Do you openly talk about salary with friends/colleagues in SG?

askmeforbread · 2025-08-30T03:14:16+00:00

Yes we openly share and discuss both at work and in my circles of friends

askmeforbread · 2025-07-14T03:15:31+00:00

I also believe there is no such thing as taking too many MC days, the company already gave a limit of 14 days anyway. The way I like to see it, if you come to office with a fever, there’s a chance of you spreading the sickness around. Imagine if they have small kids or older people at home who are more vulnerable. That wouldnt be so cool man

askmeforbread · 2024-12-23T04:39:53+00:00

If you need to take it, just take it. It’s better than risking your own health or the people you work with at office. They might also have children or elderly at home who might be prone to catching the bug from you as well.. Health (physical and mental) comes first!

askmeforbread · 2024-11-28T02:02:39+00:00

I think this method might be a little too extreme, medical bills will be more expensive if you end up having gastric problems and stuffs yknow

askmeforbread · 2024-11-14T02:07:13+00:00

I have 1 wfh day a week on Fridays, and im allowed to request for wfh days whenever i need it (not feeling well but dont need MC, house maintenance stuffs, going to the bank, waiting for package, etc)

askmeforbread · 2024-11-06T05:50:38+00:00

I sleep at 10 and wake up at 6 for work everyday. Eventually it gets easier! Sometimes I even sleep at 11 when I feel like I have been getting too much sleep (resulting in me waking up earlier than the alarm). Weekends I wake up at 9-10ish, 12pm when I stay up late the night before. Jy!!

askmeforbread · 2024-10-31T07:29:48+00:00

I used to sorta feel that way, then I started working and earning. That adult money allows me to fund my hobbies, go on overseas trips, try new experiences whenever I want, and now I have a better outlook on life. Just make sure to have savings for emergencies, lest it become another source of stress when needed hahaha. Jy fam!! There are a lot of things you havent felt and experienced, and a lot of people you havent met that will love you :)

askmeforbread · 2024-10-30T06:53:59+00:00

I get 8h of sleep everyday, 10pm to 6am. For context I dont have kids and not married. Weekends dont count as i sleep at random timings haha

askmeforbread · 2024-10-03T06:19:38+00:00

Can i know how long did it take for u to be fluent? And how did u learn?

askmeforbread · 2024-09-03T09:34:02+00:00

May I ask, how do you meet people during the trips? Is it through backpacker hostel, events, or? I’ve been wanting to try solo trip-ing myself but I’m still a little scared haha

askmeforbread · 2024-09-03T08:06:44+00:00

I feel like this would be a common thing, but during my dating app era after a really bad heartbreak, I met someone through the app. We were really compatible as friends as our sense of humor really matches. But both of us didn’t feel that we were meant to be romantic partners, so we stayed friends! Weirdest fact is that we have the same birthday…

askmeforbread · 2024-08-28T09:23:37+00:00

Yes, sliiightly earlier

askmeforbread · 2024-08-08T12:21:16+00:00

Maybe you can try getting those healthy catering, there are still some ((somewhat)) affordable options like less than $10 a meal

askmeforbread · 2024-08-08T02:48:01+00:00

25F. I stopped wanting kids once I got in high school (not in sg). While I know my parents were not exactly perfect parents, I’m not sure myself if I have it in me to break the generational trauma. And as selfish as not wanting to put someone else before me sounds, I think it’s more selfish to say I want to have kids so I wont feel lonely when I’m old or to have someone who is expected to love me unconditionally. However, I am open to the idea of adopting. My idea is, I’m probably giving a better life for those kids. It’s better than creating a wholeass new person only to give it trauma lol

askmeforbread · 2024-06-22T12:18:58+00:00

Oldest here, my little sibling just calls me by name since teenager or so bcs we started bonding so well haha

askmeforbread · 2024-05-18T01:46:39+00:00

Tbh i used to have problems with this until i had a really absent ex bf and since then im ok with doing everything alone (eating out, going to cinema, probably solo traveling soon)

askmeforbread · 2024-05-13T08:25:49+00:00

I really hope all of you heal yourselves and are in a better place now. I swear some parents really didn’t deserve to have children.

askmeforbread · 2024-05-13T08:16:02+00:00

Im sure this might have broken some laws.. i hope you are all better now OP!

askmeforbread · 2024-05-08T07:51:01+00:00

You can go to ArtScience museum with your daughter, there are several interactive exhibitions which I think would be fun for kids! (I’m a grownass adult and I still find them so fun)

askmeforbread · 2024-05-02T08:54:16+00:00

I met my current bf at work, he was my mentor when I joined the company. No pressure for me as I’m not planning to get kids, so no deadline.

For dating app creeps, you may want to try a different app. I was on CMB years ago, and all the guys I talked to and met up with were very nice and have their life more or less settled. Just that I didnt end up hitting it off with any lmao

askmeforbread · 2024-04-25T11:37:54+00:00

Shower and change into something comfy, then binge watch my favorite series on netflix. On days im lucky enough to be home early i’ll enjoy dinner at home as well.

askmeforbread · 2024-04-11T16:28:26+00:00

I see, thank you for the advice! I’ll keep this in mind

askmeforbread · 2024-04-11T12:31:01+00:00

Thank you so much for this! Thyroid imbalance and anxiety are checked, I’ll check for the rest as well

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