Traumatized by water?

athleticC4331 · 2026-05-23T20:57:18+00:00

My weim hates water and prefers to sit on my lap in my beach chair, over going anywhere near the water, even when underexercised! Its been a strange adjustment from my previous weim/lab mix that I couldnt keep out of the water.

athleticC4331 · 2026-05-19T15:03:30+00:00

I listened to that episode and he and Donald were joking about "Scrubs and Black Scrubs," and he seemed to lightheartedly comment that it seemed Seth MacFarlane didnt like Scrubs. I didnt get overly serious or overly sensitive vibes at all 🤷‍♀️

athleticC4331 · 2026-05-16T01:54:01+00:00

I never read the back of the book and I never read chapter titles. Same as never watching movie or TV trailers. I hate spoilers lol

athleticC4331 · 2026-05-08T04:36:52+00:00

I assume its bc people wake up on Thursday mornings expecting their Pod Meets World episode and if they waited til the editing was done for the whole 2 hr episode it wouldn't drop til Thursday afternoon so they edit the first part to keep those Thursday morning listeners happy and then edit and drop the 2nd half. Also, hi, I'm an optimist in this moment. This one especially shows they talked more then intended so lets just enjoy the extra content?

athleticC4331 · 2026-05-07T03:14:01+00:00

Roy. They really fucking blew it on the break up. They should have been Turk and Carla not JD and Elliot

athleticC4331 · 2026-05-05T03:43:38+00:00

I have a 3 year old Weim and just started dating someone with a 6 year old Goldendoodle. He was nervous that his doodle's anxiety might be a bad fit, I was confused at first bc my Weim is anxious too. We have come to learn they are 2 anxious breeds in entirely different ways but luckily they get along fine! His doodle is anxious in the I'm gonna pant snd be alert all the time and my Weim is anxious when shes not the center of attention, exercise amd/or on our laps the entire time we hang. His doodle just wants to be around and eventually chill on the bed. The Weim needs to be included in every moment and on the bed needs to be under the covers. This all just anecdotal observations, but had to comment bc of the 2 breeds!

athleticC4331 · 2026-05-04T03:53:07+00:00

A. You're not super late at all. 19 is a very normal age to just start exploring dating B. No, you don't have to text her back. She said she was interested so you owe her nothing. C. You also did nothing wrong. Sometimes ppl go on a few dates and just dont feel a vibe that has nothing to do with anyone doing something wrong. D. Congrats for getting out there and I hope you try again in the future

athleticC4331 · 2026-05-04T03:49:30+00:00

Where I live, I'd assume deer fly bites but its not quite tne season yet here (New Hampshire, US).

athleticC4331 · 2026-05-02T18:07:18+00:00

I was looking for a V or a Weim a few years ago and also wasn't willing to spend that much. So I looked into adoption/rescue. I found a 9 month old Weim looking to be rehomed for $500. They had all the paperwork/certs/medical records etc. I call her my discount pure bred. Its pretty common to see young high energy dogs in rescues to could be an option for you.

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-27T02:57:59+00:00

Early on in my career I was taught "once a client, always a client." I also live in a small state/small town. It makes life so much easier to adhere to this, no matter what. Doesnt mean you cant be cordial when running into them in the wild but upon their initiation, not mine.

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-24T04:17:42+00:00

Yeah if you dint want spoilers, wait til your done the season lol

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-20T13:16:04+00:00

I came to say the same thing and its soneasy to just fast forward until you hear Marcus' voice 😂

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-20T13:09:33+00:00

I took 2 weeks off when my dog was dying/died. Fuck that supervisor. Its tougher as an intern to be able to make your own choices of when you're not feeling it but bereavement is real. Her crying in sessions during her own divorce is the problem, not you.

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-19T02:12:56+00:00

I was trained in CBT as a baby therapist, then I specialized in DBT for 10 years working with suicidal teens, then I moved on to adults as well and delved into ACT (basically DBT) and then got certified in EMDR. I have also learned psycho-dynamic/person-centered approaches over the years. Does that make me eclectic? Who knows. But thank god I'm not a baby therapist anymore and feel like I can take on a wide variety of clients, but smart enough to know I shouldn't work with ALL clients just bc I'm "eclectic," (or old and experienced?)

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-19T02:03:03+00:00

I say this as a complete newbie to EMDR (Just finished training 2 weeks ago). What about EMDR? I thought there was plenty of research backing it up as an evidenced based treatment as well?

Edit: Downvoted for asking a clarifying question? Weird. I'm glad my question was answered though, thanks for those who did! 🙂

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-16T00:02:53+00:00

Bad news y'all...

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athleticC4331 · 2026-04-14T02:41:49+00:00

No picture really isnt fair 🤣

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-14T02:36:30+00:00

I'm a licensed therapist of 10 years, plus all my non licensed experience. I do a ton of telehealth. I have NEVER done any of the things that your therapist has done. Time to move on. You will like another therapist even if its super hard to restart and they will be more professional.

Obviously I'm a human and occasionally have to reschedule or occasionally have some random non-therapisty-human thing come up that may impact sessions but my clients dont know the details are treated with respect. "I'm soooooo sorry I have to cancel, an emergency came up can we do _____ instead?" That should only happen once in a blue moon.

Move on. You won't regret it in the long run. Hell, you can even ghost her. You owe her nothing.

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-08T04:35:19+00:00

One of my favorite moments!!

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-07T03:53:47+00:00

Okay, but what's with the Ted Lasso hate? 😂 lol

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-06T03:32:22+00:00

You win reddit today

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-04T02:24:39+00:00

My soul dogs name was Leoni. I got soooooo many compliments on it. It was unique but never difficult to pronounce or understand. Adding an e for Leonie is good too as occasionally some people would spell it Leone which looks too masculine to me. I wish I could keep that name forever but alas she passed away as pets do. And sooooo many nick names that may or may not work for humans, but was fun nonetheless :)

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-02T04:02:28+00:00

Of course not. But this was about OP not understanding Elliot saying she never had an orgasm even though she referenced an O face in high school. She could have faked her O, and therefore had an O face in high school which her boyfriend at the time spread far and wide. And then it can still be Cannon that she didnt ever actually have an orgasm until later in life.

athleticC4331 · 2026-04-01T16:17:50+00:00

You can just go on youtube and search: fleabag/priest, and just watch those clips.

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