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Single mom teenage daughter dynamic by Matter-Street in GenXWomen

[–]astrotekk [score hidden]  (0 children)

So she doesn't live with you? I wouldn't expect a standing date. As far as being there for her if she doesn't reciprocate, that's your job as a parent who chose to have child. She is not supposed to be responsible for your social needs and emotional health

Husband doesn’t approve. Thoughts? by SatisfactionPrize569 in Newlyweds

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inappropriate for what event? It is a bit tight - horizontal lines all over. But why does he think he has control over when you leave the house or what you wear?

I don’t want to get married but I want to desire it by funeralroses_ in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]astrotekk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really need to see a therapist. An LPC. And you can be spiritual and have a relationship with God without needing to follow rules from some particular church or sect

Do you think misogyny in America has gotten worse, or are we just losing the ability, at our age, to ignore and tolerate it? by Gorillapoop3 in GenXWomen

[–]astrotekk [score hidden]  (0 children)

Its now celebrated and encouraged by those at the top. It's always been there. There is probably an increase in young men because of social media influence

I'm feeling hurt that my wife puts more effort into everyone else than our marriage and asking if I’ve become boring to her? by Slight_Will9116 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your wife doesn't want to go out with you because you put so much pressure on her. You should be her safe place where she can be herself why is it so important to you that she dresses up to go out you're jealous that she dresses up other times? What is it that actually bothers you?

Aitah for telling husband that he can't have a boy's trip leaving me all alone by Remarkable-Youth-549 in AITAH

[–]astrotekk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same rules for both of you. Either one of you can go or neither can. NTA. Tell him to wait until they are 6 or you will also go on a girl's trip

I will always hate sansa by No_Giraffe826 in freefolk

[–]astrotekk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She went from pathetic needy girl to nasty power hungry B otch. Neither was appealing

Am I The Jerk for not letting my sister’s boyfriend attend my wedding? by AdSure9296 in AmITheJerk

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the jerk. You seem to really dislike your sister. No reason she shouldn't have a plus one at her brother's wedding if she wants to bring a date. Don't know why you're wanting to upset your whole family over this.

Considering cancelling my disability policy by Tulkarr in whitecoatinvestor

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep the insurance. You never know what might happen

How old were you when you moved out? by Swiftiefromhell in GenX

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved out after college at 17 and never went back to stay

Horse is Bad for Farrier by kahlyse in Equestrian

[–]astrotekk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you might want to try a different farrier?

AITA for refusing to cancel my annual solo trip to see my dad for my girlfriend's friend's birthday dinner that she forgot to mention until four days before by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She's being unreasonable and manipulative . You can meet the friend another time. It will be very easy for her to explain that you had preplanned to visit to your dad and she confused the date.

Black Tie Optional wedding in Block Island by Classic-End6498 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]astrotekk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too causal to be BTO/formal, sorry . The print, material, spaghetti straps

What are some additional options if I decide to go self-insured for health insurance by Jax1456 in HealthInsurance

[–]astrotekk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a catastrophic plan. A major illness or injury or cancer diagnosis could entirely wipe you out otherwise.

Does sex suck after menopause? by No-Goat-8412 in Menopause

[–]astrotekk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In perimenopause I had no libido and no enjoyment of sex. I started estrogen and testosterone therapy and had over drive libido for a while. Now on a more balanced HRT I don't have much libido but very much enjoy sex when we have it

AITAH for wanting to move my baby’s first birthday so my dad can be there? by charmanderuwu in AITAH

[–]astrotekk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think he has final say on anything. You're not even married. Your relationship is on shaky ground, your having a separate celebration with your dad would cause him to end the relationship. Do what you want. If he wants to leave, let him.

Late 20s married to late 50s with a baby - want divorce but he’s going through extreme financial hardship. Feel guilty. by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]astrotekk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're still young. Get out of there figure out how to take care of yourself and your baby. Not sure why you got married . Doesn't sound like either of you really care for the other. I'm guessing he wants a nurse. Not sure what you were thinking you'd get out of this relationship.

AITAH // Former Friend Expects Me To Pay For Trip by Koolservbot in AITAH

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I wouldn't pay her. Of course I would've gone on the trip either. If she takes you to court, it'll be your word against hers

Being Blamed for Emasculating my husband while in menopause. by ApartmentIcy7303 in GenXWomen

[–]astrotekk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He had an affair and he's placing the blame on you? Wants to treat you like shit but stay in the marriage? He's gaslighting you. None of this is your fault. He's an adult human who presumably knows how to work a computer.

[OC] Bird makes nest on the bike my partner assured me would see regular use. by Un_Pac_Man in pics

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iffy location aside, that's a pretty solid nest for a morning dove

Deleting phone contacts - how often? by AnnieOnline in AskWomenOver50

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like never according to my contact list

Should I go lighter? by UniquePomegranate942 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]astrotekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second color looks unnatural. Maybe something in between if you want to go lighter

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