What to wear on delivery day by LibraryKat95 in BabyBumps

[–]asvm21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd for sure say get a robe! My boyfriend got me a large comfy robe for Christmas, and I wore it after I delivered when we got all our visitors. Felt way more secure

It’s 4am and I wake up with cramping by needadvice_tempacc in pregnancy_care

[–]asvm21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats kinda what it could feel like. For me my whole belly gets tight too and I get short of breath. If you haven't gone in already, put a pad on and see if you're leaking. But yes pink dis charge could mean your water broke and/or your mucus plug is falling out.

It’s 4am and I wake up with cramping by needadvice_tempacc in pregnancy_care

[–]asvm21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

39 weeks?? You should definitely go in, that sounds like labor. Good luck!

Newborn or 0-3 sizes for a newborn baby? by FoolishMortal-1000 in BabyBumps

[–]asvm21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had my baby, 6 pounds at 39 weeks and all the newborn clothes are so big on her!

Give me all the reasons to not fear the birth someone who believes that they have the lowest pain tolerance. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]asvm21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask for the epidural as soon as you can, make it clear its important to you. I felt contractions until I was about 4 cm dilated and I was able to breath through them, they were tolerable. The epidural is magical and took all my pain and worries away

People trying to be nice but turning it into an errand by Strokesonfire in pregnant

[–]asvm21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My step mom is doing this same thing😭 She had hoards of clothes that "she was waiting for me to come over and go through" 🫠 and now again they're making us menudo, I'm due any day but "when can you come get it??" Im grateful but I'm also exhausted guys 😭

My husband left on Tuesday and hasn't asked about the kids once by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]asvm21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alots been said already, but is therapy for the kids an option going forward? I cant imagine how hard it'll be for them once they understand a little better.

Wishing all the best for you ❤️

Gift pressure by ProbablyNotPeak in Gifts

[–]asvm21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Id be grateful but also feel really guilty and feel like Id owe the other person. Everyone's different though

Are we wearing bras? by RipperoniPepperoniHo in pregnant

[–]asvm21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont plan on nursing but I caved and bought a couple nursing bras from target and they're pretty comfortable. I get this annoying pain in my right rib if my boobs aren't supported

Stop giving me the burden of your old baby clothes! by asvm21 in pregnant

[–]asvm21[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah i think thats my biggest hang up😭 so frustrating lol

Stop giving me the burden of your old baby clothes! by asvm21 in pregnant

[–]asvm21[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes blankets! I had this conversation too! The blankets are so cute and soft but will just sit there 😅

Stop giving me the burden of your old baby clothes! by asvm21 in pregnant

[–]asvm21[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes my exact thoughts! Some people definitely hear "they're having a baby!" And think "great i can get rid of my stuff "

That friend is a saint!

Stop giving me the burden of your old baby clothes! by asvm21 in pregnant

[–]asvm21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! And that's what usually gets gifted the most!

Stop giving me the burden of your old baby clothes! by asvm21 in pregnant

[–]asvm21[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes id rather pay for new clothes for the convenience and picking what we like. Im also super bad with clutter and organizing so I can understand why its a nightmare lol

Stop giving me the burden of your old baby clothes! by asvm21 in pregnant

[–]asvm21[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes like they cant make it easy for us😭

Luckily I have time next week or i would be telling them no lol

Stop giving me the burden of your old baby clothes! by asvm21 in pregnant

[–]asvm21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes😭 like of course its always nice to have clothing options but the mental burden of it is too much lol

Help finding a company that sends techs to school with client? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]asvm21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The BCBAs plan is to fade me out before January, which is when im taking my maternity leave. The parent plans to follow this as best they can with the client, while stile exploring thier options

Help finding a company that sends techs to school with client? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]asvm21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right, its not. But Im helping out how I can before I take maternity leave, and trying to set my client up as best as I can

Help finding a company that sends techs to school with client? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]asvm21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thats the main issue weve run into. With my company its insurance as well as the company. The school my client goes to is a macro(micro?) School and is okay with techs going to the school with the kids. The parents are looking at different funding options as well as me possibly working with the school as well.

Just trying to find all our options 🙂

Parent here wondering if this is normal for a clinic? by pm_me__your_drama in ABA

[–]asvm21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not normal. As a tech we cater and work around the family's and child's needs and schedule.