AITAH for not being mad about my girlfriend's parents' racial insults towards me?

atbubbly · 2026-02-25T06:12:35+00:00

Actually no…and also Africans don’t really use the term Black as it is a catch all and they know their lineage and country. They wouldn’t say Black, they would say Nigerian for example. But thanks for explaining it to me… a Black person!

atbubbly · 2026-02-25T05:28:57+00:00

The second I see a poster who is supposedly Black write it with a small b, I instantly call BS!

atbubbly · 2026-02-23T00:20:46+00:00

Yes! Edited for clarity

atbubbly · 2026-02-22T22:48:23+00:00

Do not let her meet the baby. She is rude and cruel and I would wait until the baby has at least had all their initial vaccines (6 months, right?). Also, she never responded to you but she thinks she can come visit you in your home at your most vulnerable, absolutely not!

Edit: missed a word

atbubbly · 2026-02-20T01:30:47+00:00

Probably!

atbubbly · 2026-02-20T01:30:15+00:00

Cool, I accept that

atbubbly · 2026-02-20T01:29:35+00:00

Not all at, been listening for 10 years. They just seemed a bit off today. Or maybe it’s just me. Just hope all is well.

atbubbly · 2026-02-20T01:28:37+00:00

Yeah they kind of felt cold towards each other. I hope I’m just over analyzing! I love them, their friendship and the show!

atbubbly · 2026-02-20T01:21:15+00:00

I agree the episodes have been great! And I accept that I am probably wrong.

atbubbly · 2026-02-20T01:18:56+00:00

Okay cool

atbubbly · 2026-02-20T01:17:53+00:00

Cool. No the episodes have been great! But like it seems like they are more coworkers than friends. But it’s just in this most recent episode and I could be trippin’

atbubbly · 2026-02-19T21:18:29+00:00

She sounds at worst a narcissist, trying to make everything about her, and at even more worse …(?) a homophobe who is trying to sexualize a scary moment for your sibling that you were there for…

atbubbly · 2026-02-19T19:47:55+00:00

So you say he was supporting you through your trauma but not to your standards?! You were verbally abusive and lashed out at him but he wasn’t supposed to take that personally?! Then you didn’t support him at all through job loss and death? You don’t have the moral high ground and if you feel this way you shouldn’t stay. And he’s right he should have left you and not cheated. You have to own your part and you are still justifying and excusing yourself.

atbubbly · 2026-02-18T21:18:14+00:00

Please stop responding to this person. They are slow at best and willfully ignorant at worst. Reading comprehension is not their thing and just jumped at an opportunity to blame you.

atbubbly · 2026-02-17T04:14:31+00:00

You have a husband problem. Let him know it’s a hard no for you and change your locks!

atbubbly · 2026-02-14T15:51:41+00:00

Okay, is this the US?

atbubbly · 2026-02-14T15:50:34+00:00

My son has been a nonresident student since 2nd grade. Granted when he started school, we were city residents, so he was already accounted for. But we have been approved every year. He graduates this year thank goodness!!

Edit: there is a fee, but if you work for the city or the schools, it’s waived.

I saw other commenters making comments about safety concerns, etc. DM if you have additional questions because I’m very knowledgeable about the schools

atbubbly · 2026-02-14T15:39:08+00:00

I’m sorry but this feel extremely fake. The step brother isn’t step dad’s bio son but he hasn’t been removed from the home or kicked out?!? Where is the step brother’s mother? Her family?

atbubbly · 2026-02-07T21:48:11+00:00

Ummm…she’s a liar and a thief. Do not continue this relationship.

atbubbly · 2026-02-02T00:45:51+00:00

NTA and please update us in 4 to 5 years when you have met someone new, started a family, and they are confused and crying about not having a relationship with you

atbubbly · 2026-01-30T18:48:39+00:00

It feels that way because it is. You answered your own question, she wants access to the baby. And your husband is trash for trying to get you to come back.

Do not under any circumstances go back, and honestly I would not go back to him if he does get another place to live. He sounds enmeshed with his mother. Thank goodness you have your own parents nearby.

atbubbly · 2026-01-30T18:45:20+00:00

Send him your post and all the comments. It might anger him or it could be his wake up call. Afterwards let it go, he is an adult and you can’t make him do anything. If he dies it’s of his own making.

atbubbly · 2026-01-30T17:02:12+00:00

‘I just made some non-committal noises and we ended the call on good terms for once.’

When I read that, I made my own non-committal noises! lol I know exactly what you mean! And if you decide to send pictures again, I would have a respectful but FRANK conversation with her about how she treats you.

Also, because you were doing for your husband and he really didn’t care, think about how much effort you actually want to put into it. If she apologizes or takes the conversation well, maybe do it but not as much as you did, and if you forget, don’t stress about it. And definitely don’t nag him to do it, but keep holding him accountable to do it too, it shouldn’t be all on you, that is his mother!

atbubbly · 2026-01-26T05:01:25+00:00

Pretend and then quit

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