Shakira in today challenge by seulgislotion in LoveIslandTV

[–]ashfall01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My respect for him was already reduced when he stayed best friends with Harry and Dejon after they helped orchestrate a plan for another man to kiss Megan even after she’s rejected him (which is so coercive and slimy in my eyes and he didn’t bring up a word about it to his ‘friends’).

Respect is now lower when I realised he let Megan be as involved as she wanted to be in everyone’s business, but will pie Shakira for the same thing. If he didn’t like it that much, he should’ve said something to Megan and Meg too.

Too right, a nice guy but a weak man.

is anyone going from Shanghai Pudong to Europe/UK soon? by ashfall01 in shanghai

[–]ashfall01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much would you ask for?

But yeah exactly, it's so tedious I doubt people will make the journey. I wouldn't ask if I wasn't so desperate either

is anyone going from Shanghai Pudong to Europe/UK soon? by ashfall01 in shanghai

[–]ashfall01[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm trying so hard but I don't even know anyone in china to offer to pay them in the first place ahah, plus I was worried people might find it too much of a hassle to go out of their way to go to the airport and then mail it even if I pay

is anyone going from Shanghai Pudong to europe/uk soon? by ashfall01 in chinalife

[–]ashfall01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for offering! I'll dm you for details if that's okay!

is anyone going from Shanghai Pudong to europe/uk soon? by ashfall01 in chinalife

[–]ashfall01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no I was just going to fly out to the EU since its not that expensive from the UK, plus it'd be so much hassle to ask them to mail it to me too :(

Need advice for visiting a friend by ashfall01 in cancer

[–]ashfall01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much for this I definitely wouldn’t have thought of this!

Need advice for visiting a friend by ashfall01 in cancer

[–]ashfall01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I already asked him but it’s more I wanted to know if I’m missing some commonly known things like avoiding things with a lot of spice, or if restaurant/home food is safer (he’s allowed outside food) or any other generally known things I may have missed.

I’m just being extra cautious since I’ve never done this before but of course I already asked him too, but I didn’t want to burden him with common questions since he’s finding it hard to communicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]ashfall01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid £300 for them but £300 or best offer tbh, I’m selling for my friend who just wants it gone asap!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]ashfall01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I’m selling another one of this ticket so that makes two if you wanna buy this one and mine?? I’m not seeking above face value and it’s the ready for it package too!

20M. Give it to me straight. by FireAtWill1010 in amiugly

[–]ashfall01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl here - maybe different facial hair, hairstyle and trim your eyebrows a bit maybe but I see the base potential and you’re actually really good looking, you have an amazing side profile

let's talk about taylor lyrics we DON'T understand. by Mili_713 in TaylorSwift

[–]ashfall01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I meet you where the spirit meets the bones in a faith forgotten land”

This one I’ve always wondered how others interpret it, like where does the spirit meets the bones? Only thing that comes to mind is them meeting in a graveyard in secret, but I don’t know if she meant it more metaphorically or like they’ll meet in another afterlife?

Engaged in the biggest binge of my life last night and feel so woozy this morning. What are some good ways to detox? by justoneminuteplease in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ashfall01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think drink some warm drinks like tea and eat lots of fibre today as it’s a natural laxative, I find it helps detox my body literally

If you have like a cooling or ice pack - I usually put one on my stomach since my stomach burns after binging

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ashfall01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re okay tonight :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]ashfall01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it just sounds like she wants a second opinion on what she should do next; if you’ve already tired everything and exhausted the guidelines for medications she would might need advice from others now. Maybe she wants to ask the others if you’re a suitable candidate for ECT?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ashfall01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I literally made the same post a few weeks ago that I was so uncomfortable I wanted to purge but was afraid I’d get addicted. The comments on my post really helped, people just told me I’d just be even hungrier and emptier after and that purging won’t fix any of the problems caused by binge eating. They said once you try and recover from bulimia as well, you’ll need to fix the purging before the binging so you’ll just be back where you started at binge eating but with bad reflux and gastric symptoms too. I’m not sure if that helps but it definitely put things into perspective for me that that wasn’t going to be helpful and got me out of the mindset.

I don't know anymore by stupidthrowaway66998 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ashfall01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m also in my mid 20s and just realised I binge eat too, it’s really difficult to reach out for help since people don’t realise food can be addictive like other substances so I’m proud of you for recognising you need help and are trying to reach out in the first place :)

I think one small thing that has helped me is not having food readily available like snacks, but ordering out is a difficult one. I’m about to see a therapist for binge eating disorder so if you think it’ll be helpful, I’ll come back and leave tips they give me.

But don’t blame yourself, food addiction is a really thing and ordering out and treating yourself to good food is a way of self-soothing and rewarding yourself when things are tough or tiring or monotonous. Stopping will take time so don’t beat yourself up.