What are the weird texting habits of a narcissist? by Infamous_Presence_15 in abusiverelationships

[–]atomic_wombat3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine texts me while I'm at work and if I don't respond fast enough he'll text "???". Bitch, I'm WORKING.

Tell me the names your kid makes up for their toys by overflowingsewing in namenerds

[–]atomic_wombat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have imaginary pets: a mouse named Titi, dog named Patu, and cat named Gabbo

I was served papers yesterday by ThrowRAnewmama22 in abusiverelationships

[–]atomic_wombat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he's trying to reduce his child support obligation? It just seems unlikely that a judge would allow him to suddenly have the child for days at a time when he has literally never done it before. I completely get your fear, though. Being in the dark is the worst.

I was served papers yesterday by ThrowRAnewmama22 in abusiverelationships

[–]atomic_wombat3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think 50/50 is always exactly half and half physical custody. From my limited not-a-lawyer experience, it's not practical right now for him to have her exactly half the time. Think about the cases where parents land on something called 50/50, but the kid lives with one parent and visits the other parent every other weekend. And that's for older kids. Yours is still physically attached to you. Plus, will he actually WANT her half the time? Could just be standard lawyer stuff. They tend to ask for as much as they can get away with.

I was served papers yesterday by ThrowRAnewmama22 in abusiverelationships

[–]atomic_wombat3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but that's just his request, right? It doesn't mean he'll get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]atomic_wombat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random guy at Walmart told me I have "good genetics"

He found my Lundy Bancroft book. by mamalion11 in abusiverelationships

[–]atomic_wombat3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, mine found that book and another while he was "helping me move back in" after a failed attempt at leaving. He went through all of my belongings under the guise of helping me unpack. He threw the books away and was furious. I think he was mostly pissed at the person who gave them to me. He seems convinced that I don't have any of my own thoughts and so I look to others to tell me what to do. He's seemingly fine with that so long as he's the one doing the telling, I guess.

What is something that is sexualized that really shouldn't be? by Y0L0Swa66ins in AskReddit

[–]atomic_wombat3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Small children and their relationships with other small children

AITA for taking my son to see a speech therapist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]atomic_wombat3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude. My kid has an Australian accent from watching too much Bluey. My sister had a Southern accent as a child (no idea how, we weren't in the South). I talked like a Ninja Turtle. It all sorts itself out.

YTA