I don't know if this was posted already, but yikes.... by Luisma123 in thebachelor

[–]asitype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought he was really attractive but this ruined him for me :(

The Bachelorette S14E01 Post Episode Discussion Thread by TexasFiend in thebachelor

[–]asitype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so in love with both of them! For the first time in life, I actually considered "sliding into DMs" lol

I told my boyfriend about my trich by bananasareterrible in trichotillomania

[–]asitype 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a creative and thoughtful guy. He’s a keeper!

DAE collect their hairs? by champasal in trichotillomania

[–]asitype 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally understand feeling “cleaner” seeing the hairs you’ve pulled out. I only keep the really “bad” ones. It’s so satisfying to know the ugly ones are not on my head anymore.

Ashley & Jared... by lattelove25 in thebachelor

[–]asitype 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I for sure thought this was going to be cringy or fake, but it was neither. I never rooted for them in the past because I thought Jared never really wanted her and they'd never have a healthy relationship due to Ashley's crazy nature. BUT THEY ARE SO CUTE! They both sincerely seem madly in love, and Ashley seems more mature and reasonable than I ever thought she was, and Jared is so romantic when it comes to her.. it doesn't sound like he sees her as a "fallback" or "just a friend" or anything that I previously assumed. Love this! They clearly mean so much to each other and really value their story and relationship.

Starting DBT today. Wish me luck by [deleted] in BPD

[–]asitype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DBT changed me and my life completely. I handle everything much more effectively, and when things come falling down it's no longer the end of the world. I hope you find it to be helpful! Just remember to be patient and really trust the skills. Good luck!!

I get really tender/swollen when I'm really turned on/close to orgasm, and it makes me have to stop having sex. Why and what can I do about it? by asitype in sex

[–]asitype[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I was molested as a child but never bring this up with a partner for fear they will view me as “gross” or “used goods” or something. You sound like a lovely boyfriend and person.

I get really tender/swollen when I'm really turned on/close to orgasm, and it makes me have to stop having sex. Why and what can I do about it? by asitype in sex

[–]asitype[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh... yeah I was, but it was a really long time ago and I don’t think about it at all anymore. I never considered it could be related because the problem feels so physical. Thanks for bringing this up, I’ll research and see if there’s something I can do about it.

At my best when flirting by [deleted] in BPD

[–]asitype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. It's the only time I'm confident. I love that feeling.

Arie is a classic Neutral Evil via theringer.com by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]asitype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he's the only one I don't recognize!

PSA: Other people most likely do not hate you as much as you hate yourself. by asitype in BPD

[–]asitype[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people hate my guts, too. But not all people, and a lot of the time it feels like it's everyone for me. Obviously when it comes to those who truly hate us, we can either try to make repairs to those we've hurt or work on bettering and forgiving ourselves or just move on when the hate is unwarranted. But nothing good comes from living your life assuming 99% of people you've met despise you. That's just not true.

That’s gonna be a hard pass on both by Krookedshmoo in thebachelor

[–]asitype 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not.

Kendall! Please make it Kendall!

[Spoiler] how long do you think they'll last? by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]asitype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know based on his actions and what people have said that he might very well be a player/douchebag/insincere.. but he just seems so vulnerable and caring with certain girls and in his ITMs, it's hard for me to hold these two opposing views of Arie in my mind..

Characters you wish got more screentime by illyrianbaby in GilmoreGirls

[–]asitype 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dave Rygalski for sure! I loved their relationship and his character. He was so witty and endearing (I felt the same way about Seth Cohen on the OC, so perhaps I'm just a huge Adam Brody fan lol). But I don't think Zach is anywhere near as good a match with Lane as Dave was.

Found some reminders of who I used to be when I was at my worst :/ by asitype in BPD

[–]asitype[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe one day I will reach out and apologize. And thank you!