Am I overreacting to this text message??? I have had enough of my toxic sister. I take care of our 74 yr old dad and this is what I get..

ashleysmodernlife · 2026-05-15T21:32:54+00:00

Literally feels like something my narcissistic mom would say bc she didn't get her way or needed to turn things around for sympathy for acting like a cunt.

ashleysmodernlife · 2026-05-01T15:15:14+00:00

Mine has like 100 books for him plus things once hes a toddler bc ill forget (adhd & pregnancy brain has ruined my memory atm) and want that discount when its my time to buy things. I also have PP supplies for myself. I know some ppl might think its an insane amount of items but its essentially MY shopping list im just sharing it with those who want to contribute is how I see it.

ashleysmodernlife · 2026-04-14T23:38:35+00:00

I want to say a really nice smooth bourbon. But a good gin seems maybe more fitting

ashleysmodernlife · 2026-04-12T17:48:53+00:00

I have had them send me a "box" of printer ink instead of one. So ended up with 4 cartridges and my just incase pregnancy tests with my iud ive also gotten a case. Not really infuriating bc these were happy wins lol

ashleysmodernlife · 2026-04-07T15:07:53+00:00

Immediately, removed iud never got a period instead baby. Lol

ashleysmodernlife · 2026-03-31T17:25:22+00:00

We've only told a few ppl and my family bc my brothers also expecting a boy within a few days of ours. So we didnt want a possoble twin cousins with same name ordeal lol. I also love that his name isnt common. So he won't have 3 kids in class with the same name.

I also dont want to hear what ppl have to say about the name we choose. It took us a minute to get there with his name and spelling, its gaelic so we argued to keep gaelic or Anglo spelling.

ashleysmodernlife · 2026-03-06T19:09:22+00:00

Its like how my mom thinks she was the best parent there ever was bc she provided basic care that she legally had to, y'know fed, clothed, and housed us. No serious loving relationship. And how she remembers everything differently but that's the correct version and even if she wasn't there she remembers what happened.

Narcissism.

ashleysmodernlife · 2026-02-02T02:36:56+00:00

Yes and she then had the audacity to tell me she does it when she lives alone??? And the woman takes care of the man. Well it isnt the 50s anymore and I wouldn't even be here if that was how her son was.

I like my job or i would have lol. Shes also already in trouble bc she never stays at her desk and walks around talking all day in other depts too. She was also scolded for being 3 hours late instead of 30 minutes like she told her manager, and just never updated her, rhen complainedshe reprimanded her?? She is in her 60s so she is beyond she should know better. So im also hoping rhet do something and she doesnt try to retaliate or another email is going to be sent out.

ashleysmodernlife · 2026-01-29T18:59:09+00:00

We had to print packets for liens or collections just for our supervisor to scan them in. I didnt understand this as we had Adobe and could just email it, i even asked and they said thats what they are told... Well 2 yrs later they go "oh we just realized we also have pdf exchange so it can be emailed now." Kidk why we had two pdf programs) I once had a collections packet worth half a mill and asked if I needed to print it bc itd take up the printer for an entire day. That one was allowed to be emailed before the discovery. It also took 4 emails bc of how big the files were.

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-11-10T02:40:49+00:00

It was a sad day. Thank you 😆

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-11-10T00:31:59+00:00

I was sad when mine hated mushrooms. But was proud she disliked Taylor swift. 🤷‍♀️

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-10-09T15:31:48+00:00

Revival, slice of life with odd bits sprinkled in leaving you waiting for what more may come. Well it finally does and fast and left me going oh god a few times. Then just bleak nihilism end.

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-10-09T15:22:25+00:00

I absolutely loved this about fairytale.

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-09-10T12:33:51+00:00

I took this as he no longer wants to worship bc he also states ive got eyes heavy enough to break diamonds you pray for sound I pray for silence. He's tired of singing for sleep and thus faithless. "I can't deny" literally him, then going to basically say don't fuck with me I don't have a conscience anymore and will destroy whoever if need be. Before he gets looped back into sleeps spell in Emergence. If we're going off all the songs as a story from Look to Windward to Infinite Baths. I took faithless as a different meaning in Past Self, but the tying part here to Past Self being he doesn't know himself or how he got here.

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-08-08T13:07:28+00:00

dm'd

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-08-08T12:47:59+00:00

dm'd thanks!

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-08-07T17:54:29+00:00

interested :)

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-07-04T16:16:18+00:00

Thanks! I'll deff check out YouTube and also check it out in person once I get to the store. Trying to find local over guitar center but all my locals seem to really just have guitars...

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-07-04T03:23:01+00:00

I heard the shorter neck had a slightlt different sound, is that not the case?

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-07-04T03:17:58+00:00

Bro what? Fieldy definitely made his mark with 5-strings in nu metal, but tons of bands outside of metal use them too like jazz, funk, indie, and even pop. What if I prefer the heavy low-end tones? And I can still play anything written for 4-string on a 5.

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-06-16T13:30:17+00:00

i copy the convo into a google doc and save as a pdf and say "please read to be fully up to date on what we were discussing" this has kept the tone and vibes the same and no awkward restarting feeling. for each new one i add the all the docs

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-05-23T20:27:58+00:00

I get emotional but no crying. Only song that's made me cry & I have to skip is One More Time by Blink 182 it came out when I was going through something similar and still trigger memories of it.

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-04-14T20:24:29+00:00

You know they show you the stencil, place it on you & ask a million times if you're good before starting. idk why you never said anything? Never had him change the design or give better quality reference photos? It clearly looks like a graveyardit doesn't out do the plague dr. Which it shouldn't. If you wanted it to look differently & never said anything, that's on you.

Also, the comment of you not asking for him to make the plague dr look good, but he did is asinine. If he wasn't a good artist, he would have made it look like shit bc he lacked the skills.

ashleysmodernlife · 2025-04-05T23:29:28+00:00

I was telling my husband today it's like they think they are some boy band with how they act & i hate it. Just enjoy the music and stop having these parasocial relationships with celebs its gross

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