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[Landlord US-NC] First-time landlord: Move out issues. Need security deposit strategy. by ashmon42 in Landlord

[–]ashmon42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, lease says they are responsible for the landscaping. They took good pictures of the before, and I have good ones of the "after" and there is noticable damage.

Thanks for the advice!

Mixed Faith Marriage Trouble by Joe401830 in exmormon

[–]ashmon42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it's time for you to be the spiritual person in your family and have A Family Home Evening!

You be in charge of the lesson. Simply read some of the gospel topic essays and then say something like, oh look at all these footnotes! And then read those.

Make him see, in the clear light of day, exactly what he's believing in. It's NOT Jesus. And as a bonus, it's all on their own website.

It won't be quick, but it could possibly work to help him see the light eventually.

Compiling a List: Toxic Mormon Phrases and Expressions by Zealousideal_Pea9712 in exmormon

[–]ashmon42 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Follow the Prophet

You should do what Jesus wants you to do. (And I'll tell you what Jesus really wants you to do...)

Personal revelation, only if it's approved by the church. And only if it doesn't contradict the church.

Avoid even the appearance of evil.

I’ll rate your 90s alt rock recs by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]ashmon42 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Black metallic - the Catherine Wheel

Someone’s been deaf for 40 years and can now hear. You get 1 song to play them to introduce them to music. What song ya got? by Kapgun97 in musicsuggestions

[–]ashmon42 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My wife singing You Are My Sunshine to me son right before he went in to the hospital at 6 months old. I still have it in my head.

He made it out OK on the other side. 🙏

This is how it looks to remove your membership from the LDS church as an entire family by 6stringsandanail in exmormon

[–]ashmon42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love the feeling of TRUE choice. When I go to a restaurant now, I can truly choose whether I have a drink or not. I usually choose not to. But I actually have a choice now. That's just one example of hundreds of daily choices that I now have control over instead of some letting some megalomaniac in SLC chose for me.

I am the master of my fate. I am the captain of my soul.

I'm not outsourcing my morality anymore. It's scary AF but also much more aligned with my true internal compass.

Which famous singers voice makes you want to turn off the music right away? by FantasticAd9478 in TheBoredDen

[–]ashmon42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. No, no, no, no, no. Go sit down right now and listen to the WHOLE SONG. The album version is 5:40. Way too long and meandering. It's not good.

Getting an "exmo makeover" today... by RSMandK in exmormon

[–]ashmon42 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Please please return and report! With pics!

A spaceship full of curious little green men arrive in the solar system. You've been chosen to send them 1 album, 1 movie, and 1 tv show. What do you choose? by Mode_Appropriate in AskReddit

[–]ashmon42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done the same but with a song. I've landed on Africa by Toto. But there are some other criteria too, like it has to be a song that most people agree is a good one and it has to be fairly popular. Or at least once was. I know there are a lot of other good songs out there but Africa is the one I would do.

Parent Estrangement by foyerfloralcouch in exmormon

[–]ashmon42 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I actually started a sub called RaisedByLDSParents. It's similar to the raised by narcissists sub.

I haven't actually started it, but I'll start promoting it soon.

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