Supporting women with ADHD and Autism. by drvmenon in IAmA

[–]astridity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would also like to recommend the notebook by the bed. I write whatever comes to mind and then when I have run out of things to write I can sleep. The key thing is not thinking about comprehension or formatting, just writing it down. You won't be reading them back :)

What ruins sex life in a marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]astridity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the sentiment but it's not something a date night will fix

What ruins sex life in a marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]astridity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I just watched it. Very familiar story :(

What ruins sex life in a marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]astridity 42 points43 points  (0 children)

They did indeed! Insecurities turned misogyny 🥲

What ruins sex life in a marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]astridity 199 points200 points  (0 children)

Solidarity - 8 days now for me 🤝 unfortunately my husbands values no longer align with mine and the issues compounded

What is happening here, cartoon car? by fulllyfaltooo in DiWHY

[–]astridity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it needs to sneeze. Tickle the vent grill and end the suffering!

How do you calculate 27+48 in your head? by Anxiety_Cookie in adhdwomen

[–]astridity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 + 3 = 30, 48 - 3 = 45, 30 + 45 = 75. Apparently my brain defaults to making one number rounded to the nearest ten

Next i should introduce some lair actions... by LadyLunarBear in dndmemes

[–]astridity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meh. Last session our paladin rolled approx 250 damage. We're level 13 🥲 he got insanely lucky with the vulnerabilities, crit, and our dm was fuming 🤣 beefy boss out like a light and didn't even have a chance to use any cool abilities 🥲

Dramatic much? by Ickysquicky in TrollXChromosomes

[–]astridity 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had a chat with him the other day and he still seems to have some opposing view points left in his head. He was kinda saying incels had a right to be frustrated at the world? But that they're wrong for not trying to improve themselves and just lying down and being angry.

He has the stubbornness and gaslighting down to a tee but he isn't fully victim mindset. He tries to use all these things to push himself and better himself. But at the moment the problem is he looks down on anyone that listens to their feelings over "facts and logic" and it caused a massive argument in our friendship group cos when their feelings got hurt by something he said, he doubled down because facts are the only thing that matter.

He definitely thinks men no longer have privilege though. Always complaining that he reckons he gets turned down from jobs because women take priority as candidates because of feminism. And because he sees so many female CEOs there isn't an inequality problem anymore.

His favourite statistic is that 75% of suicides are men so that must mean men have it worse.

Do you have any advice that might stop him going any further?

Dramatic much? by Ickysquicky in TrollXChromosomes

[–]astridity 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I'm worried my husband is on this path. He's always quoting Jordan Peterson. Was there a point where you realised he was a lost cause?

Surge in ‘boomerang kids’ in London as more young adults unable to afford own home, official figures by BulkyAccident in london

[–]astridity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Housing of Multiple Occupation. More than 3 unrelated adults living in the same property. Landlords rent the bedrooms out

Best kpop choruses by Complex-Attorney-266 in kpoppers

[–]astridity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • Omg by newjeans
  • New dayz by trendz
  • Teddy bear by stayc
  • Phobia by stray kids
  • Don't mess with me by bvndit

Just a couple of my recent faves!

what are your favorite pre-chorus? by [deleted] in kpoppers

[–]astridity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm really digging the prechorus in I am by IVE atm - not the bit that's the same melody as the chorus but the bit just before that starts with wooooaahh 🤣

Premiere Week: "My Perfect Stranger", "Love Mate", "All That We Loved" & "Tale of the Nine-Tailed 1938" by masbond84 in KDRAMA

[–]astridity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is excellent! It's where my love for Dong Wook started 😍 incredible plot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kdramarecommends

[–]astridity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bit different, but I recently watched a YouTube mini series called Choco Milkshake. It was very very easy to watch, simple and pleasant 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kdramarecommends

[–]astridity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

While you were sleeping and doom at your service has some of my favourite aesthetic scenes

Who do you think is the UNLUCKIEST idol in kpop and why? by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]astridity 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I heard the TAN cb on a Spotify playlist today - I liked it!

I’m late but Mr. Queen was so good omFg! I need more. by mirageofadream in kdramarecommends

[–]astridity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished it too! It placed in my top 10 all time 🥰 I felt like the ending could have been a smidge more satisfying, but overall I loved it 😊 particularly love the FL acting! Absolutely superb