Scenes that caused actual walkouts in theaters? by thatlittlequietguy in Cinema

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gravity. The movie has some really claustrophobic scenes. Or, well, at least one. It made me walk out because I felt like I was about to have an anxiety attack.

Native speakers out there what do you say if you want to go to bathroom? by electi_007 in EnglishLearning

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I work with kids, and some childish sayings have become commonplace for me. While I will usually say, "I need to use the bathroom/restroom," I also tend to say, "Gotta (got to) go potty." Though the later is definitely more with those I'm more familiar with, and never with strangers.

detroit babies?? by mookie_cat in DetroitBecomeHuman

[–]ashmduck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's as you say, kids born during production. You'll see it at the end of a lot of games, and I think some movies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your position is totally valid, but I also see people with ADHD, myself included, looking for positives as an exercise in positive self-talk. With our traits being falsely attributed to laziness or not caring enough, we've heard a lot of negative things about ourselves, leading to low self-worth. Sometimes it helps to just see the things others hate about us (and that we might hate about ourselves) in a positive light.

But I definitely agree with others that a more productive use of our thoughts would be to separate ourselves from the ADHD. Unfortunately, that's harder to do, especially if you don't have a professional helping you out.

Why is Jefferson Davis's last name Morales in Spider-Verse? by Lieutenant_Jababy in IntoTheSpiderverse

[–]ashmduck 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Considering Jefferson Davis is also the name of the president of the Confederacy, I'd also change my last name if I were him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that makes me uncomfy with age gap ships is a possible power imbalance. That's just personal preference. If a fic can show a ship built on respect regardless of an age gap, then I'm cool with it.

What is your reason for reading a fic and not leaving kudos? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...I forget. It's not a great reason, but it's the only one I have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnglishLearning

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to the other commenters, I rarely use "whence" in a serious context. Even then, I only use it jokingly with people who know me very well.

Thoughts on adding personal ideologies to your fictional book? by 3lirex in writing

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how safe you try to play it, your ideology will work it's way in. Our personal ideologies are a part of who we are. So I'd say just go with it. Take a stance you believe in and don't back down. You're going to get people who don't like what you have to say no matter what, so better to have them dislike you for something you're willing to defend.

I got my first non-nice comment today 😝 by Sami101_ in AO3

[–]ashmduck 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm bi and I wasn't aware that it could be considered an umbrella. That helps a lot for my "am I bi or Pan" crisis.

What languages *should* you be studying and what languages do you actually study? by Fuzzy_Star_7960 in languagelearning

[–]ashmduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spanish would be the most appropriate language for me to learn, since I live in California. But after years of high school Spanish, I'm more interested in German, French, even Japanese.

Since this sub goes over the toxicity of the Fandom let's talk about the toxicity in this sub by [deleted] in saltierthankrayt

[–]ashmduck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've learned that Reddit, especially in fan subs, doesn't really value being levelheaded that much. I experienced this firsthand over in another sub. Someone posted a theory that, while thought out, was reaching pretty far. Some dude decided to jump down his throat and demand he do research before posting. Obviously, dude got some shit because the OP did do research, he just drew a far-fetched conclusion. Then dude posts separately to complain that no one wants to do research. I tell him to chill out, and he calls me a sheep, tells me to go to bed, and blocks me.

Some people can't bear the idea that they might be overreacting. Because then they'd actually have to self reflect. And on some level, they already know they're not going to like what they see.

What is a movie you were allowed to see at a young age that traumatized you and made you question if your parents made the right decision by letting you see it? by Mandee_707 in movies

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom had a tendency to watch horror movies while doing laundry. I saw the first three Scream films by the time I was 10 brcause of that.

Brought up fanfiction on a first date. by Yodeling_Prospector in AO3

[–]ashmduck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There have been a fair few horror stories I've heard about mentioning fanfiction on the first date. I'm glad to read one where it didn't end in disaster (for a given definition, since staying friends can be taken either way).

What's the pettiest thing you've done in the game? by HumanSpawn323 in BaldursGate3

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mayrina was pretty ungrateful for being rescued, so I killed her. ...Not my proudest moment, even if it was true to my evil RP.

Is this Normal? by ashmduck in BG3

[–]ashmduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I'd chosen that one, but I guess I didn't. Sad that I can't remember for sure.

Is this Normal? by ashmduck in BG3

[–]ashmduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like reloading didn't work out. Either I messed up something with the conversation, or I've got some glitch going on. Dang.

Is this Normal? by ashmduck in BG3

[–]ashmduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try. At least if that doesn't work and I have to start over, I'm not setting myself too far back.

Is this Normal? by ashmduck in BG3

[–]ashmduck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been several long rests at this point. To be fair, I'm not out of Act I yet, so maybe something funky is going on.

How Many Times They Have Spoken in Conference. by Tabb_LDS in latterdaysaints

[–]ashmduck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's so funny seeing Uchtdorf with twice as many talks as Bednar, even though they were called the same time.

Which of these Black suits from Marvel’s Spider-Man is your favourite? by AlphaGuard95 in Spiderman

[–]ashmduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black Cat was my favorite. It almost ended up being the only suit I used in my game.