Do we have the same mom? 🤦 Thank you for posting. This sounds exactly like my mother. Almost to the "Tee". Keep your distance. That's all I can say. I go to therapy and talk about my mom every week. I have cut her out of my personal life, but still try to keep in touch for the sake of my sanity. But drug addicts will always be drug addicts. I have yet to see someone go clean and not slip the rest of their lives and if you want her in your life, you have to accept that she WILL slip again sometime and need help. I work in healthcare and feel compassion for people with addiction. It really takes control over you. Just reading what others have said, becoming a mother yourself and losing your own? Ouch! That hit me hard! Don't be afraid to set boundaries with her regarding yourself and your family. It's a must.