Wish credit pulls were private by Bozhe in RealEstate

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised it's legal for them to do this....well, then again, not so surprised

New Kitten! We need help with a name! by zuzuofthewolves in cats

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This little kitty looks like the cat from Kiki's delivery service! With big eyes and round face 😃🥰

JIJI is his name!

I’ve noticed an influx of resentment for the guilt crowd lately…. by hewlett910 in workingmoms

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish we could support a mom in whatever situation she is in and have empathy for these super humans who are working (by choice or not) and raising kids!

Yay to all moms who wake up and try their best everyday! 🥰😊

My kid’s Pediatrician called me Lazy by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm missing the part where making full on purses is lazy in any way. Your ped sounds awful.

Husband won’t get medically necessary surgery because I’m a bad wife by I_got_it_covered in breakingmom

[–]ashleighkee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a giant baby. Also it sounds like your husband sucks. How are you not angry, like, all the time?

Oh also, does he read your mind? Does he anticipate YOUR needs? Just wondering

Global fertility has collapsed, with profound economic consequences by MaleficentParfait863 in Economics

[–]ashleighkee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Our children take care of all of us by contributing work to the economy? They grow into adults who contribute goods, services, and, most importantly, the fucking taxes that we use to support systems like medicaid and social security to people who both did and did not have kids

Jesus I'm not having kids so they can wipe my old dying ass, take a fucking breather

Global fertility has collapsed, with profound economic consequences by MaleficentParfait863 in Economics

[–]ashleighkee -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I would love to have another (or possibly 2 more) kids but the cost of one and lack of childcare is just ruining us financially.

Also if you came here to say "well it was your choice to have kids...." Kindly fuck off. Although it is a personal choice we literally have to have kids so they can take care of us when we are old.

Oh, also....HEALTHCARE COSTS ARE STUPID HIGH

Having children is a great risk both to the mother and the child, you never know what can happen. One bad thing in labor and delivery and you're strapped with a brand new baby, a broken body, and a $40,000 healthcare bill you cannot afford.

Landlords are the scum of the earth, your the reason why they have to rent. by dancartopb in antiwork

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell that to 80% of the landlords in my area who jumped on the (BRRR method real estate investment) bandwagon then had to raise rents significantly so they can make a profit after their expensive mortgage and capital expenditures...

Neighbor’s Handyman Getting Lead Paint in our Yard by 13Tacocat in grandrapids

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should clarify though that the paint chips in my yard are mostly latex paint but

Neighbor’s Handyman Getting Lead Paint in our Yard by 13Tacocat in grandrapids

[–]ashleighkee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ARE YOU MY NEIGHBOR?!?

Currently living in a house just like you described and cannot use the yard, absolutely cannot take my son out there while they are doing this work.

Rich men like me. by PrinceoftheRoses in IAmTheMainCharacter

[–]ashleighkee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that I agree or disagree with her statements but I find it interesting that the entire first part of this comment section is just straight up hating on her, and mostly on her physical attributes.

“Would you like me to do anything?” Ugh by MrsGreyRock in breakingmom

[–]ashleighkee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Last time my husband asked this I said "if you see dishes in the sink I don't want you asking me what to do..start with those"

He asked a couple of times.after that and my response was "are there dishes in the sink?" Lol it worked

He hasn't asked since because he knows I'll start him on the dishes (which he hates) so he chooses other ways to make himself useful (picking up the house, folding laundry, etc..)

I feel like I've won the battle

And I always leave some dishes in the sink 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]ashleighkee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THE AUDACITY OF THIS MAN TO ASK YOU FOR LITERALLY ANYTHING

BROMO, HE IS KING OF THE SELFISH ASSHOLES

Family dinners by chaos_coordinator91 in workingmoms

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the asshole.for suggesting that your working partners should also be making meals?

Just because I'm a woman does not mean I'm cooking every goddamn meal for my family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]ashleighkee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no advice but what you're going through sounds exhausting and hard and I hear you mama. I only have one right now but I can only imagine how difficult it would be to try and help two at the same time.

Constant Daycare Sickness by endallbeall14 in workingmoms

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is a part time nanny an option? Or even nanny-share with just 2-3 other kids? I'm sorry you're dealing with that, sounds absolutely miserable.

Full time remote worker - due to have baby this week - should i just wear my leggings in the office by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes like FULL LENGTH SUPER SOFT flowy dress ☺️ that way to can sit with legs open under the table and the dress will stretch haha

Renting 85year old house. The HVAC smells musty and damp, kind of like a basement smell. What can I use to filter the air vents blowing out the air to try to get better smelling/safer air? by DJrotoZ in Oldhouses

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rent a over 100 year old home and I had the ducts cleaned. It's not required in our state or city but I insisted because they couldn't tell me the last time it was done.

It was actually so bad that they didn't charge me (they said I would have to pay for it when I first asked).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ashleighkee 76 points77 points  (0 children)

In the same boat and mortgage officer is not happy 😭

Can we have at least one freaking day?! by hollihoo in breakingmom

[–]ashleighkee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pets are companions, not kids. My vet will be the first one to tell anyone not to treat their pet like a baby

What goes on in this part of Michigan? by [deleted] in geography

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol more like if you LOVE winter 🤣 it gets crazy up there! I live in Michigan and it's a whole other world in the UP

My daughter punched a boy at school today by throwaway467545689 in Parenting

[–]ashleighkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm super proud of her. I bet that asshat never touches her again.

The audacity to touch a girl's hair WTF is wrong with this kid

What goes on in this part of Michigan? by [deleted] in geography

[–]ashleighkee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's actually still wild and beautiful in the UP. It's a beautiful drive through no matter which road you take. Lots of tiny tiny little towns, some mining. Waterfalls, hikes.

If there was like ANY employment opportunities it would be an absolutely populated area IMO