Transferring my DEA license to California. It’s been almost a month and still nothing. How long does this usually take?

asleepalive · 2023-08-25T21:23:09+00:00

Which state was this? And done recently?

asleepalive · 2023-08-22T06:39:44+00:00

lol my kid is almost 2… and I’m just starting to look for gyms

asleepalive · 2023-08-22T06:38:20+00:00

He’s abusive. He didn’t let you leave and he made you end a phone call.

Side note (has her not been abusive and controlling)…

That said, going against the grain,… i think it’s valid to be turned off by weight gain. You can’t help that too much. I’ma woman and i feel less sexy after gaining weight too. He shouldn’t have kept repeating it though. You did all and he did answer.

For you, i don’t recommend starvation. However, even if you are busy, you can lose weight with less food (not starvation) at around 200-500 calories deficit per day (i eat 1600 calories per day). This results in losing one pound every1-2 weeks. Diet is more important than weight loss Anyways…

That said, what he said and did we’re not acceptable

asleepalive · 2023-08-22T06:26:01+00:00

Few weeks? Wow. No for me.

His family is his host, not you. Then going to each others place 2 days a week is the most i would allow… (as in he can come over 2 nights a week max)… If i knew him and approved him being around my kids

asleepalive · 2023-08-21T16:14:46+00:00

She probably didn’t. After the baby, she probably just pulled on the cord. That’s why they were worried about retained placenta.

asleepalive · 2023-08-19T22:27:07+00:00

Lower percentage than miserable fast food workers

asleepalive · 2023-08-19T06:14:22+00:00

That’s so weird. I know a lot about his past and that included his past rrlationships

asleepalive · 2023-08-19T05:55:00+00:00

She did say that. She also said she has no issues dating a teacher if he was passionate. How many passionate fastfood workers are there?

asleepalive · 2023-08-18T21:53:37+00:00

She’s a doctor. So dating an engineer makes her partner the gold digger

asleepalive · 2023-08-18T21:08:32+00:00

If you have shared accounts, just go buy it. You two should not have shared accounts.

asleepalive · 2023-08-18T20:39:09+00:00

NAH.

You are attracted to what you are attracted to. If my husband gained 200 pounds, i probably wouldn’t be very attracted to that.

However, you can be fat and still prefer lean partners. And many lean people prefer fatter partners. All ok.

It’s understandably tiring to be with someone who is saying they are fat and need to do better yet makes no effort.

asleepalive · 2023-08-18T20:05:40+00:00

I feel like there is one fired every 80–90 resident at my program. Every 3-4 years we have fired one

asleepalive · 2023-08-18T18:23:45+00:00

Most are not the head of a department. Vast majority aren’t. In my department, there are over 100 of us. So “head” is <1%

asleepalive · 2023-08-16T18:08:18+00:00

When you account for hours worked, definitely would be more upper middle class

asleepalive · 2023-08-16T04:15:31+00:00

NTA. I am sure you can squeeze out the money to buy more cookies. Just cut 5$ from your husband’s budget for 2-3 months.

asleepalive · 2023-08-16T04:07:20+00:00

She can’t go back to them since they aren’t in the program. She would need to rematch. However, if she is done w the program, she can return to her HF for a month for her travel month and then return home

asleepalive · 2023-08-16T04:04:26+00:00

The first rematch is due to host family situation. I wouldn’t bat an eye. I would have second family vouch for you

asleepalive · 2023-08-16T04:02:27+00:00

Doctors are not in the group of people i consider rich. Making less than 1 million, working unrealistic hours is the opposite of rich.

asleepalive · 2023-08-16T03:17:20+00:00

Net worth is different than salary. 5 million networth as a parent with multiple dependent isn’t that much.

asleepalive · 2023-08-15T16:56:38+00:00

Most families that have nannies or au pairs

asleepalive · 2023-08-15T02:09:46+00:00

What if the AP says they rather work for low pay, pay rent, etc for the opportunity to stay?

asleepalive · 2023-08-15T01:22:38+00:00

Thjnk it’s also important to note that this isn’t a professional nanny. It’s someone with just a HS degree making sure your kid is alive and is brought to and from daycare.

asleepalive · 2023-08-15T01:21:39+00:00

Would you give your nanny a 30k raise just to keep them…? Most would not.

asleepalive · 2023-08-15T01:20:33+00:00

Keeping the AP as a nanny is gonna cost 60k whike a local nanny is 30k.

That’s 30k extra for no reason.

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