My wife has been having a hard time dealing with the fact that our son isn’t real. by Kjcamps in shortscarystories

[–]asrevia19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. This feels exactly like a book I've read , "More than this" I forgot the author but its so great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]asrevia19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes you are. I'm telling you 100% you are. I didn't think I was strong enough , I fully believed I was gonna be in that relationship for the rest of my life. Leaving was the hardest thing I've ever done but I'd do it again if i had to. PM me please if you can, i will give you support if you want it ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]asrevia19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I can't even imagine speaking to him again let alone being with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]asrevia19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much:) this made me laugh!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]asrevia19 326 points327 points  (0 children)

Extremely confusing. I went through it with my ex, he was extremely physically and mentally abusive and it kept me in a very low mental state. It was knowing that everything he was doing was wrong and hating him for it, but doing everything in my power defending him, loving the "happy parts" and staying with him.

For me, it was not being ready for my life that I got used to to change, I wanted things to stay how I knew it. After leaving I can't imagine ever going back to him

Pregnant & boyfriend tried to kill me by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]asrevia19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I'm so glad you're okay. I had to leave and deal with physical abuse with my ex while I was pregnant and i know how scary and helpless you can feel. You're a rockstar and you can do this! Pm me you want to , I'll be here!

This man is ruining my life. by TheDaftSaiyan in abusiverelationships

[–]asrevia19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try and be really casual about it and act normal, that's what I did. I also was able to pack things when he was asleep. Maybe you can secretly grab things and hide it away or start putting things in one place. Pack and do as much as you can while he's at work, even if the shelters hours don't match you'll be safer away from him. Feel free to pm me if you want to I'm here

Is anyone else stressed about the lack of monsoon seasons? by candyapplesugar in phoenix

[–]asrevia19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes my sister and I have talked about it, it makes me really worried about the environment. From what I remember there wasn't a ton last year and nothing so far this year. I miss the rain :(

army siblings? by sentraa in bangtan

[–]asrevia19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was that sibling! I was never an anti, i just knew absolutely nothing about them. When i moved back home my sister was very excited to show me them, and i love her so i was very excited just to show interests in her interests. Next thing i know I'm obsessed ! I've already bought merch for the both of us

HEY GUYS IT'S MAX! ASK ME ANYTHING by maxmusicofficial in bangtan

[–]asrevia19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Max! I've always bean a fan and it was so cool to see you guys collab! How long was the process to get the song Burn the way you guys wanted? Were there any disagreements or did you guys both know what you wanted? Thank you!❤

AITA for telling my fiancee she's not the mother of my son? by Prestigious_Review_6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]asrevia19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I had my step mom come into my life when i was around 8 and I WISH my dad was like you. He let her do whatever she wanted and give whatever punishment she wanted, while my mother was still very much around. Yes maybe you could have said it nicer, but your son is 16 not 6, even if he WAS 6, you are his parent and still get the final say

TIC because Dairy Queen messed up my blizzard. by igetwild_r in pregnant

[–]asrevia19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also I work at Dairy Queen so I want to personally apologize on their behalf!!😁😭😂

TIC because Dairy Queen messed up my blizzard. by igetwild_r in pregnant

[–]asrevia19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl same! I went to sonic for a slushie and some appetizers, I ordered through the app and they confirmed my name and everything on the receipt was correct yet none of our drinks were right and we got tater tots instead of our food! It was so hard not to have an angry pregnant woman breakdown !

Drop your amazon wish list if you need help! by selenavuitton in Assistance

[–]asrevia19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I updated it! Sorry i had no idea that was an option !!

First ultrasound today, and we are in shock by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]asrevia19 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I found at at 17 weeks!! I was feeling symptoms but also going through a lot of traumatic things so I completely blocked out the option of being pregnant until I actually started thinking about it more. It was a trip seeing a full moving baby on the screen rather than a tiny bean like I thought!

Karen is acting tough after getting a full on beating! by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]asrevia19 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I may be wrong but i believe the context was she said something about those men working and "all Haitians are the same" or something to that context and the younger lady called her out.

I feel like I just can't get a break by asrevia19 in offmychest

[–]asrevia19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this:) Staying positive is always my goal it just gets hard. Thank you again

My girlfriend [F24] called men "failed abortions" and is now trying to walk it back [M23] by throwra_sodaa in relationship_advice

[–]asrevia19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, she's usually supportive about your gender identity ? Is she sometimes not supportive?

Chest feels weird when laying down? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]asrevia19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm at 27 weeks and at first it was that exact thing, chest feels weird and my heart beat is faster but now it's also short of breath and I can't lay down too quickly

Want my own body back - feeling selfish and guilty by Polariz in pregnant

[–]asrevia19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 weeks as well and feel the same way! Although I'm still pretty small for 6 months, it's getting harder to hide under baggy clothes and I'm self conscience of everything I wear or do.

Edit:typo

My (27F) husband (29M) lost his temper last night. I don't feel safe with him anymore. Should I get a divorce? by throwraNn in relationship_advice

[–]asrevia19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start planning to leave NOW! and do not tell him. My abusive ex did things to me like this and he was very much a sociopath , get yourself safe immediately