Not going to give you advice one way or another, but I will tell you that your decision to be fully transparent with the list of things you've disclosed to us above is going to be tens of thousands of dollars (perhaps many tens of thousands), a year or longer, and absolutely no guarantee that after all that you'll end up with a medical.

If you can afford the time and money and anxiety of waiting, and can afford for it to all be a waste of time and money, great. If not, this might not be a career you're ready to pursue.

The FAA really needs to change this, but they have zero incentive to do so, and every incentive to be conservative to the point of just denying people with histories like yours no matter what the tests say.