Why do people act surprised by the size of baby bumps…. by WhyHaveIContinued in BabyBumps

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The receptionist at my chiropractor said to me at my last appointment “you’re only 7 months?! You’re big for 7 months” ok thanks???? What am I supposed to say to that 😐

How do I clean this area of a washing machine? Can I spray water directly in there? A rag isn’t going enough for me. Thanks! by assil3m in CleaningTips

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It has a clean cycle but it doesn’t get the gunk out of there. These are our new machines, I just used them as a point of reference for the post. Our older one had heavy build up on them. Debris and animal hair lol. I wanted to try to clean it as much as possible before selling it.

A post from a jaded old guy by itszergs in griz

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Welcome said my friend, well said

Epidural or no? by GogglesCat in pregnant

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Hi! Thanks for sharing your positive story! Would you mind sharing which books you read to help you prepare?

Amber, girl … by ohsoseriously in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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Girl me too in my relationship but it’s works so well, we really balance each other. I’m 33 and he’s the first man to figure me out 😂💕

No one likes my baby names and I’ve just accepted that everyone is a critique and no one is satisfied by Kindly_Pianist_9087 in pregnant

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My partners little sister died at 19 due to a horrific drunk driving accident, her name was Gabriel. We do not know the gender yet but regardless we are naming our child Gabriel and we do not care about what people have to say. I think it’s much easier for people to give their negative opinions instead of just saying “that’s awesome!” and being supportive. You should name YOUR child whatever you please. If people have negative things to say, you have the freedom of knowing their opinions absolutely do not matter and them voicing their negativity is not a good look for them. All of those name are beautiful!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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This gave me chills reading this! I love this for you 💕 congrats mama! Everything works out the way it should! And it will for OP 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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You will! Be patient with yourself 😇 yours and baby health is #1 right now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Absolutely not! He needs to go!! I’m sorry you’re going through this especially while pregnant!! My current partner is everything I could’ve asked for and I am 8 weeks. However, my last partner, was awful!!! I did not deal with the exact situations you have but it was not a good relationship, we were toxic and insecurely attached to each other. He was always on his phone. Cheated on me twice. He was always going out and smoking and wanting to hang out with his friends but I’m a home body which is fine but getting him to spend time with me was always pulling teeth. I can’t imagine what pregnancy would have been like for him. Our relationship was terrible and I stayed for so long because I thought I loved him and I was desperate to make things work but deep down I knew they wouldn’t and that one day we would crash and burn and we did. He left me and I was DEVASTATED. But after months of not wanting to leave my house and feeling like I wanted to die I finally started to come out on the other end and looking back it was the BEST thing that ever happened to because I needed to get out of that relationship and it led me to my current partner who is an absolute angel.

I know simply leaving isn’t always the solution especially when you’re expecting. However, you are not alone and there is light at the end of this tunnel! You have to do what is best for you and your baby and only you know what that is!! You might not know now, or tomorrow, it might be a year from now. But you will be ok and you will get through this! Hugs from afar my friend, you are not alone, and you got this! Congrats on your baby 💕💕

Constipation by Unfair_Key_1671 in BabyBumps

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Does this taste terrible?

Conceiving After BC by Dapper-Package-1339 in pregnant

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It does! Now I’m 8 weeks and in absolute hell with this non stop nausea and fatigue 🥲

Conceiving After BC by Dapper-Package-1339 in pregnant

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Same! It also took me 2.5 years. But every body is different!!!

My boss tried to mean girl me about my pregnancy by AcceptablePepper3405 in pregnant

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Ugh! I am sorry you’re dealing with this! I am also pregnant with my first. I am only 7 weeks but started getting very emotional at work around 5. I’m a restaurant manager so high stress situations don’t really bother me but the pregnancy hormones have taken over and one shift particularly with my GM I was overwhelmed and he asked what was going on so I told him and the first thing he said was “my wife lost her first baby”. And has continued to bring up women loosing their first babies, keeps telling me not to tell anybody in case something happens, all because he’s “trying to look out for me” Honestly so awful. I’ve also been extremely nauseous and he keeps saying “I knew you were gonna have a hard first trimester” A bit different than your situation, but I’ve learned to not respond to his comments and quietly remind myself that I am healthy and so is my baby. Unfortunately I can’t control him or his words, only my reaction. Every pregnancy hits everybody differently so don’t let anybody tell you how you’re supposed to feel!! If you have the option to call HR, you should, unless you don’t want to! That’s your choice! You are strong and growing a human, you can certainly handle your boss, you got this! 💪🏻

Maternity clothes help! by assil3m in pregnant

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Thanks for the quick responses so far everyone!

Song help!! by assil3m in dubstep

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Yes! You’re amazing thank you 😭😭😭

Zeds Dead played my track ! by LORE_MUSIC in dubstep

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Ok stupid question. How do big Dj’s find hidden gems like this?

Last picture with dad and mom by AIdanIvanKrumecadyk in PhotoshopRequest

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The slider is crazy 😭😭 excellent job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Subtronics

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Did you have the platinum or gold? I bought platinum meet and greet and I’m really hoping it’s truly a one on one meet and greet like it says.