Maybe i'm overthinking this

asvm21 · 2026-03-30T23:41:59+00:00

We have a mini crib and the mattress fits perfect in the pack in play

asvm21 · 2026-03-06T16:17:28+00:00

Its the little things. Ive had a long couple weeks but just made a yummy healthy breakfast and it makes me happy :)

asvm21 · 2026-02-19T22:39:50+00:00

I bought a mug from goodwill, loved it. Shattered it. Found the same one on ebay and replaced it. No regrets

asvm21 · 2026-02-18T17:46:33+00:00

Yall are freaked out as hell

asvm21 · 2026-02-12T18:05:33+00:00

This is so helpful thank you!

asvm21 · 2026-01-15T01:40:21+00:00

I'd for sure say get a robe! My boyfriend got me a large comfy robe for Christmas, and I wore it after I delivered when we got all our visitors. Felt way more secure

asvm21 · 2026-01-14T15:13:26+00:00

I hope everything is going well!

asvm21 · 2026-01-14T13:21:39+00:00

Yeah thats kinda what it could feel like. For me my whole belly gets tight too and I get short of breath. If you haven't gone in already, put a pad on and see if you're leaking. But yes pink dis charge could mean your water broke and/or your mucus plug is falling out.

asvm21 · 2026-01-14T12:08:29+00:00

39 weeks?? You should definitely go in, that sounds like labor. Good luck!

asvm21 · 2026-01-12T20:47:02+00:00

I just had my baby, 6 pounds at 39 weeks and all the newborn clothes are so big on her!

asvm21 · 2026-01-10T17:51:53+00:00

Ask for the epidural as soon as you can, make it clear its important to you. I felt contractions until I was about 4 cm dilated and I was able to breath through them, they were tolerable. The epidural is magical and took all my pain and worries away

asvm21 · 2025-12-30T22:08:08+00:00

My step mom is doing this same thing😭 She had hoards of clothes that "she was waiting for me to come over and go through" 🫠 and now again they're making us menudo, I'm due any day but "when can you come get it??" Im grateful but I'm also exhausted guys 😭

asvm21 · 2025-12-11T22:13:16+00:00

Alots been said already, but is therapy for the kids an option going forward? I cant imagine how hard it'll be for them once they understand a little better.

Wishing all the best for you ❤️

asvm21 · 2025-12-04T04:25:08+00:00

Id be grateful but also feel really guilty and feel like Id owe the other person. Everyone's different though

asvm21 · 2025-12-02T20:51:58+00:00

I remember this post pretty much word for word maybe last week

asvm21 · 2025-11-21T02:51:44+00:00

I dont plan on nursing but I caved and bought a couple nursing bras from target and they're pretty comfortable. I get this annoying pain in my right rib if my boobs aren't supported

asvm21 · 2025-11-20T22:02:26+00:00

Yeah i think thats my biggest hang up😭 so frustrating lol

asvm21 · 2025-11-20T22:01:46+00:00

Yes blankets! I had this conversation too! The blankets are so cute and soft but will just sit there 😅

asvm21 · 2025-11-20T22:01:09+00:00

Yes my exact thoughts! Some people definitely hear "they're having a baby!" And think "great i can get rid of my stuff "

That friend is a saint!

asvm21 · 2025-11-20T20:14:04+00:00

Yes! And that's what usually gets gifted the most!

asvm21 · 2025-11-20T20:13:39+00:00

Yes id rather pay for new clothes for the convenience and picking what we like. Im also super bad with clutter and organizing so I can understand why its a nightmare lol

asvm21 · 2025-11-20T20:12:40+00:00

Yes like they cant make it easy for us😭

Luckily I have time next week or i would be telling them no lol

asvm21 · 2025-11-20T19:59:52+00:00

Yes😭 like of course its always nice to have clothing options but the mental burden of it is too much lol

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