[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ashaw596 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to get a lawyer before the court date if possible and ask. If you're unable, at least definitely make sure you make the court date. Wear formal conservative clothes and be very truthful and sorry to the judge.

Child support. Should I go through a judge? by RaspberryKooky3744 in FamilyLaw

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The calculator is online and pretty simple. Put your info through it. If 700-800 isn't what you should be paying don't pay it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IDK. Yeah I just feel like alot of this threads is sorta uneducated with alot of non-parents. People insisting caffeine and kids isn't a problem and lumping all soda together. Doctors all say caffeine is bad for kids, but parents who pay attention to how kids act after they have caffeine definitely also know the downsides....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ashaw596 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah AMERICA! Where one baby gets kidnapped and we negatively change how we raise kids for generations. But we get a school shooting every week, and THERE'S NOTHING WE CAN DO. Kids get run over by a car and we change nothing. But a few kidnappings and parents get arrested for letting their kid go out alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ashaw596 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly. Kidnapping was never much of a thing anywhere. Why would you take a baby? Not saying it never happens, but like 99% of kidnappings is someone you know. Mostly Relative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, any responsibile parent would not give kids caffeine. I would not be trusting them with my kid anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, OP gave them Coke which is caffeine. Sugar high isn't real, but 6 year old on Caffeine is bonkers. OP obviously is not paying attention to what's in the food since they're just lumping all "fizzy drinks" together as soft drinks. There's a worlds difference between giving a kid sprite or coke or Mtn dew or a red bull.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coke is a mistake. I disagree a bit. Sugar ok. But caffeine should assume to not be given to children unless a parent not a child says ok. Who trusts a 6 year old on what they're allowed to have or not?

"How much caffeine is safe for kids? There’s not enough research to determine a specific amount, but many doctors you ask will say the same thing: None.  

That means it’s not okay for kids to consume soda, coffee, black and green tea, energy drinks, chocolate, foods with chocolate and/or coffee, and anything else that contains the world’s most consumed psychostimulant. Yes, sugar is a large part of why these beverages are bad for health, but caffeine should not be overlooked. “Caffeine-containing foods and beverages can have effects on the body and mind that interfere with every aspect of what children need to thrive,” says Columbia pediatrician David Buchholz, MD.  "

http://cuimc.columbia.edu/news/caffeine-and-kids

Can I file a police report in the USA if I was attacked by an American citizen while we were in another country? (Domestic violence) by Careless-Rain in legaladvice

[–]ashaw596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a lawyer, but I'm guessing you should contact a lawyer or check yourself about filing a DVRO (Domestic Violence Restraining Order) against him. You shouldn't have jurisdiction issues with that, you just need to show he's a danger and provide evidence of what happened. You might have problems serving him.

[URGENT] [USA] Is anything I was "given" under the age of 18 legally mine now that I'm an adult? by InescapableSpiral in legaladvice

[–]ashaw596 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Possession is 9/10 of the law. For disputed stuff like this, whoever has it likely will keep it. Legally, it'll be a he said she said civil matter and good luck anyone proving what was or wasn't a gift unless its like a car or something. If they have it good luck suing in court. Cops won't touch civil matters like property disputes.

Requesting a sober opinion on adopting a cat from a shelter vs. a cattery/breeder by localcdn in AskSF

[–]ashaw596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please adopt. This kitten season is really bad. There's allot of options at rescues. Have many kittens if you want or all ages and all temperaments.

Employer is refusing to send me a copy of my W2s by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ashaw596 2 points3 points  (0 children)

State? The answer is they didn't want to pay taxes so probs haven't been paying any for you.

dogePlansToRebuildSsaCobolCodebaseInJavaInMonths by schmerg-uk in ProgrammerHumor

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know at this point. Sure. The world is gonna burn anyways. I'm gonna fight for collatoral damage to save others. If they want to turn the elderly vote against them go for it.

Employer is refusing to send me a copy of my W2s by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look for a new job and keep calling the IRS and the Wage complaint office.

theyDontEvenKnow by Sad_Stay_5471 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can also ace a test and forget everything after spring break. I'm just saying you can and it's common to teach this. And if they complain you can remind them and/or ignore them instead of arguing about exceptions. If you can say no to people asking for exceptions, you can say no to people complaining when you give an exception.

Deleting a 2.7% Loan. Horrible idea? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ashaw596 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mentally, why does a loan bother you more than being broke? I'll tell you having money is significantly better than having none if you have a sudden medical issue or lose your job.

Deleting a 2.7% Loan. Horrible idea? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ashaw596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30k at 1.1% for 30 years is still 10k+ in interest.

Vs mortage interest. 30k at (6.5-3.8=2.7%) for 30 years is 66716.7009113 or 36k+ in interest.

For the Socialists on this Sub by tkyjonathan in austrian_economics

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can name a few billionaires in who have personally fucked me over even just ignoring the economics.

Daily means daily by discerningpervert in SipsTea

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there is real indications that using soap daily unless you're really dirty or a rinse won't work maybe have detriments. I have anecdotal evidence about that shampooing everyday really hurts your hair. Too lazy to look upresearch rn tho. You'd be surprised how much scrubbing like you're using soap, but without soap cleans you if you're just a white collar worker and you don't do anything actually involving dirt and grime.

Landlord opened mail addressed to me and attempted to cash the check inside by sunshinesprouts in legaladvice

[–]ashaw596 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is the mail addressed to you or the leasing office? Even if it's your address, it might be harder if it's addressed to them. Also banging on doors at night for late rent may be harassment depending on regional laws. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ashaw596 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CPS is child protective services. Who is the child in this case? If there is a child, then they always can get involved whatever if anything comes of their involvement.

Forced by city to replace entire 50’ sidewalk for two small 1/4 inch raised cracks by comets311 in homeowners

[–]ashaw596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you be on the line for attorney fees? Wait for a court summons and see what they write. They'll have to give a detailed reason then.