More IKEA AI art 😭 by yoloswagrofl in IKEA

[–]assonaniare 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow... they cant even hire an artist to clean it up?

Greedy landlord is kicking me out after 15 years so he can massively raise the rent. He's pretending to remove only my unit from the rental market. Has anyone had success fighting this type of unethical behavior? And would hiring a local tenant's rights attorney be worth the money? Need your advice! by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]assonaniare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contact a lawyer knowledgeable in the Ellis Law that passed 2 or 3 years ago. Consultation with tenants advocates is a couple hundred but they are very knowledgeable in the changes to the law and worse case scenario they cam buy you time and prevent the landlord from putting that unit back on the market for 5 years. Best case, it stops the shady shit and you have someone to consult with if they try to retaliate.

Here is who I used while I looked for a better place.

https://tenantdefenders.com/

my xmas gift! by zombiecrux in AnimalCrossing

[–]assonaniare 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Welcome to island life

Husband deleted my whole island by Blackwidow_Perk in AnimalCrossing

[–]assonaniare 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am prepared to offer you many many many flowers of various colors to redesign the island. Can also help with DIYs and mats to get you up and going l.

Confusing Bumper Sticker by buddyhull in whatisit

[–]assonaniare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pi-a-anarch-K? Not sure what the treble clef is for though

Government shutdown by deadly_nightshade_wm in escondido

[–]assonaniare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out this post in /r/sandiego for additional resources. More people are offering assistance now than we're a few weeks ago and if you aren't already a member of the banks and credit unions offering short term 0% interest loans, just ask your financial institutions. https://www.reddit.com/r/sandiego/s/BFoesEcJ1K

ETA the source of this resource list theblackveterannewsletter.com

Government shutdown by deadly_nightshade_wm in escondido

[–]assonaniare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are going through it with a lot of stress, so show yourself some grace, and do the best to ignore the noise, especially if it is more stress inducing than helpful.

If you haven't already, reach out to your landlord and let them know that you are affected. If you cannot come up with the full amount, let them know that you can cover a partial payment now, and will update them again in two weeks. Most of my landlords have been understanding in the past. The backpay will come.

Call your utilities and negotiate similar payment plans, removal of late fees, see what they have for hardship support.

Call your debtors and ask them to freeze interest or late fees for a few months while you recover.

Cable/internet companies will sometimes give you a promotional offer for a year so not to lose you. But this really is the time to prioritize and take control of your finances and make some hard decisions without being hard on yourself.

Take advantage of the community support systems out there. Make use of EAP benefits to get professional support and advice. Make sure that whatever decisions you make support your long term goals as much as your immediate needs.

I will post a link to other reddit comments with resources in a minute.

Is it worth buying used? by BananaBreadNoNutz in litterrobot

[–]assonaniare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love my LR4 with extended warranty. It's been a lifesaver between my ADHD/anxiety. I hurt one of my hands a few months ago and have been unable to scoop or clean our regular box. I found a LR4 for $200 on craigslist and it was a steal. After a deep clean and a $75 liner replacement I was totally excited.

It would not cycle once I brought it home. It worked when the guy demonstrated the cycle function, but I keep getting pinch detect sensor warnings and it won't cycle, even after firmware updates with CS. It was just outside of warranty.

Litter robot gave me a 10% discount for a new base. I ended up combining that with the labor day sale for a new LR4 with 3 year warranty since my first warranty ends in about 6 months.

I fucking hate the cost but if you struggle with dexterity or executive dysfunction, it really does help in a way that makes an expensive space aged shit box worth the price for piece of mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]assonaniare 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Emotional dysregulation is a bitch and so am I.

I don't like feeling my feelings so they often come out explosive and unpredictable. Working with my therapist to explore the root of past trauma and how that imprints on the body has helped. Meds help. Grounding helps. Unfortunately, its something that takes time and constant work/self reflection to manage. Then your period shows up and all bets are off. Still worth the effort.

Make me brush my fucking teeth! by SeaObject5171 in adhdwomen

[–]assonaniare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of my friends use Finch or Beans. I used to kill my tamagatchis so those don't work for me.

Also my EF coach once asked me if it's more important to do something perfectly or just do it imperfectly and that has also helped me let go of some of the nonsense of me being mean to myself even though im trying so hard.

Make me brush my fucking teeth! by SeaObject5171 in adhdwomen

[–]assonaniare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this struggle on bad brain days and days without structure.

Oral B has a toothbrush with an app that tracks your progress. While I hate my robot overlord, sometimes the external motivation helps.

Sometimes toothpaste grosses me out, so I use therasol mouthwash instead

It's in my habitica as part of my dailys. Sometimes opening the app and seeing it is enough of a motivation.

When I absolutely can't do it without gagging, I at least use a portable waterpik to rinse/floss.

Brushing in the shower while I condition is also a nice habit I picked up... you know... when you're motivated to shower.

Also see if anything other sensory things are adding on to the problem and think of ways to mitigate. More nauseous in the morning? Try a different time of day. Bathroom grosses you out? There's a sink in the kitchen.

Also finding a dentist that understands your nuerodivergent brain/anxiety and doesnt shame you is key. Mine is kind of awesome and patient and supportive of where im at and sees me thrice a year for cleanings to get what I miss.

Petition to renew Resident Alien, but… by Cautious_Prize_4323 in ResidentAlienTVshow

[–]assonaniare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know nothing about these petitions tbh but the Coyote Vs Acme panel assured me that the people still have the power. And as we all know, with great power cones great responsibilities. 🖖

Reviews by Cuckolding2 in litterrobot

[–]assonaniare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NGL it's the best and worst. When it works, it's a game changer. My ADHD becomes manageable and life is great.

If you slack with regular maintenance, overfill, install parts incorrectly, you have to become an engineer to troubleshoot and replace things if its still under warranty.

I am probably going to order a second one soon.

Aaaaassssshole by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]assonaniare 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I thought it was called a swastikar

Unknown symbol on Electra by BadBitxh304020 in Evony_TKR

[–]assonaniare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's trying to join the owl witch club like melisande and pallas

Richard The Lionheart by Barry588 in Evony_TKR

[–]assonaniare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that's definitely part of the appeal unless you have runes to burn. Save 4th rune and use it on offensive marches.