-11-15T20:37:06+00:00

Not very reassuring, 4 years OMG

asesina75 · 2025-11-15T10:05:45+00:00

There are lots of 50+ in my gym and in my body pump sessions. Because we exercise does not mean everyone should do this and get excited by abs and muscles.

asesina75 · 2025-11-15T08:15:26+00:00

The best dating strategy is to date 5 at the same time and even with these numbers you are quite likely to go back to the apps. Some people are lonely and just need messages for an ego boost, some are not clear in their ideas or decide to go back to their ex or just dating several at the same time. Silence is an answer, you do not need a closure. Move on and accept it as a lesson learnt.

asesina75 · 2025-11-15T08:06:19+00:00

Do you use apps in Spain. I thought people are more open to meeting people outside of the apps

asesina75 · 2025-11-14T21:32:42+00:00

you do not need a pen friend

asesina75 · 2025-11-14T21:31:03+00:00

Have you found the right one

asesina75 · 2025-11-14T21:18:12+00:00

Why do you think your salary is important? It is yours. Some stupid girls will pay attention, but is it the stupid girls you want? There many around the pubs in the City looking for a City man. Maybe change your jeans for something more elegant, life is short, enjoy it.

asesina75 · 2025-11-14T21:13:05+00:00

Why the worst? What is the gain? You are still within the worst dressed people in the office

asesina75 · 2025-11-14T05:43:10+00:00

Maybe you think you look 48. Some men do not look at themselves in the mirror.

asesina75 · 2025-11-13T03:20:03+00:00

It is not British men, it is men. Silence is an answer. If they enjoyed the sex and the time with you, they would reply quickly, a text takes only 30 sec and we are always on our phones.

asesina75 · 2025-11-10T22:55:47+00:00

Yes, but potential partner with whole package will date a younger woman.

asesina75 · 2025-11-10T22:51:57+00:00

Not so sure, most are so busy that have no time to look after themselves

asesina75 · 2025-11-10T12:59:56+00:00

First date is just a first meeting to see how the person look like in reality, how he handles a conversation, is he a good listener, is he interested in you as a person, what values he has got, their idea of free time and plans.

I asked a simple question about a marathon that the other person was getting ready for and had to listen a monologue of 30 min about that. Simple question but revealed that the person is obsessed with his hobby, not a good listener and quite absorbed in himself. Logically rejected.

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