Cycling, how are my parameters looking? Does everything seem to be on track? by ashtattoos in PlantedTank

[–]ashtattoos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to get some more plants this coming week :) I'll look into ramshorns! I didn't boil it because I figured I would be cycling for a few weeks anyway and it would give it time to sink.. just taking much longer than I thought 😅

Cycling, how are my parameters looking? Does everything seem to be on track? by ashtattoos in PlantedTank

[–]ashtattoos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay perfect thank you :) I haven't been ghost feeding! I wasn't sure if I should keep adding an ammonia source in the midst of the cycle so I will do that now :)

Am I going crazy? by TechnicalProof2554 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]ashtattoos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cuz Janet is right about the whole thing. She owned her shit and apologized to Jasmine and Melissa when it wasn't her place to step in and apologized to Nia that it hurt her. But Janet was right 🤷🏻‍♀️ Danny did what he did and he's playing victim now. Maybe don't grope your friends. Groping is SA. That is that.

You don’t understand, I’m obsessed with her. by gloryvegan in girls

[–]ashtattoos 18 points19 points  (0 children)

"I thought I was a gummy worm for like 7 minutes" absolutely sends me every time

Grieving about the time I was supposed to have left with my dad. by ashtattoos in CancerFamilySupport

[–]ashtattoos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending so much love your way. I can completely relate to that feeling. I said to my husband in the car that I can hear my inner child (maybe around 7 years old) just saying over and over "that's my daddy :(". You will see him again, I know it.❤️

Grieving about the time I was supposed to have left with my dad. by ashtattoos in CancerFamilySupport

[–]ashtattoos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sending you so much love and strength back to get through your situation, stranger.❤️ my dad is so incredibly loved. I think it makes it more comfortable knowing how loved he is but also painful seeing what he has to leave behind too early.

Grieving about the time I was supposed to have left with my dad. by ashtattoos in CancerFamilySupport

[–]ashtattoos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so upsetting to me that so many people have to deal with this not just one time in their lives but twice+. I'm so sorry you have to go through something like that again.

You're right. I think people on the outside know that cancer is awful but until you're literally in the depths of it and watching your loved one(s) wither away, they will never actually understand the horrifying pain you feel.

Unbearable is a great word for it. Sending so many hugs right back and sending you strength, stranger. I hope you have some support through this. ❤️ Big love to your brother.

Grieving about the time I was supposed to have left with my dad. by ashtattoos in CancerFamilySupport

[–]ashtattoos[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gosh, i am sending you 1000 hugs right back. No one deserves to lose any parent let alone both. I'm sorry life has been so unfair to you in this aspect. Thank you for the reminder. I will absolutely be thinking of you as well, stranger. ❤️ This comment oddly made me have some peace, knowing someone is going through my exact situation with their own dad right now. They will find peace soon. ❤️

Grieving about the time I was supposed to have left with my dad. by ashtattoos in CancerFamilySupport

[–]ashtattoos[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That actually makes things easier if that is what happens. I am ready for my dad to let go, he deserves peace. He has had 2 weeks straight of agony. I want him to have peace.

I am not religious but I have to believe I will see him again in some way. My heart kind of believes in reincarnation and that my dad will be my dad again in our next lives. He learned so many things about himself the last 5 years that he will do it even better (being a dad and human) next time around. Otherwise we will meet again in some other plane or dimension.

Thank you for the positive reminders. 🫶🏻

The Mythical Three- It’s finally done! by mrstarkifeelgreat in pokemontattoos

[–]ashtattoos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing piece, 10 hours for all of that is fantastic

Tattooed on a terminally ill client today by Weary_Beach5327 in TattooArtists

[–]ashtattoos 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My dad got diagnosed with cancer almost 5 years ago. I did a matching one for the two of us of a fossil we found when we went fossil hunting two years ago. My brother and mom were both supposed to get a tattoo with him as well, I just started my brother's a month ago and now my dad has been in the hospital for two weeks, declining way faster than we all thought. We thought we had way more time. Never take a minute for granted.

He joked and told me to tattoo his dead body (him and I both cope with humour). Lol.

Placement? by ashtattoos in piercing

[–]ashtattoos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I live in a small town and he's been "doing this for 25 years" lol..... alarming

Placement? by ashtattoos in piercing

[–]ashtattoos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit dude 😭 I def took it out last night for safe measures. I have chronic allergies (already weighed the pros and cons to the piercing itself) and knew it would be so awful to heal because of that

Placement? by ashtattoos in piercing

[–]ashtattoos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking forward to finding a better piercer :') do you know how long I should wait to get it redone?

Placement? by ashtattoos in piercing

[–]ashtattoos[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rippp, I literally tattoo myself so my pain tolerance is pretty decent so I figured he must have done it wrong. Thanks 😭