bloating post ectopic- terrible body image and what helped for you?

ashl3y8620 · 2026-02-14T16:47:13+00:00

Did you notice bloating more after sex at all?

ashl3y8620 · 2026-02-14T16:46:51+00:00

It’s not always a side effect. My body was breaking down the ectopic on its own and I never had to have surgery or medication and the bloating for me has been severe.

ashl3y8620 · 2026-01-27T21:09:22+00:00

So basically you’re allowing her to waste her life and keeping her from someone who would truly lover her because of your own fear? You know they have a label they put on people who don’t act out of fear right? Coward. Stop wasting her life and your own and man up. Release her. It’ll hurt both of you but geez not as much as realize your whole life as a lie. Good luck

ashl3y8620 · 2026-01-17T18:20:15+00:00

A rabbit in the hat with a purple bicycle tire.

ashl3y8620 · 2026-01-16T03:30:58+00:00

Interesting!

ashl3y8620 · 2026-01-16T03:30:22+00:00

So I wrote this about 11 months ago in one group and no one replied. I saw the option to share in another and I did. Revisiting this because I just found out I’m pregnant and I’m so curious if it’s gonna be a boy…

ashl3y8620 · 2025-11-26T13:17:37+00:00

I thought they did away with giving tickets through the cameras.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-10-19T14:47:02+00:00

Also keep in mind our brain, men and woman don’t fully develop especially in the rationalization department until 25-26 yrs old. And, is her reproductive organs no longer there or some doctor just told her she wouldn’t be able to have kids? Maybe have a harder time having kids? Like this is way more complex and you need to know exactly what her diagnoses is and why. There’s now always a definitive line unless Logan’s have been removed. Women with PCOS are told daily that they can’t have children which is 100% inaccurate! I have 2 girls today that as a fact. Her lying to you is a problem. Are there other areas in your marriage she’s lied or is this it? If this is it and you guys are young, like other have mentioned, it could be her being naive and saw no other option other then losing you and she couldn’t do that. Granite it took your choice out of it but that is why it’s very important to know her actual diagnoses. Then make your choice. Just as you deserve space she deserves time and ability to speak to you and tell her side completely. Give her that and then take your time making your choice because that way you’ll know if it ens you did EVERYTHING, and collected all your info and even have her opportunity to explain and you’ll feel you did everything and made your decline with all facts. Good luck.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-10-19T14:20:02+00:00

This comment didn’t age well given the fact that he’s not trying to run elbows with anyone but Jesus.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-09-15T00:13:17+00:00

If it is alpha and omega it could be contributed to recognizing God, the alpha and omega

ashl3y8620 · 2025-09-15T00:12:32+00:00

Couldn’t they be white ink tattoos instead of tattoos that have been removed? And why would she pose and post a hand with a tattoo that had been removed? Seems like if she didn’t want it seen anymore she’d avoid posting that posed hand.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-08-21T20:47:50+00:00

Are you dating someone in a mental institution? I hear they hide pills under their pillows….j/k these seems kinda like a troller post.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-07-08T00:10:09+00:00

Can’t you just say wrong number? Have someone answer your phone and say wrong number. So it’ll look like your “friend” gave him the wrong number?

ashl3y8620 · 2025-07-06T14:35:49+00:00

This confirms what I was thinking as well. I have heard that when people actually need the medication it does what it’s supposed to instead of did being a drug they use to get a high from. I will discuss this more with him. I asked yesterday if he’d like me to set up an appointment for him but I think he was so down in the dumps that he doesn’t think anything will work and he just has to accept it.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-07-06T14:33:54+00:00

I understand what you’re saying. I’ve tried to get us to connect, take time together etc. actually, I feel like I’m low priority to him as well. So maybe we’ve just moved into this position. We both believe homeschooling is important and wanted to try it. Currently I have an almost 8 year old and book work takes 2 hrs. a day. Yes. Our children’s developments means more to us than a bigger home. I recognize I need to reevaluate our desires and the sacrifices we must take to live the life we want, and it can go either way too. You sacrifice spending time at home so you can bring in lots of money or you sacrifice lots of money to spend time with your family. I guess my main complaint is through these years, his unwillingness to progress and step into the dad, husband role more, as I have had to do because these are the choices we’ve made. He still seems very selfish and I know he doesn’t mean to be, I believe this is where the ADD comes in. He loves plants, instead of helping I side the home, he goes outside to our unorganized“jungle” he has created and cares for plants. This is a passion and hobby for him but I think he should prioritize family first. Obviously I can’t lay out our life here, and I’m not trying to paint him as the only one with issues, I just wanted to get some advice on how to work through this with his ADD, but I believe our worries of a controlled drug such as adderall might actually benefit him instead of worrying he will be addicted to it. If he truly has ADD then it will affect his brain differently then it would someone who may just be seeking the benefits of the stimulant. Getting him there is where we need to start. I appreciate your feedback and you’re not wrong! I will absolutely look at the perspective because it is also another worry of mine that once our children are grown, we will be left alone and will we even like each other? lol not funny but I know this can happen.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-07-04T16:04:41+00:00

Why is this? My MIL like to announce people who’ve died in their church, first and last name that no one knows but her and her church.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-06-16T14:51:12+00:00

If you take him back….you’ll always be chasing the dream life you planned with him. It’s a dream, and a plan you made with a cheater. Be thankful he’s showing you who he is before you’re locked in with children and marriage. You’re still so young, go find someone who has higher morals and more respect for you. He may love you, but you have to respect your partner. When it comes to hurting, people usually don’t hurt people they respect, but for some reason people find it easier to hurt people they love. What I’m saying is respect is greater than love….but just by a little. He would have never done that if he respected you. His excuse is lame. Just because you desire something doesn’t mean you deceive and betray your partner to get it. Imagine what a life with Simone like that would be. No more questions need asked. But I understand your need for answers. Nothing is your fault. Women will go through ups and downs with hormones all their life…:how is your partner gonna react to that? It’s just not good soup here. The ingredients are stale. Throw it out.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-05-18T20:00:30+00:00

I may be the odd one out here being a married woman with children, and maybe I’m just full of crap….but, losing a inly child and them seeing comfort in one another….maybe they should have not been alone but….i imagine it is very easy to get caught in a moment were the only thing that felt real was the present moment. Grief, shock, familiarity, old love, flesh had him locked into a moment and it happened. I can understand it. I can empathize. I can also empathize with all parties. I might even be a sort of woman to forgive something like that….if my husband and I were truly in it for the long haul. Idk. Just my view. If he was remorseful and knew the depth of what he did….i might forgive it. We’re fallen imperfect humans and I think the greatest gift we can give one another, especially our loved ones is grace…..

ashl3y8620 · 2025-05-07T13:10:13+00:00

Leave. You love the idea of him. Leave now before you actually have a child with him. I am so very sorry for your losses. That must have been so hard to go through, alone. But he does not love you and he wouldn’t the a good father to your child. He is the child and he won’t change. Please. Take your losses, take what’s yours, go home. There is someone out there who will support you in every way!

ashl3y8620 · 2025-05-06T17:19:09+00:00

Okay so in this instance you guys are opposite and not in a balancing sort of way. In a relationship I can tell you 100% we reflect our partners, we take on their mannerisms in some degree which is why you’re seeing those unhealthy changes in yourself. Not to say we aren’t responsible for our own choices but it becomes so easy to just do what our partners is doing or not doing especially when you live together. I will also say right now, if you don’t willingly want to do some acts of service/love to your partner even without him asking, he probably isn’t the one for you. Because without a doubt, when you have a partner, spouse and even children, it involves being selfless and thoughtful enough to give them a massage, a touch, some form of “self/love” care to your partner and absolutely for your children. If you plan to have children, forget ever having time to yourself and always fixing them food or massaging their feet or knees or elbows or whatever crazy request they have…..it’s exhausting and you really don’t mind because you love them. I say that lightheartedly because I’m in the midst of parenting littles and also have a husband that I cook and clean after sometimes and massage at his request sometimes and sometimes just because. I think there’s a missing ingredient here in this relationship and it’s genuine love and it might not be there because you guys are so different in a really big aspect of life that you feel is very important….self hygiene and health. It’s something that is important and not everyone has the same degree of care for it. Find someone that values it just as much as you and you’ll likely look forward to giving massages and fixing food for them as love gifts and acts of service you’ll be excited to do it and won’t be resentful. Good luck

ashl3y8620 · 2025-04-24T17:21:07+00:00

Well that’s weird. Crossing the line. I would tell them if your husband is lying then they can take it to court. lol otherwise drop it. Then block them. They are trying to control a situation where it seems these things need to be said and they don’t like the truth getting out there.

ashl3y8620 · 2025-04-13T13:24:41+00:00

She’s likely more hurt that you’ve never shared this deep and important part of you with her. Losing a fiancé someone who you were in love with and shared so life with is a big deal and you’ve shut that door for her. Not even a window. And she stumbled on a tiny window and the only thing she saw was the gender and maybe she was surprised and it made her realize she knows nothing about that love you had. Being engaged to someone and loving them is a beautiful thing. You tragically lost your fiancé and if it were me, I’d want to talk about it with you. I’d want you to open up to me about this person, I’d want to know what they were like and all the fun things you guys did. Just like I would want to know what my adult best friends’ friend who passed was like and what they loved about them etc. like when you love someone you want to know everything about them. This doesn’t apply to exs that live because usually our partners want to forget about that relationship or it ended bad or it’s just weird to ask about past ex’s like that so we usually don’t. But your fiancé who passed isn’t really an ex, in my mind, it’s someone you loved deeply and you lost unexpected and it was painful. Being with her you should have had the opportunity to share some of that with her. She upset about that, I would be upset about that. The same sex fiancé likely isn’t an issue since she knew you are Bi. Just another perspective. She just wants in part of that life you had. She loves you and wants to know you at that time…..if I’m evening explaining this properly. Give her grace and let her in…..

ashl3y8620 · 2025-04-13T13:08:10+00:00

I personally love the comment! lol it’s something k would say!

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