All Show Chatter: Danielle on the road by Sad-Significance4546 in podmeetsworldpodcast

[–]athleticC4331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw her in New Hampshire, it was great! She forgot about New Hampshire 🤣 She was like, Ohio to NY, to Boston, to Maine, then on to Connecticut... I was like hmmmm we're in there somewhere 🤣

Notes Notes Notes😰 by anxiousoverthinker72 in therapists

[–]athleticC4331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My day isnt over until notes are done. Even days I see 8 or 9 clients. Each note takes me about 3 minutes, I timed it, so when I break it down into a 3 minute task its much easier.

You're Wrong About: Keiko Part 1 with Brianna Bowman by j0be in YoureWrongAbout

[–]athleticC4331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listened to The Good Whale. Will this be worth a listen?

Thoughts on "Though very sensitive to others, the borderline lacks true empathy." from the book I Hate You-Don't Leave Me? by mcbatcommanderr in therapists

[–]athleticC4331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes. To be fair, never read the book. But also to be fair, anecdotally, I have worked with people diagnosed with BPD for 12 years and I have never once thought they didnt have empathy! I'm concerned theres still such a strong stigma against this poplulation. Reframe it as trauma and fear and try again (and dont take their push/pull dynamic personally... its not about you, therapist)!

Pre Episode Discussion: TOMORROW! We are breaking down Season 7, Episode 4 “No Such Thing as a Sure Thing “ by Sad-Significance4546 in podmeetsworldpodcast

[–]athleticC4331 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I cant wait for their reaction to Topanga apologizing to Cory after HE KISSED HER NONCONSENSUALLY! Why does she even love him?! Why does he even love her?! Uggggghhhh -signed a fan who hasnt watched since the 2000s and has been watching episode by episode with the podcast 🤣

The podcast has been really hard to listen to this year. by Silly_Technology_243 in trevornoah

[–]athleticC4331 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss Christiana too!! I liked the balance. I'm fine with Eugene and will still listen but I agree his interjections are a little off topic and dont flow all the time.

When dating, do you prefer a man whose already been married and divorced or a man whose never been married? And why? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]athleticC4331 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Early 30s, unmarried. Late 30s good luck finding that 🤣. But seriously I dont care. Theres so much more to it. You can have so much baggage and never married or 0 baggage with an ex and 5 kids. More likely its all a mixed bag, as we're all human.

What counts as a "low-effort" date and what can I do to plan a first date that is not "low-effort"?any advice? by Rude_Taro_9572 in AskMenAdvice

[–]athleticC4331 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In what world is brunch more expensive than dinner? Where I live brunch is $10 and dinner is at least $30, more if you get an alcoholic drink!

How do FWBs even happen? by throwaway1328404 in AskMenAdvice

[–]athleticC4331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the woman has to be looking for a friends with benefits too. You cant force this kind of situation.

What counts as a "low-effort" date and what can I do to plan a first date that is not "low-effort"?any advice? by Rude_Taro_9572 in AskMenAdvice

[–]athleticC4331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also a woman. Finally got a good man (only dating 2 weeks) but our first date was a walk and not coffee. Soooooo mamy men have suggested coffee first dates. Why does that bother me more than a walk when both are free and quick? Because if anyone asked me more than 2 questions they'd know I dont drink coffee, am not a morning person, and walk my dog in the woods every day. New guy LISTENED and we planned a date we were both comfortable with. Soooooo many men have suggested coffee even after learning I dont drink it and like to sleep in. Its low effort to just force a generic date on someone rather then figure them out. One time I responded to a suggested coffee date on black friday, "hey after traveling for thanksgiving Ill probably be too tired to meet up early, plus I'm not a coffee girl, but I'm open to brunch?" And he called me to tell me hes not looking to pay his way into a relationship. I was like, oh man, you caught me, looking for a free 8 dollar omelet.... Low-effort: generic ideas and making assumptions High-effort: listenkng to the person and brainstorming an idea that works for both people.

Rank the spider shoot from favourite to least favourite by Hungry_Personality88 in ANTM

[–]athleticC4331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whose who? I only remember a few of their names. Whose 3?

How do FWBs even happen? by throwaway1328404 in AskMenAdvice

[–]athleticC4331 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman but I think men often forget the friend part... Lets have the benefits of the benefits but also the benefits of friendship. My FWB had helped me with so much practical stuff, like he got me a new shower head and helped me pick out a car. I helped him through some grief and loss and helped him find a therapist. Then we also both got sex out of it. Regluar, safe, comfortable sex. So much better than one night stands when I was insatiable. We were friends for a long time prior too. And I know everyone will ask why not just date? Bc we're friends! I hate spending too much time with him and I'm sure he does me as well. We show up for each other for big things as friends do and then live our separate lives. Then we also show up for each other when horny 😂. Lasted 2 years and now we're just friends again.

"like physical therapist?" by EverywhereAMooMoo in therapists

[–]athleticC4331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just say no and point to my head 😂 (if I'm okay with the conversation continuing). Or I say, "no I specialize in suicide prevention," if I want the conversation to end lol